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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Can you teach someone to communicate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - so right here it is in a nutshell. I have been dating this girl, she's apples, really a sweetheart, very very pretty, charming, the whole lot. problem is---she cannot communicate. when she is upset, she shuts down and wont talk. wont tell wh...

Did I do the right thing in letting my husband go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Husband and I shared 11 years before we married in 2000, giving us 21. He was a social butterfly always needing to be around people. For the past 18 years he did make all decisions, took control of everything, he was the type needing to be in ...

Is there a chance things will work out in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. My girlfriend and I of 1 year and 3 months recently broke it off a couple days ago. She is 23 and I am 26 years old. She initiated the breakup, and although a lot of emotions were shown from the both of us, it was very mutual and I did ...

Is it really a big deal if I have never been in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Why do women make its such a big deal, if you've never been in a relationship? (girls is it a red flag or what? and how is it a red flag, i mean if somebody hasnt been through a intimate relationship, does that make it a no go?) ive honestly been...

Is it worth going after a man who is very popular with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Is it worth going after a guy who is very attractive, and who a lot of girls fancy ?. This guy seems interested in me. I think he is very attractive, but i've noticed from his facebook page that a lot of girls find him attractive. They post comments ...

Do you think you can determine how attractive you are by how attractive the people who hit on you are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I think that the question pretty much says it all. Do you all think that you can only be as attractive as the most attractive person that hits on you or asks you out? So if people you consider good looking ask you out, you are probably good looking ...

Can our daughter's possible health problem turn-off my wife's feelings for me and depress her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Me and my wife married for 10 years, have two kids. Latelly we have observed that our 5 years old daughter have some socilal adoptive problem. She doesn't follow social rules. She doesn't like to play with kids, doesn't follow the reules in class. ...

How do I overcome being attracted to gay men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I find myself attracted to gay men often unknowingly, most of the time I don't find out they're gay until later. I realize it's mostly because they're safer and less threatening than straight men, who I almost have a fear of. How do I overcome this? ...

I did not make these things happen. But they do affect me. How do people deal with these family pressures?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - What would you think,if your whole life got attacked by really bad fate? My life history is so tragic, nobody would eve believe it. My brother killed himself years ago, than my sister got into heroin and overdosed. Than my boyfriend died i...

I'm 7 months pregnant. Can our marriage survive his continuing infidelity? Why an I not enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Can this marriage survive his continuing infidelity? i recently got married two months ago, me and my husband decided to after we found out i was pregnant im 7 months along now. we originally live in one arab country and had to get married in a ...

Should I just stay patient, until they break up? She's with my friend. I had my chance but left it too late to try

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - hi guys i recently asked for help on getting closer to this girl who i like. But i found out yesterday from my friend who i respect and i think hes a nice guy that he goes out with her and he even told me he loves her a lot! How am i supposed to f...

Is this best option? Am I wrong in now not wanting to attend my son's wedding after all the humiliation he has put me through?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I recently split up with my partner of 7 years. I've kept myself busy with preparations of my sons wedding in 2 weeks.It has stopped me from mourning my loss, and helped me fight the tears and pain that are tearing me up inside. I loved my partner ...

Do guys care if their girlfriend is taller than them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I have been talking to this guy my friend introduced to me too online for quite awhile and he's going to be in my area soon soon so we're going to meet in person. I am tall, 5"10 to be exact, and I know he is about four to five inches shorter t...

How do I deal with my bf's dad who controls his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4yrs. It hasn't always been easy, but it's been worth it. Thing is, his father is very controlling of him. He's now 22 and his father still controls everything he does. He's not allowed to come out with my ...