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female
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anonymous
writes: My other half and I have been meeting up with a group of people and their other halves at our local for the past 6 months. More recently one of the blokes if he catches my eye will then wink at me when nobody is looking. Sometimes I feel awkward and occasionally I will smile back.Should I be flattered that he is winking at me or just try and take no notice? He appears happy in his relationship so I am surprised that he started doing this.Your advice would be appreciated. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, buzzie +, writes (9 November 2005):
Guys wink at me all the time. I don't think you should take it too seriously. Usually they just do it to make you feel at ease, but some guys do it as a way to flirt with you. If this guy knows you are married then I think his winks are harmless and he's just having fun.
Wink at him back, maybe he'll be so shocked he'll stop!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2005): ignore him. He's just playing with you.
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