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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How odd is it for dominant men to be submissive in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a very big guy, about 200lb, 6.2ft and very muscular (lifts weights). His parents were physically abusive at worst, uncaring at best and both abused drugs and alcohol -- his father was particularly brutal. Tough life, to say the ...

We're bi-sexual & in relationships, she's making advances, I just want to be friends, how do I tell her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - ok so im 100% bisexual and in the past i have had as many girlfriends as i have had boyfriends. anyway im 19 and i have a boyfriend and we are very much in love. will be our 2 year anniversary in november and we already live together and do ...

After this, do you think I will hear from him again??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

26 July 2011 (?) - Me and a guy i knew from school (we're 24 now) used to have a casual thing when we were both single. I'd never done "casual" sex before and after a while i began to have feelings for him. At one point i told him that i didn't think i could be casual ...

Why do I feel so strongly about this guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Why do I feel so strongly about this guy. i really like him.? I really like this guy at work. He's really friendly and lovely. He stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him. I gave him my number, we were chatting on t...

When a man takes longer with sex, does that mean he has had sex recently??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - my boyfriend lives away and we see each other ever weekend, when we have sex he usely comes quick, last weekend i had sex with him and he toke longer than normal, i do trust him but i have heard that when a man takes longer it can mean they have ...

My family dislikes my bf, I love him, they do crazy things to break us up, should I move out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, my sister and my mother hate my boyfriend!and i feel like its creating a gap between us and this makes no sense!when i ask them why they dont like him their only reasons are because he doesnt have much money all the time to take me to ...

Happened eleven years ago & I am fuming over a stripper, should I let it go??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - i just found out after 11 years, that the stripper cut my soon to be husbands clothes off of him while three of his "friends" (one was his brother and "best man") held him down!! then she had them lay him on the floor while she "danced" over the top ...

Could my attraction to women be a passing thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Hey. Okay lately i've been finding myself attracted to women. When i watch women porn it seems to turn me on. I've been hurt real bad by my ex boyfriends in the past and i just got this feeling of dating a woman. But they say a woman can hurt you ...

Should I take him back after what he did??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for 5 months. He was in the army during the week, and during most of the weekends he was home. When he was here in the weekend we spended most of our time together. He was so in love with me t...

I don't want to be somebody who is never happy with what they have....but I dream of being with another man!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I just turned 30, well, geeze, I'm not sure what's really important to outline here, but here goes: I've had long relationships throughout my life with the most recent being 5 years now, but I've never made it past 6 years... maybe that's just coi...

I don't feel I can continue in this relationship, but I cant bear to hurt a child in the process....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I am really struggling and just don't know what to do. And this is from someone who always has a solution for everything. I feel I need to end a relationship to survive - but I can't bear to hurt a child. I have been with my Partner for two ...

Paid online jobs to help people with their problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Does anyone know if there are any paid jobs where you can help people with their problems online, or would it be voluntary ?. I have been thinking recently that i'd like to have a job where i can help people, and, of course, being on dear cupid made ...

Is getting a nose job a good idea?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I know this is a relationship website, but i really really need some advice as to what to do and how to deal with what people will think. I know i shouldn't care about others opinions but i really can't help it!! Basically, since i was about 11 i...

His debt is ruining our lives and relationship....what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My partner is in SO much debt and is very very stressed. We don't go out and we don't do anything as there is no money. he is self employed so his income in quite low, and whatever income he has goes on paying back the debt and other bills. I ha...

How do I moderate my behaviour and be a good girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Sorry for any rambling but here is a quick low down of my situation. Basically,I have a boyfriend who is kind, sweet, ect. ect. I am not in love with him and doubt I ever will be but we are really close and I genuinely like him a lot and he knows...

No sex and he is in touch with his ex's.....what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My husband keeps in contact with past wife and girlfriends then tries to hide it. Our sex life is batting zero and has been for the past 2 years. It seems as though he wants to live in his past. What does this mean...

Why is arrogance so appealing? Should I become more arrogant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - Hi! I m a 25yr old, have average looks, good physique, sound financial position, and have a good behaviour(as people around me say). I never disgrace someone, never think anyone is inferior to me, never show off my attitude to anybody. Some of ...

Trying too hard to make everyone else happy is making me depressed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Any help is appreciated. So my girlfriend and I broke up and we have always been on and off but recently we've been really great. She says we act like friends and its true shes my bestfriend, but I feel like she wants to just jump into another rel...

Should I face my fears head on and go to this party? Or should I admit that the past 2 years have been a failure and forget them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - For the past two years I've been at a college on the other side of my city, the side I had never set foot in before. It's a very tight-knit community that doesn't care for strange outlanders it seems. I tried at first, I really did. But as soon as ...