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writes:hi im 15 years old nearly 16 and i have never kissed a girl what's wrong with me? i am goin out with this girl this is only like my first girlfriend and i am scerd of kissing her because she has kissed alot of people so she will think im a rubbish kisser and i also not sure how to go about kissing her because all are mates are always their and i dont want to kiss in front of them on my first time please can some one help me and guid me on what to do i am just so nervous thank you
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reader, just-ask-xx +, writes (7 October 2007):
 :) look, if you really like her, kiss her, I know it's scary. I remember my first kiss, me and my bf were standing and when we went to kiss eachother, we banged heads :) but don't worry, it turned out to be so funny and now we've been together for 5 years :) it's alway scary, and I understand how you feel. When you're kissing, it doesn't really matter, you get lost when you're kissing if you like it ;) so don't worry and go for it! best of luck, love just-ask-xx reply if you want to :)
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reader, lovehate +, writes (22 August 2007):
 Don't worry, i know how you feel. You feel like your the only one who hasn't done this or that and everyone thinks your a "loser". Do not panic! I was terrified out of my brains before my first kiss!! Literally, it comes completely naturally, just let her start of and see what she does, copy her. Roll your tongue onto hers. Gently wrestle eachothers tongues. Just be careful you don't bash teeth and spread your tongue all over her mouth. Don't drown her.
Have fun, go to new levels. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): Want to talk about pathetic? I was 21 with my first kiss- and that was only 8 months ago! Needless to say I was a bit aled, but it all came quite naturally (surprisingly enough) and got absolutely NO complaints whatsoever- in fact, he said some of my moves felt nice! :) So don't worry about it. I sure as hell waited or my first, and it was amazing! And I definitely agree with some of the others- wait for a time the two of you are alone, but be sure it's the right mood! And have FUN! :)
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reader, ~*~MissMe~*~ +, writes (26 March 2007):
 Hey you DEFINITELY dont need to worry about her thinking you are rubbish!Its daft!Does she know that she is your first girlfriend and will be your first kiss??If not,you need to tell her,if so,she'll be understanding about your worries! When i first met my BF,he had never been with a girl or kissed a girl either and we were both 15. The first time we kissed,we werent expecting to cos we werent going out then. But i didnt know until after we kissed that he had never kissed anyone before. I never guessed,he was just so natural with me and i actually thought he was the best kisser out of the people i'd kissed. We started going out 2 weeks after that and we are still together now after nearly 15 months. So,dont worry about kissing her,just when it happens,let it!Dont try and hold back or put it off and dont plan it!!!! Good luck :D
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reader, zgeek  +, writes (19 March 2007):
 hey man no worry this sounds just like my first gf.....still is my first lol....its natural to be nervous....also to be scared that because they have had so much practice they will think you are a crappy kisser..also even if you are if the two of you love each other she will still think you kiss just fine....and you will always get better the more you kiss i have only recently kissed a girl and I'm almost 17 so there is nothing wrong with you.....it is more of a private thing.....lets say if you two are at your or her house and one of the two of you have to go home or something.......kiss her then.....somewhere private....like a home or somewhere where there arnt lots of people.............and there is no true way to go about kissing a girl except the mood so just go for it....where you don't think you will be embarrassed if you screw up.
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reader, TygersDream  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Well, your first kiss should be a private affair. And as for you never having kissed a girl? there's nothing wrong with you! Don't worry about it so much! My first kiss was absolute rubbish (I licked his mouth and cheek and ears and nose, QUITE sloppy!!) but we just laughed about it later.
When you want to make your first kiss, don't go the whole hog - don't stick your tongue down her throat - kiss without your tongue first and then you'll know when she wants to make it a deeper kiss when she opens her mouth a little and touches her tongue to yours. Just move a little by little and let your instincts guide you from there. And when I mean instincts, I mean what you think she'll like from you. YOu can do the passionate tongue twisting kisses later, but your first kiss should be a teaser, a little intro to what you would like in future.
As for your nervousness, everybody experiences that - so just make peace with it and make your move (without her mates there because she'll feel embarrassed and put upon).
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reader, agony aunt j +, writes (18 March 2007):
 if this girl likes you enough she wont care what you kiss like and if your mates are there dont act nervous, just be natural. kissing kind of comes naturally anyway, so dont freak out. if she's kissed a lot of people she might tink you're not as good as others but so what? that shouldnt be enough to put someone off a relationship. dont act like someone you're not and try to put on that you know all about this stuff, but dont make a really big deal about it either. if you dont want your mates to be there your first time maybe kiss her when you're alone. try not to worry, it seems like a big deal but really it's nothing.
good luck hope your first kiss is great:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): dont worry there are 100's of teenagers with the exact same problem as you nerves are a huge part of first kisses. As your girlfriend has kissed alot of people and there are always people around your nerves are only heightened. I sujjest you find sometime where you and your girlfriend can be alone away from her friends and if she truley likes you i guarentee her kiss with you will be special to her and she will not think of you as a rubbish kisser. and plus once youve got your first kiss out of the way your kisses with her will only get better remember practice makes perfect:P so good luck and dont worry hope everything works out xlaurenx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): The first kiss is always a nervewracking one and I dont think anybodys first kiss is perfect. I remember panicking before mine and thinking i didnt know what to do, but when it happened I seemed to know. Mine wasn't perfect but practice makes perfect and with time you get confidence. Try and take your girlfriend somewhere away from your friends, either meet up on your own or if you're with friends go around a corner or into another room, so you dont have all eyes on you. If you drink, I would advise a drink for a bit of dutch courage, but don't get drunk.
Good luck
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reader, bby lolly +, writes (18 March 2007):
 i am 14 and have only just started kissing my first time was at a kids sort ov night club n i was really nervouse but i did it and it wasnt bad at all i fort i wudnt be able to do it properly but its easy and now every one says im a good kisser lol once you do it there will be no stopping you :P so just go 4 it
and good luck xx
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