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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I consider myself a straight male, had a few girlfriends and only find women attractive and view as partners. But I have this urge to be sexual with a man, to be as I know it as a bottom, there's just something that really excites me, I don't want to be in a relationship with a man nor do I find most men attractive but the idea of sexual contact with a man really is something I want to try, I've used Grindr but always get scared at meeting. When I was younger I gave oral with an older man but that's it. What do I do? It's so confusing I love and find women sexy but have a fantasy about being engaged in sex with a man just once.
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reader, georgey5100 +, writes (6 October 2015):
For starters, just chill! Sexuality is fluid. There is no rush or even any need at all to label your sexuality. Straight, gay, bisexual, asexual... it's really more of a spectrum than a list of single-choice tick-boxes. And no one has the right to say which you are except you.
Second of all, don't be scared to meet with guys! Just be clear that you're only looking to safely experiment. And always meet in public places. If they are not willing to do this then DO NOT meet them.
Remember to just relax and have fun! And stay safe!
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reader, Tottochan  +, writes (16 September 2015):
Is it specifically being with a man that you fancy? Or having a woman peg you would be satisfying as well? You are definitely at least bi-curious. I feel like you should pluck up courage to have one sexual encounter with a man, and after that I guess matters would be clearer to you. But that is up to you! Best of luck!
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (15 September 2015):
You're at very least bisexual, so admit that to yourself, take things from there and have fun deciding.
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