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writes: Hey Cupids,I am a little confused as I seem to be inlove with two guys at the same time. How is this even possible??! Have you ever been in this situation? And how do you know which one to pick since you care about both of them and have a great time with both? One is a bf I've had for years who's always been nice and cute and attentive, the other one is a friend of mine who's just plain awesome. How do you know whether it's love or just butterflies?Confusing...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): I think that this is very possible and you can love people for different reasons. I guess if you can love more than one friend of the opposite sex at the same time then you can fancy them both romantically as well. If you need to pick and you dont want to hurt either (are they interested in you romantically?) , you might have to seek love elsewhere, otherwise go with your heart..
Let us know how you get on and who you chose (and why) ;)
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 You are definitely attracted to your awesome friend. Since your bf is cute and attentive, maybe your relationship has to take a more stable stand so you can reach a decision with him. Thing is there's always someone out there who you're going to be attracted to; so your awesome friend is a side attraction unless there are other issues with your bf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2011): Do they know about each other?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 Why is there any need to pick?
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