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writes:Hi everyone!I am here looking for some suggestions regarding how to spice things up between me and my fiance. It's been a long time with each other and sex often gets predictable. And at times, he doesn't give much effort to turn me on well like he did before.I've talked about him regarding this, and he seemed interested to take the initiative. Can you lovely people suggest us some good positions (not something like anal or threesome, we detest these) to try out? I just want his eyes fixed on me, not on that boring tv.Thanks in advance! :)Ree
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2015): If its too predictable you could try reading this article to him out loud and see what intrigues him. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 November 2015):
 Most husbands, after having married for a while, do not want spice or work harder for sex. They want space. So as long as there's harmony in the house give it to him. There are 365 sex positions inspired by yoga and you can try those. Doesn't mean you have to do it every single day. Some people have sex to feel in control, to feel loved, sexy and as an affirmation that the marriage is normal and working. These are not good reasons to have sex. It should be a natural desire. When you do it as a routine it becomes like a chore but not a natural expression of love.
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