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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is never insecure and never ever gets jealous. EVER! I know this isn't a problem and should be a good thing but sometimes I feel like maybe he just doesn't care enough to get jealous, what do you think? He seems super confident and secure about pretty much everything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2015): I've had my fair share of jealous boyfriends and it's horrible! I would love a relationship where my boyfriend didn't get jealous but I always seem to find the guys that do.I've had to delete all my social media accounts in the past because of jealousy over a me having very boring comments on profile pictures or likes and ending up losing male friends.I typed in the definition of jealousy on google and this is what it says:feeling or showing a resentful suspicion that one's partner is attracted to or involved with someone else.synonyms: suspicious, distrustful, mistrustful, doubting, insecure, anxiousfiercely protective of one's rights or possessions.None of those words are good! Why would you want that in your relationship? What's happened for you to be worried that he didn't get jealous?
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (3 November 2015):
Honeypie is dead on...
Have you ever known any relationship to get better because of jealousy???
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 November 2015):
 Jealousy is NOT attractive and NOT an indication of GREATER love for ones partner.
Him being super confident would say to me that he TRUSTS you, that he FEELS love from you, that he KNOWS what he wants.
Just like many people don't (generally) like a clingy partner because it shows a level of insecurity and distrust, so does jealousy.
So why on EARTH do you think jealousy is needed to have a good relationship?
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