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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

It was anonymous, but I feel kinda guilty and scared that he'll know it was me, did I do something awful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6042 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - There's this website where you upload pictures (photoblog). A guy I used to be friends with, a long time ago, had written a lot about me, 'cos he was obsessed with me back then. I had written stuff to him there also, because he was a friend of mine, ...

I think I may have been date raped by my boss.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I think I was date-raped. I ran in to my boss in a bar after I had already been drinking, and he offered to get me a drink. I asked for a vodka orange, but he asked me if I would prefer vodka redbull, and got me that instead. After that drink, I...

He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...

I am so sexually frustrated and all the masturbating in the world cannot help me!! Can you??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a major problem with my marriage. Although my relationship with my husband is great in every other way, the sex is so lame that i cannot take it. It´s pretty much the usual 2-minute missionary intercourse under the covers w...

Mother's Day blues...is it selfish to want to be by myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

11 May 2008 (?) - Hey guys. Its mothers day, and I have 2 very young kids. Is it selfish of me to just want to be by myself today? I mean, I made the kids and my husband a big breakfast, but now, I just want to be alone, play guitar all day. Is this "holiday" really ...

My smile is awful! What can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6042 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - OK, I'm 15, and I have a really awful smile! i'm quite pretty (ish) but when i smile showing my teeth it kind of makes my chin jut out, and my teeth are awful anyway even though ive had braces. Please, does anyone have any advice on what i can do ...

I am questioning my same sex relationship now that the 'Honymoon Period' is over. Can you advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - hi. i just need some advice. im 23 and have been in a same sex relationship for just on 2 years now. iv been extremely happy in the relationship and to be honest could not think of there being any better. I'v been in love with my partner exlusive...

Are there any men out there not obsessed with porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I was in a long term relation-ship with a guy who was far from the type who goes after big breasted bimbos, and who was interested in feminism and wanted his girlfriend to be his intellectual partner. Sounds great.But it turned out that he had huge ...

My boyfriend has moved abroad without considering me, should I follow him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has moved from the UK to the US a month ago - something he has had planned for 2 years. I met him 14 months ago and we fell in love quickly but he never once considered whether I was able to come with him and decided that he could not ...

I want to do something romantic, not sexy. Ideas please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - hi everyone ok so what should i do! i want 2 do something romantic and sexy on monday nite 4 my bf and i was thinking make a couple snacks lay a blanket down on the ground and look up at the stars talk cuddle. but i was thinking theres got 2 b ...

Love is not something to base a relationship on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - In my experience "love" is not something to base a relationship on. It makes you ignore what the relationship will realistically be like down the road. When you act on "love" and create a relationship, you still need to get over the "honeymoon" ...

My husband doesn't want to have sex anymore, is it time to move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I thought this was the perfect man for me. we were so in love when we got married. We made love several times a day. We loved to hang out together, talk for hours. We have not made love in a very long time.. almost a year. I constantly asked him ...

My college debts are dragging me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Hi not really a love question but anyway here goes. Im 21 ill be 22 next month and im at uni. I have another year to go and am already in debt with fees and everything. My problem is im dying to go travelling and I feel like everyone my age is going ...

Could he still love me after seven long years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Can a guy really go a long perioud of time away from you but really acctually love you very much the whole time.seven years is a long time,I know he loves me,I am just hoping that hes really changing and iam getting old or somthing....

Will having sex with this woman make me stop yearning for her, alleviate this sexual frustration so I can focus on my marriage?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I'm getting concerned about my sexual feelings for my wife, as I've been strongly attracted to a very attractive and wholesome woman at work, and I came to learn she feels the same as me, and she is also married. There has been no sex between us a...

Why is all the good not remembered, just my inadequacy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6042 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - many years of being loving and loyal in a marriage, does it really matter? being disabled leaving me lacking in the intimacy department, so it is not as often as it use to be, i thought i was living a life of love,but now she says it is not enough. ...

I have a huge crush on my older previous mentor, but she thinks it would be a conflict. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I am a 30 year old married women and I am hopelessly in love with a much older married woman (60) who used to me my mentor at work. I recently left my job because I thought it would be a conflict of interest if we ended up getting together. I don't ...

How do I get better at small talk with strangers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - As much as I try, when I meet new people have trouble making small talk. Part of it also relates to my confidence (nearly non-existent). What are some good topics that don't make me look overly friendly? And how do I generally improve my confiden...

I feel really great about myself...except for my body. I'm so upset, how can I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I'm glad to say I've been improving my self esteem. As a result, I'm less jealous of other girls, and less envious (baout their personalities, or how well they do in school, their talents, things like that). I feel better, as I know I'm worth a lot, ...

Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and gene...

My new downstairs neighbour is storing her urine in the house for her compost bin, and it's making me sick!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Please help. My new downstairs neighbour is storing her urine in the house for her compost bin. Smells so bad. I am so worried. I live in a council house, converted into up and down flats. New neighbour moves in, bad smell. I have lived here for ...

How can I make money to help out my mum and dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - The price for gas is going up, Food prices are going up, basically everything costs more! So, my mom and dad are getting low on money. But i'm a responsible and GROWING 13 year old [ha] and i'm tired of asking my mom and dad. Plus, summer is comi...