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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Do I have to tell them where I'm going after I resign from this job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I have decided I need to leave my job for many different reasons. I know it sounds crazy to do but I am just not happy..it's been almost 5 yrs and feel I am not qualified to do anything else. I feel I am better off getting a part time job and ...

My Bf believes others on my past Bf history. What do I need to do to show my Bf that I am telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - ok so i have been dating my bf for about a year and 3 months already and he recently found pictures of an ex boyfriend of mine who had broken my heart 4 months before i met my current bf and someone is telling my bf that my x and me didnt finish ...

I love her but my brain says run. I need help please to resolve serious reservations about this 'situation'.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I am madly in love and constantly dream about this woman. I cannot get enough of her... But, my brain disagrees. There are real signs that something is really wrong with her... She can't manage money. She cries at the drop of a hat (we can be o...

What criteria do I use to choose which guy? I like them both. They know each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago i met a guy and we've been getting on well and he's been taking me out over the past few weeks and it's been nice and it's obvious he likes me but he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend (I know it's only been a few weeks so i guess ...

Why do I still loved my violent alcohol bully ex whole stole to buy drugs? Yet I still miss him. How do stop my craving for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - We've all been here i know but Im struggling to keep it together. Here it goes. Me and my daughters dad was together 5yrs with a few breaks between. We broke up around a month ago but he still lived in our house until yesterday and i miss him so m...

I'm Too skinny. How can I safety build up my body without being muscles plus and not using scams? Safe only.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - hi guys i'm 18 and very slim. i have very thin arms thin enough you can wrap your whole hand around them, you can see my ribs sort of when i take my shirt off. I hate it and I hate taking my shirt off. i don't want to be really muscley or reall...

I don't believe in love at our age! How do I stay away from boys and not get hurt?

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10 September 2011 (F) - I never had a real relationship. Always fell for guys. And always got hurt. So so many times! Only this one boy! I believed in us. I believed it's true love. But I broke up with him after few weeks of being together because I travelled for ...

Can I hope for a relationship with him? He asked me what I thought about him getting back together with his ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I am 33 years old and have been spending time with a gentleman around my same age. A mutual friend introduced us to each other and he indicated to her that he was interested in me...but he was going to take it slow. It's been 4 months since we have...

So how do I survive and triumph and wash this guy out of my hair? Still in anger mode after the break up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I'd like to thank everyone who helped me a month ago to realize that I had to break up with my long distance boyfriend who was in the army. It was the best decision I ever made. It was difficult to end it because he kept talking t...

My married lover puts me in awkward situations where I have to meet his wife. Why would he do this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I am having an affair with a married man and have been for over 6 yrs, we are both in our late 50's,we both care for each other very much and get on really well and enjoy seeing each other. we can't break it off so please no moral judgments. i...

Does he sound like someone who could grow up and see me as the girl he could build a life with or should I just forget him altogether?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Met an american man while I was traveling in africa (i am canadian), dated him for 3 months, "just to have fun". I was 27 and a virgin with a couple of serious past boyfriends, he was 23 and a non-virgin with lots of casual making out/fooling around ...

My husband and I both have fantasies. How can I bring up my fantasy for his consideration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - A few years ago my husband told me he had a dream of me having sex with a very large woman. We talked and for the first time I admitted to him I always wondered what it would be like and I get turned on watching lesbian porn. I told him how nerv...

My Gf and I have reunited. But she is acting strange. Why would she do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Almost three weeks ago I got back together with my ex, spent the day with her, had a fairly good time. She's called me once since then to tell me she's going over to a friends' house, then hangs up like I'm just someone else. She swears up and ...

I am gay. He flirts with me but also sees girls. What do I need to do, and how, to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I have been in love with my best friend for the best part of three years, Our relationship is THE best... We hang out alot, we do sport together and we are very open with each other, buy I know I should give up and move on but I can't... He is ...

Should I give it a try? And talk to my ex-friend who I was in love with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I lost a great friend four years ago. He wanted to be in a relationship with me and I am sure he knew how much I loved him despite the fact that I tried my hardest to hide my feelings. Then came the time when I had to move out of my home state for ...

Is it better to distance yourself or to keep on trying after being rejected by a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - SO i have this friend. I asked her out/told her I liked her and she said that she was not rejecting me but literally had no time to make it work, so it would be unfair to the both of us. She said that maybe in the future something may happen but not ...

I want, need, to be more confident. But how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I would like to be more confident around my girlfriend. I always feel so needy around her and i always seem to initiate things from emotional comfort and for sex. Could anyone give me tips on how to be more confident? Thank you...

He will not face me. Why can't some men face you when they break up with you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I need some help. I was dating my BF for 6 months. He just broke up with me via email. Never had one single conversation about anything not working. Tells me I'm wonderful, amazing and he thinks we're just supposed to be friends... but won't talk to ...