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writes:Hi,I have been seeing this guy for a month and we meet almost every single day,we haven't had sex ,but when he held my hand for the very first time I have never felt sparks like that before and we have kissed but nothing more has happened!all I think is he doesn't beleive that this is"dating" neither has he said this is a relationship he has mentioned though he likes me and sees a future with me!i just need the assurance ,is it too soon to ask him "what we are"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2015): No he does take me out for dinners and lunch,it's probably cuz I am so into him I wish he just said that we are dating..but no I don't push it,I play it cool althought sometimes I do tell him I am confused because it has been a month but i don't bring it up often..I was thinking if we are still together for another month or so and still he doesn't know what we are!i ask him?what do you think? He does say that he is very attracted to me and nothing has happened between us and we wish to keep it like that for a year to which he agreed so we have just kissed that's it and playful flirting
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (16 September 2015):
 I think I'd continue to get to know him. I think it's okay to ask if he is seeing you exclusively before you get more sexual with him than just kissing.
He may just be the type of man who takes his time to get to know someone before committing. Though what he means by not believing in "dates" is a bit of a puzzle. Does that mean he doesn't believe in going out for a meal together?
In the meantime, I think what you are doing sounds fine, in fact it sounds lovely! Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2015): He has invited me to meet his friends a couple of times to which I said no because I am quite the introvert and I am very reserved!yes we see each other every alternate day and our chemistry is insane..we met thru common friends at a party And from day 1had this fabulous connection..I know he likes me but I really don't know if be thinks of me as his girlfriend or someone he likes to spend time with!he doesn't beleive in "dates" and he did say he is not looking to have fun and that he sees a future with me
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 September 2015):
It sounds very promising for a relationship. You see him often, there seems to be chemistry. I wouldn't ask him just yet "what are we?"
Are you actually going out on dates? Does he call you up or text you and suggest that you meet up for a meal or to see a film or something else?
Have you introduced him to any of your friends or vice versa?
How long have you known him and how did you meet?
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