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22-25,
anonymous
writes:So I've liked this guy for 3 years now, and 2 years ago we went out for around 5 months. He broke up with me really unexpectedly and I was heartbroken for quite a while. It made everything really awkward and made me really unhappy during that time. At the end of that school year we finally started talking again and now we talk all the time, often more to each other than our actual friends (and its not just me starting all the conversations). I really want to try being in a relationship again but am too scared to ask him (and if he wanted to, then same for him). I don't want to make things really awkward but it's got to the point that I get really bored and not unhappy, but not great when he's not around to talk to. I really don't know what to do so any help at all would be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2015): Your still young. Don't get into a relationship if your worried about it. He broke up with you suddenly, so I would say he is still immature as he was then. You'll meet plenty of guys. Enjoy the time you have now with him as a friend.Now if your serious about getting this guy back, then I suggest just being blunt about it and ask him out. The worst he can say I "no", right? But if he reject you, there will be an awkward phase of not talking and he may not want to be friends anymore. Now if he says yes, then you will have to deal with the fact that he previously broke up with you suddenly, and that will forever be haunting you. You won't know when he will break up with you next. That's why I recommend just enjoying life and not being in a relationship at your young age. Continue being friends with him, that's my advice.
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