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writes: Hello,I had a question for you. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for three years now. About two years ago, I kind of moved in with her and her mom. This came about because I would stay over there, eventually later and later, so I just moved in and she was all for it. The past year or so, the sex has decreased, her overall attention to me declined and I have pointed it all out and she doesn't know what is wrong with her. Yesterday, she said we needed a break so of course i moved all my stuff out of the apartment. Even though I was resentful about the sex and attention, when she told me that last night, I just can't stop thinking about her and all the good times we had and all the good times we could have.. Her response to what she wants is "I don't know, I'm confused."Any advice, I think this is hurting me more than her.Thanks!
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reader, beenthere +, writes (9 November 2005):
you moved in accidently. she may not have been ready for that level of commitment even after 3 years. leave her for now. let her work out what she wants but be there for he if she needs you
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