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What does not being "in touch" indicate?

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Question - (9 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

If a person that you have a relationship with, apologises for not being "in touch" and the reason is that they have been absolutely swamped at work. Does this mean that they are not interested in you anyomore or do not want to speak to you for some or other reason? What could this indicate?

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A female reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (12 October 2006):

beentheredonethat agony auntWell it depends on what he does too. I mean those in the medical field DO loose track of days...as well as cops, lawyers, firemen, truck drivers and those who have seasonal times like Tax men in april. Also he may have had another quick little relationship that was hot for a moment and flamed out.

Or he's like several men I know who have a realllllllly hard time fessing up to wanting to break up...and they Hope that If they don't call...make excuses etc...YOUR going to magically read their mind and Forget about them. See in my case...that's exactly what would have happened...I never call a boy...He must chase me....and if He does not...he is not worth my effort. also time span must be taken into consideration....did he not get in touch for a few days...or six months.

A few days is FINE...what are you joined at the hip? Six months is...disinterest. But there are a whole lot of possibilities in between there. More info if possible. And did he sound Glad to hear from you? Or like you sound when your mother calls and you are wanting off the phone?

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A female reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (9 October 2006):

ButterflyonFire agony auntMaybe they were really swamped at work and when they came home all they had time for was sleep.

I would think that they would make time to call, but the best advise I can give is that if your wondering so much about it, ask them about it.

Get to the bottom of it and settle it and then you'll know.

~Jamie

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2006):

shania agony auntIt depends on how long your fella has left it for? If we are talking a week or more then it does sound like he's not that keen on you.To me,if a guy is only half hearted about you then id look elsewhere...life's too short.

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A male reader, Lostandalone United States +, writes (9 October 2006):

Lostandalone agony auntTo me this indicates that the person is not that into you, because if a person is into you they will make a way to call you, if only for 5 minutes.

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A female reader, Katylouise +, writes (9 October 2006):

It could just mean that they have actually just been busy at work, dont read too much into what people say to you theres not always a hidden meaning half the time people just say what they mean.

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