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... Send *geek a private message | | | *geek's profile:Hey I'm "Zgeek" 20 live in Nampa Idaho and am currently studding to be an IT field technician.
I love reading, playing sport, and playing video games. And it is a hobby of sorts to help other people with their relationship questions or problems, I have a lot of in site to give.
I especially love spending time with my girl.
Me and her have been going out since the 28th of may, and are in a thriving long distance relationship.
and thats me in a very small nutshell.
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The maturity gap between us is beginning to show more and more
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now, this is a long distance relationship where we get to see each other every few months, for a period of a week of so. We are both moving to the same city here in june, and hopefully see each ...
A. 28 January 2011: Thank you, I really do plan to work this out with her but she seems to unknowingly blow me off more often when she is around her cousin, and is quite rude and otherwise pissy. I am going to talk it out with her, but I am going to wait and see how ... (read in full...)
So how many men are honestly happy with their spouses chest?
Q. So how many men are honestly happy with their spouses chest? Honestly and anonomously?! I'm 31 years old, in-shape, but not a runway model. I'm 5'8", and 145 lbs, and have a 36D/DD bust, and I have no kids. My breasts have always been large for m...
A. 26 August 2010: Well, the fact is that most men, who are truly in love do love most things about their womens body. But even though they like how it is does not mean that they wouldn't mind or like more if that part was changed.
For instance your breasts, your... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't really know much about her own body, so what else might turn her on?
Q. Hey, from my past experiences with girls some like being bitten lightly or having teeth run across their erogenous spots. but I dont quite know what to make of my girl...the other day while exploring some things about each other I found out that she...
A. 29 July 2010: she dosnt masturbate, i found it odd, but i guess she finds the thought of her fingers in herself nasty.
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How do I tell my girl how much this frustrates me? which it does... immensely without sounding like an ass?
Q. Hey, I have been in this relationship with my girl for several months now (long distance) it isn't often that we get to see each other (month or 2 ) I took a week of leave off of where I am to go see her, so we can see each other, have fun...et...
A. 14 July 2010: alrite, thanks a bunch, me n her got it worked out.
I am going to be with her before her surgery and for her surgery I will also be there the day afterwards. then i am going back to save my leave days for the next month, she wont be doing much then... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girl how much this frustrates me? which it does... immensely without sounding like an ass?
Q. Hey, I have been in this relationship with my girl for several months now (long distance) it isn't often that we get to see each other (month or 2 ) I took a week of leave off of where I am to go see her, so we can see each other, have fun...et...
A. 13 July 2010: I will be with her at her surgery, but I get 1 leave day a month, I will not be able to take any time off for almost half a year, this is something that could have easily been scheduled for the Tuesday after I left. And because of the surgery she is ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girl how much this frustrates me? which it does... immensely without sounding like an ass?
Q. Hey, I have been in this relationship with my girl for several months now (long distance) it isn't often that we get to see each other (month or 2 ) I took a week of leave off of where I am to go see her, so we can see each other, have fun...et...
A. 13 July 2010: it is extensive shoulder surgery, 2 cm labral tear. she is 17. She had a choice of when to schedule it as well...... (read in full...)
How can I really be myself when I'm with him?
Q. I'm a very shy person when it comes to crowds and a lot of people. And to make it even worse I'm still shy around my bf. How can I be myself when I'm with him?...
A. 23 February 2009: It depends on how long the two of you have known each other, being comfortable with someone is something that is generally acquired with time. Yes there are steps you need to take on your own, if your afraid to hold his hand in public, maybe kiss ... (read in full...)
Jealousy wrecked my last relationship, I don't want it to wreck this one too.
Q. Hey, my gf is Bi. She's still a virgin and so am I, cause of the simple fact that she is adament about not losing her virginity till she's 18. Nothing I'm goanna push though. She just recently broke up with her gf, I guess it was a relationship of ...
A. 12 January 2009: you've got that partially right. I have stepped back and just kind of looked at the situation. It is more like the gf or x gf or fwb whatever you want to refer it to is more of an afterthought than myself(I'm not trying to sound cocky or ... (read in full...)
At first I thought it his shyness was cute, but now it's just annoying.
Q. There's this boy that I'm practically in love with. The thing is though that the other day one of my guy friends and I were talking and he said that the boy I like doesn't 'get it' yet. I mean, he doesn't know what to do when a girl likes him. Like, ...
A. 20 June 2008: Well when I was 16 i hadn't a clue what to do. Cause I grew up in a pretty sheltered home away from ppl. It comes from not being exposed to those kidna things in life. You are afraid of screwing up, you have no idea what to do or how to react ... (read in full...)
I want to know if you guys prefer curvy or skinny girls...
Q. Ok i'm a 17 year old girl and i'm a size 10-12. I feel sooooooo fat...I just want to be thin. I just want a guys opinion on what they really prefer, curvy or skinny. I do have a boyfriend and he thinks it's great, but i'm interested in other guys...
A. 9 May 2008: most guys will look more at the girl with curves than at the really skinny girl or the fat girl. why? i really have no clue. but it is definitly a preference.... (read in full...)
How do I approach him about getting a relationship started?
Q. Okay, so there is this guy and i really like him and we have dated before and we were so perfect together and then just one day it all fell apart i really dont know what went wrong to make our relationship come to an end. We were like best friends ...
A. 8 May 2008: you can simple ask him if he would want to go back out with you. if you really still have feeling toward him. and he you. go for it!... (read in full...)
He's always very concerned about me cheating on him
Q. okayyy so my n my bf have been together for a year but he just recently moved out of state....i am truly in love with him and could really see myself with him for a lllong time... we have plans of moving in together once we've both saved enough m...
A. 29 April 2008: take this as a guys point of view. This kinda relates to my own relationship in that my girl cheated on me. she never told me but she broke up with me. never giving me a good reason why. I had said that if she cheated on me I would dump her. ... (read in full...)
Would great sex make guys want a relationship?
Q. Ok guys if you have had mind blowing sex with a girl on a one night stand are you more likely to want to have a relationship with her? ...
A. 29 April 2008: great sex on a one night stand would definitely spike some interest. but it is not sex that will convince a guy they want to go out with you. In that mindset one can get guys that just want to have sex. no romance. they really might not care for ... (read in full...)
Worried he may have taken my answer as an inexorable NO! I'm willing to compromise, but how to do it without leading him on too far?
Q. i'm not very experienced when it comes to boys, i told my boyfriend that i'm not ready for sex and he respects that. But by saying this, i think he may of taken it as though i don't want to do anything at all, which i do. i'm off back to his this ...
A. 29 April 2008: hm. since you already told him this that you are not ready for sex he should respect that. but he shouldn't take it an a big "NO".
But if you wanna do something with him without leading him on. Just play around. Dose he know any of your "turn on... (read in full...)
I'm a bit shy, so how do I ask this girl to go to the movies with me?
Q. Hi, i need some advice, i really like this girl, how can i ask her out to go watch a movie? Also when i went out with my last girlfriend we were not very close, and it didn't help that i was a bit shy. If i was to go out with this girl, how can i be...
A. 29 April 2008: to get closer to her just hang around with her. make a hard effort to talk with her or if you see her in a crowd walk up and engage in some friendly conversation. like at school in between classes see if you can like talk with her in the hall maybe ... (read in full...)
Do guys only want fun after coming out of long term relationships?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm writing to ask if guys are only looking for sex/fun after a longterm relationship. Im 15 and recently started having feelings for a 17 year old, but unfortunately he has just came out of a 2 year thing. He has shown no sign ...
A. 29 April 2008: that is a hard question to answer in the way that. many guys will come out of a long relationship and rebound to another girl just looking for affection. Sometimes they might stay with whomever they rebound to. then sometimes once they feel like ... (read in full...)
Do lads like a girl who can make them laugh?
Q. a lad told me he thinks im funny n i make him laugh - do lads generally like a girl who can make them laugh? x...
A. 20 April 2008: definitely yes. we love a girl that we can laugh with. just one that doesn't laugh at us lol... (read in full...)
I'm lost here...is she dating ME or HIM?
Q. ok here goes. My gf and I have recently got back together (I'm 17 she's 16)(about a week ago) (she lives about 100 miles away) after being broke up for more than a year. I love her more than anything....and always have. And she claims the same for ...
A. 7 March 2008: k thanks man. I've put pressure on....and it didn't get me anywhere good. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. and see how it goes from there. again thank you.... (read in full...)
What are the advantages of watching porn?
Q. I'm sorry to ask ladies and gentlemen but i need help in this area. Are there any advantages in watching porn? if yes what are they?...
A. 29 February 2008: Like basschick said. porn is the entertain us guys use when we don't have someone else there. to fill that hole I guess you could say. If we are depressed we look at porn.
It may have soem advantages. but also with those come many disadvan... (read in full...)
Does this boy really like me..I want to know because I don't want to lose him!
Q. So I like this kid and he says he likes me also we talk every day but it seems that like when we talk I always have to write him first and it bothers me and I told him because if he likes me as much as he says he does how come he never writes me and ...
A. 23 January 2008: He might just be nervous. He also might want you to initialize conversation because he is afraid of saying something stupid or he just cannot think of a good topic or conversation starter. Give it some time. Keep talking to him.
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What's preferrable: big boobs or small boobs?
Q. So, what do guys prefer?? big boobs or small boobs?? Personally ive got big boobs so knw how guys react to them. But really wats better?? xxx...
A. 11 May 2007: hm......we just like "boobs" big, small, med. whatever. It varies from guy to guy. personally i really do not care what the size of my significant others boobs are. Really you do not need to worry about what guys would prefer. Worry about finding ... (read in full...)
Guys, do lads feel the heartbreak we do and what is the perfect girl?
Q. This is to all lads, men any age of male. What is the perfect girl? What really matters? Do lads feel the heartbreak we do? How can you tell a lad likes you? Thankyou...
A. 17 April 2007: a perfect girl all depends on who it is that you are asking. Every guy has his own perspective on what their perfect girl is. Some is the model type, some is a...plump person, some is just an average girl, and others don't have an image of a perfect ... (read in full...)
Will he be turned off if I tell him..I am a virgin?
Q. Hi, im currently seeing a guy who is older and im planning on telling him that im a virgin ( which i definetly am going to do). The thing is will he be turned off by this? We have been going out for 3 months and im ready to have sex with him. ...
A. 14 April 2007: lol he will be the opposite. he will not be turned off he will probably as whats her name above said-"He will be even MORE into you!!" I don't think you really need to worry about it.... (read in full...)
Guys, would you sleep with a girl who isnt toned and who has some cellulite?
Q. guys, would u sleep with a girl who isnt toned and who has some cellulite?...
A. 29 March 2007: yes I would personally I like chicks with curves personally.....and you arnt perfect so dose everyone have to be? It is your decision man. ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16 and have never kissed a girl, what's wrong with me?
Q. hi im 15 years old nearly 16 and i have never kissed a girl what's wrong with me? i am goin out with this girl this is only like my first girlfriend and i am scerd of kissing her because she has kissed alot of people so she will think im a rubbish ...
A. 19 March 2007: hey man no worry this sounds just like my first gf.....still is my first lol....its natural to be nervous....also to be scared that because they have had so much practice they will think you are a crappy kisser..also even if you are if the two of ... (read in full...)
He quickly let go of my hand when he saw her coming. Do you think he's ashamed of me?
Q. hey im 16 and my bf is to. i have been wiv him for roughly 2 months. we go 2 the same school and today we were walking down the corridor with r arms round eachother as usual and we saw one of his teachers walking down the corridor up ahead. and my b...
A. 1 March 2007: No I don't believe he is ashamed of you I think he was sincerely worried about the teacher or has had a past of that teacher bugging him or giving him a hard time about relationships even though that shouldn't matter . Don't let this get to you. ... (read in full...)
I'm having horrible thoughts that my girlfriend is going to leave me for another person.How do I deal with this?
Q. Hey, i have these horrible thoughts that my girlfriend is going to leave me for another person. She tells me she loves me and will never leave me, but the thoughts keep coming back. I'm really worried....
A. 22 February 2007: it sounds like you are lacking on self confidence she did choose you you know that they love us and that they wont leave us but we just cant quite see what is so appealing about yourself. if that is the case just try and get your girls assurance ... (read in full...)
Why did he make out with me then dump me? I feel so used!
Q. hey guys i got a question reguard that one question about josh thompson and me. Well here it is. I went to my school's dance on friday because it was a valentine's day dance and then Josh came so as you know I went out and greeted him and then we ...
A. 22 February 2007: well it sounds like he was just kind of using you for a kiss lol. I have a friends that likes to do that to girls.....anyways as AskEve stated you two don't sound like you are meant for each other so I would personalty forget about him. Have fun ... (read in full...)
How do girls like to be kissed? Is there that perfect way to do it?
Q. hey I was wondering how do girls prefer to be kissed? My ex gf said i kissed perfectly but i have my doubts considering I had never kissed a girl before or even went out with 1 ya anyways a little feedback on what kind of ways girls like guys ...
A. 22 February 2007: hey thanks a ton for your advice.... (read in full...)
Would you date a girl who told you she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn't want to?
Q. I have an open question for everyone, Would you date a girl who had told you that she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn`t want to have sex with the guy? How would you know if it was the truth she is telling or if she did it ...
A. 21 February 2007: from a guys view if she did do this or was forced to it wouldant matter she seems to be beutiful and a intelligent person you also seem to like her. That will probably be a hard memory for her but your support could possibly get her over ... (read in full...)
My ex called me to say he was sorry for things in the past. I want to talk to him but my present boyfriend is against this and said it will only cause problems. Should I break it off with him?
Q. One of my ex-boyfriends called me last night and told me that he was sorry for everything that he put me through and that he is sorry for hurting me so much. He told me that he loves me and misses me. I still have feelings for him and I still love ...
A. 21 February 2007: hm a kind of sticky situation one person or the other will get emotionally hurt somewhere in here If i was in your bf position I would do exactly what he is currently doing for fear of you falling completely in love with your old boyfriend I ... (read in full...)
He is threatening to embarrass me in front of everyone if I don't do as he says!
Q. im the one that posted a few day be4 bout loving my cousin. i have told my cousin (boy) that i had a crush on my cousin (girl) but did not say that i love her. to make the long story short, he is threating to embrass me to everyone in my f...
A. 21 February 2007: blackmail is definitely bad....if you let it continue your cousin will want you to do more and expect more from you and in the process will get more blackmail on you and more evidence of things that you did to avoid his telling your family in the ... (read in full...)
It's hurting me that she is dating another guy...how do I deal with this?
Q. i've been lookin forward to meeting this girl i'm crazy about! she told me herself that she's goin out for a meal with someone. i know for sure it's a boy because she didn't tell me. we are goin cinema, day after. it's so hurtin she's datin another ...
A. 16 February 2007: keep the date it sounds like she is just....looking at other people to see who she really likes being around the most...dont get to upset about this you two dont have an "exclusive" relationship yet as tasteoindie states just have fun.... (read in full...)
We've been together 6 years and he's asking me for a 2 month break so he can be sure I'm the right one!!!!
Q. hi. ive been dumped well it feels like iv been dumped he says we are on a break for exacty 2 months and that he wasnt goin to change his mind,he says if he loves me after 2 months then he'll know he really loves me..wat is this about. we've been tog...
A. 15 February 2007: it sounds like he either is- wanting to test his feelings for you so he can see how much he dose love you or he is testing you by letting you go and seeing after 2 months if you will come back. If not those then he probably has soem other good ... (read in full...)
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