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writes: i trust my man of many many years and we have made some amature home videos, watched them and immediatly deleted them. yesterday we took pictures that he could enjoy while hes on days off or alone at home. i trust that he would never remove them from the home or show his friends in the home. how do u think i should go about potecting myself. there are only 3 photos that actually show parts of my face. and do other women do this for their men? Reply to this Question
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (10 October 2006):
 I agree you must be careful. I would advise against doing it unless you trusted the person 100%. I had pics of my ex, but returned them to her when we split up. I have pics of my fiancee, again I would return them to her if we split up. I just dont understand how people can lower themselves to spread these pictures over the internet or even show them to anyone else. My fiancee has pics of me on her phone, I am terrified, so it works both ways, lol.
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reader, sleepysly +, writes (10 October 2006):
 really you should know that if you break up he would have no probs showing them and some men show them just to show off,perhaps you should make sure you dont have your face on those pics,destroy the ones with your face on them you dont sound happy that you let him take them
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (9 October 2006):
 That is sound advice helpful girl, however I would just add that some guys have also used these kind of pictures to blackmail girls, out of revenge for dumping them, even putting them up on a porn website, so please do be careful.. You do not want to pick up a copy of, say, 'Girlie' mag and discover the winner of 'Reader's pet' is YOU!!! Be careful, chick!!
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (9 October 2006):
 Your definatly not alone in the picture taking department. I've taken pics for mine and I know of many, many others who have too.
The thing about protecting yourself is trusting him not to release your photos. I don't know of any other way. I hope someone else can help you there.
~Jamie
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