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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Does she fancy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - When I was in a restaurant the other day, this woman kept looking at me and smiling (repeatedly!) I have seen her there before and she has done the same then and it seems to be me she smiles the most! She keeps looking back at me? Does she ...

What do guys want in girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Im 15 and you know like basically all girls want to go out with a guy thats kind, sweet and funny. Well what do guys want from girls??? Girls want 'sweet and funny'. What do guys want in girls?...

I made 'amateur' pics for my man, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - i trust my man of many many years and we have made some amature home videos, watched them and immediatly deleted them. yesterday we took pictures that he could enjoy while hes on days off or alone at home. i trust that he would never remove them ...

How can I go about getting him back without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - So my bf and I have been on and off since december, we love eachother very much, but broke up yesterday because he's depressed and I don't know how to deal with it, and just started mothering him which he didn't like. I have missed being single for ...

After a family wedding, my boyfriend suddenly decided he did not want to be in a relationship. What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - I'm 26 I have been in a relationship for the last 5 months with a guy of 27 who who I really like. We got together while he was still with his previous partner of 5 years but he decided to leave her so we could get together properly. He has told ...

What does not being "in touch" indicate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6653 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - If a person that you have a relationship with, apologises for not being "in touch" and the reason is that they have been absolutely swamped at work. Does this mean that they are not interested in you anyomore or do not want to speak to you for some ...

I am having a destination wedding, but my family may not be able to afford it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - im getting married in a year, its a destination wedding, im scared to tell my aunts and uncles because we are so close and may not be able to afford to go. i have mentioned about a year ago that i wanted a wedding in the carribean and they blew up ...

Were they talking about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - hii im kinda worrying about what to do its just for over a year i really liked this boy and i was talkin to my m8s about him at this sleepover and i was sayin how kind and what a great personality and they were talking about how hot the people they ...

I feel like im in limbo, will he leave his current gf to get back with me ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - i was seeing my first boyfriend for five years and i broke it off.i went out with someone else for five years and recently broke it off. in all this time we kept in touch with my ex and he never really went out with anyone. after i became single, ...

He looks at other girls, am I being to demanding of my own insecurities!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - I have been dating my partner for two years now. It began as a friendship and after quite sometime developed into a love relationship. This was intentional on my part as I wanted to be sure before committing myself totally. I am deeply in love with ...

Whats up with my GF is she dperessed ? and what can I do to help ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - myself and my girlfriend have been going through a differcult period.in my eyes she has depression?we have 3 lovely kids together.2 girls one 11 and one 8 years old.1 son of nearly 2 years old. she used to spend alot time round her friend houses, ...

He hung up on me, opinions please!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Hi there, Could I have someone else's opinion on this? I got a message from my boyfriend yesterday on the phone that his car was giving him trouble and then a second one telling me nevermind it worked-I called him back and heard him say hello and I ...

Im I being overly sensitive or is he hiding something ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Hello guys. I wanted to ask advice on whether I should be worried about some texts I found on my boyfriends phone. I know I shouldnt have looked, but it was sitting there and I just oculdnt resist. It was more nosiness than anything to be honest, I ...

Ive lost trust in all women including my sis and my mum as all women do is break my heart!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - i ask this girl out back in january but she said no. She knows I fancy her and she was always really nice to me. However last week I found out that she got drunk and slept with another guy. As you would expect I was devastated. But now I've started ...

I slept with him and now cant get rid of him, it was a mistake and wish it didnt happen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Back in April I slept with this guy (he was my first and he wasn't my boyfriend it was just sex). I hate to sound b*tchy but I have to tell the truth... he was a bit of a minger. It grosses me out just thinking about him. No seriously. People would ...

My gf has gone off sex and its because she feels unattractive, how can I best handle this as its very frustrating!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - My partner of 4yrs has gone off of sex. I am trying to support her as best I can as she says that she feels fat and has done for months now. This has been since she felt that some of her clothes getting too tight. She has a wonderful body and is not ...

What does it mean when a girl tells you they feel very comfortable with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, when you are dating a girl after 2 months she says shes very comfortable with you, in what sense does that mean...

This guy wants me to work off my debt with sex. Why am I allowing this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - **Hey Cupid's** Am I slut? I don't want to think I am. I can justify myself. There is this guy who has lust me for quiet a while, at least 2 years. He's been very close to me, friend wise. I have told him everything and I confide in him. At the m...

I think the drink is messing with my girlfriends feelings. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - Hi my girlfriend recentaly went up to hull university we have been together for two years. I visited her for the first time after two weeks since she went up. She said that she felt confused and she didnt want to be in a relationship anymore before ...

How do I get this guy off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Hi. I want to know how to get a guy off. I like to go out dancing and the like and i have met some guys i really like and i want to know how by dancing can i get the guy to have a hard on. My friends say it's easier you just need to rub up against ...

Hes embarrased because I like him, what should I say to him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - i like this chap in college, he knows my sisters and half the people round my street,hes recently found out that i like him, but ive heard that he is embarrased,but i dont know why. what shall i say to him....

He loses his erection... Should I mention it to him and what can we do about it ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have just started sleeping with my new boyfriend and I think he is gorgeous and we get on so well. He is 28 and I am a few years younger - we have been seeing each other for about 2 months. He seems to have a problem with his...

Is this a wake up call to make our relationship work, or should I move on ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - I am 25 and have been with my Girlfriend for about 5 years now, we have a house together and a couple of dogs. We have got on great but I get the feeling that she is staring to go off us being a couple! She has started to become close to a collea...

He has trust issues from past bad relationships, but wants me in his life, I like him alot, is there anything I can do to make him feel at ease ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Hi everybody, hope you can help. I have a really good friend who I have known a few months and during this time I have developed strong feelings for him because he is an amazing, kind, funny guy. My problem is he was hurt in the worst way possible ...

A couple of guys have said I am boring, and moan alot! How can I change this as I wasnt aware and now my confidence is totally knocked!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Hello, I need to know how to talk to men. Im 23 and single and this is because most men that know me think Im dull and boring. They only go out with me because they think Im physically attractive but have no personality. A few men have said this ...

When we first got together he was seeing his ex, I think he still is, but he says not!! What do I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6656 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - Hi im 18 and with a 21 yr old man. its been 3 months now and when we had been together a month i found out he was still goin back to his ex. Even now people are telling me that he has been at his ex's flat. An enemy of my boyfriend had said that he ...

Is my wife having a mid life crisis or has she met someone else!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - About 6 months ago my wife moved out of our suburban home, stating that she was confused about her feelings for me after 12 years of marriage and said she wasn't sure she was atracted to me anymore. She comes home for brief visits, usually to ...

My Bf comes from a military background, and often orders me around! How can we work around this ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - My b/f and I have been living together for almost a year. During this time, I've come to realize how many differences we have. For one, he came from a military family. His father was mean and abusive as a way to "toughen" him up and make him a ...

My fiancee refuses to go to any family fucntions, what can I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6656 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - My fiance refuses to go to my family functions with me. He can't stand my little sister and her daughter, ( in which I am very close to). What should I do?...

Im a lesbian and ive been sleeping with my uncles ex wife!.. but now I dont know whats going on!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - ok so im 28 and a lesbian and ive been sleeping with my uncles ex wife i had a thing for her when i was younger then we ended up sleeping together and have been for 5 months she has 4 kids and they kinda know and hate me there my cousins i she tells ...

How can I best help my wife after her past rape's ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - My wife feels like she was destroyed by two boys when she was younger. These boys caught her in a room by herself and took advatage of her. One was a brutal rape, but the others where when she was very drunk and she did not want it to happen but the ...