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writes:Extra marital affair (both married)- he broke up after 5+ years for the right reasons to be with his family and what we had right now is not enough. The love is pure there is no doubt. It's been a tortourous month..I messaged him for his last picture in which I could see his tears. If he broke up why does he cry?? Also it was to be our 6 year anniversary.. Should I go see him? Not to meet or talk but just to have a look at him.. Am I becoming a stalker?
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (3 November 2015):
 Hey just wondering , have you considered leaving your husband?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2015): No you shouldn't go and see him. You said it broke up for the right reasons family that should come first. I'm sure you both are upset but seeing him will only make it harder on yourself and him you both need time apart to heal and move on and start repairing the marriages you are in. You are not a stalker but will be drawn to him till you move on that is a normal part of any break up even more so if you wasn't the one to end it. I think it's time you put that relationship behind you and think about yourself and if your happy in the marriage your in now because if you was truly happy you would never of had an affair
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (3 November 2015):
 " should i go see him?" no you both are cheating if you both are married. the one that gets hurt in this deal is your husband, and his wife.
"am i becoming a stalker?" no you have become a cheater that is adultery with someone else.
i am sorry but this is not right, i feel sorry for the spouse's .
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