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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Does unrequited passion amuse beautiful women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - We’ve all met them. Gorgeous, intelligent women, who have what outsiders would judge, as beautiful lives. They have success in family and professional life, and in love. I’ve met some who are not only gorgeous and intelligent, but outstanding ...

To model topless? Or to reduce them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

4 July 2011 (?) - hey people. So basically i am a very petite 5"2 brunette with 32dd breasts. I have two offers on the table to do topless modelling. A couple of years ago i wanted to do it, but now, i hate my boobs. they just look ridiculous on me and i am seriously ...

Reasons I can't move in with my controlling boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, soo I've been dating my boyfriend for two and a half years. We both know we want each other in our future but today he asked me if I wanted to MOVE IN TOGETHER AND START LOOKING FOR A PLACE! And it scared me for some reason, I did feel ...

I can't let another man get close to me.... Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Okay, I am haunted by a question... Back story: Two years ago, I was in a 2 1/2 year long relationship (that started out as a 5 year friendship) that suddenly, and quite unexpectedly went sour. My ex turned verbally and emotionally abus...

I get the feeling he likes me but I am worried I could be reading too much into this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Just want your thoughts on this. I like my friend's brother and I think he feels the same. He's about 5 years younger, met him a few times at social gatherings and just a bit confused. Last saw him at friend's bbq and did catch him looking at m...

How do I last longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Hi There, Okay, I'll make this short. Soon I will be having sex for the first time. But my question is how do I 'last' longer? I know when I masturbate I ejaculate fairly soon. But often it varies. Now sex will be A LOT more different t...

Does it bother you if you are aware that your husband is seeing another woman for sex, but he will stay in your marriage and take all other responsibilities?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - If you are the wife... By reading so many questions /dramas caused by husbands' cheating (on wivies' side and the other women's side), it seems that most husbands cheat for 'sex'. If the sexual ife is not as good as it used to be (e.g., you...

I feel ashamed for being so weak! Any tips on how to stop this happening again and progress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - excuse the length but it helps to write this. last night i had a long think about where my life is going and a guy ive known for a while and thought he was a friend isnt. i stupidly thought he loved me as i had strong feelings for him and always ...

Teenage age differences, what's the big deal? Were me and my friends wrong back then?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I was brought up in Australia and many years ago when I was a young fella, I had a quite a large and great social group of friends. The ages of these people was anywhere from 15/16 to 22/23, and probably as many girls as guys. Now there were of ...

With no money.....how will I be able to change things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - This might a little long and at some point nonsensical... This is the first time i ever write what's really on my mind and it's also the first time i express myself honestly and with no strings attached. I should mention however that i am not a US...

Half of me says I should stay because I love her, the other half says leave because she's a cheater....what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - So i had been with my current girlfriend for 1 and a half years. we met in senior year of high school fell deeply in love it was great i couldnt tell you how strong my love for her was..i was gonna marry her i was completely commited to her. Then ...

How do I get the man I want and let the other one down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - i met this man 4 month ago, he stayed with me for the first week we met then we saw each other at least 3 or 4 times a week, but then he kept asking me if we could be sex budddies. i said no i deserved better and he understood. we didnt speak for 6 ...

Why do I fall for guys easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Why do i fall for guys easily? i met this guy from a friend and i immediately agreed to be his gf and then the next day we met and i had sex with him. When i went home my dad got angry and learned that i went out on a date and grounded me so i never ...

In love with a man my family would not approve of, all the while they are trying to arrange a marriage for me! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hello all, I am Indian,28 years old and in love with a white man 15 years my senior.We don't find our age differences an issue at all. From a cultural perspective, my parents don't approve of me marrying a white man and outside of our caste/religi...

What should I do? I'm doing things I normally wouldn't do and wouldn't agree with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I'm involved with a married man who's still with his wife. we have a 1 years old baby we've been apart for 10 months because he lied about being married and I couldn't take him getting his cake and eating it too. But now we've been back together on ...

Does watching lesbian porn mean I'm a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Dear people Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation. I used to watch porn and I stopped because I hated it and I felt disgusted every time I do it. I watched lesbian porn and I felt aroused. But I HATED it afterwards. lesbian sex...

Should I consider it? It sounds like maybe he likes me a little though? He's a decent guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - there was a guy i knew from grammar school and now i am 26..i think a few years ago we may have liked each other..we hung out once to catch up but then i think he wound up in a relationship with another girl from the same school. I met someone as ...

If you are not beautiful? Beauty is so useless. Why do people give such a damn about it?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I hate my body and can't accept it! let's just say that my body looks nothing like the 36-24-36 ideal of the media. And sure people say that it's the inside that matters but people are so hypocritical! Especially men! Because they say they want a ...