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36-40,
anonymous
writes:There was a guy I knew for four years. I sort of liked him because he was always there for me when I needed it. He never judged me or anyone by their exterior and I feel like there was something there for me. I was super insecure so I let him go and at times on my ambitious drive would choose other guys over him just to see if I could get them. A year after not seeing him, I got in touch. He had a gf so I backed off. I ended up falling for his friend. I didn't know they were good friends. Both of them ended up getting out of touch. He even blocked me on facebook,etc. However, I just noticed that he unblocked me. I feel like both of us did things wrong. He shouldn't have talked about me with his friend...and I shouldn't have continiously chosen guys over him.When I look back, he is still the guy I respect beyond any and the one I can communicate with most openly and who understands me. I don't know if I do love him...but I know that in some strange way we get one another. As for his friend, he never tried to get in touch or unblock me.Even if his friend had unblocked me, though my feelings were stronger for his friend, I respect him so much that I would always choose him over love. Should I add him back on facebook or should I wait for him to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. I really believe I'm doing the right thing even though I messed up too. It's not a form of game playing...it is just psychological understanding about the diff btw guys and girls. I guess I was getting concerned bc its hard to wait things out.
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reader, askme2011 +, writes (3 September 2011):
sit back and observe. and remember a man doesnt like to be hounded or chased
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