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30-35,
*geek
writes:Hey, my gf is Bi. She's still a virgin and so am I, cause of the simple fact that she is adament about not losing her virginity till she's 18. Nothing I'm goanna push though. She just recently broke up with her gf, I guess it was a relationship of sorts, mainly they just fucked around with each other whenever, I never really had a problem with that, but now for some reason I'm geting a spike of jealousy. Even though they broke up they still will mess around when they have a chance, which kinda bugs me cause I rarly get to see my girl, she lives several miles out of town(I'm in a small redneck town) and I am unadle to get a licence for a few years still. But it seems that quite often when she is in town she wont tell me but she wont have an issue messin with some of her girlfriends. Today she admitted she wouldnt mind havin her x GF fuck her. Which bugged me cause she's bein holding out on sex for quite some time now.And I'm starting to get jealous that they are getting more chances to see her hang out, mess around, kiss cuddle, and whatever sexual activites they want. When we do hang out we have our fun and good times. But as rare as that is when we get to hang out withought someone else there. How can I get over this Jealousy? It's what wrecked my last relationship, I love her, I dont wanna screw this one up too.
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reader, zgeek +, writes (12 January 2009):
zgeek is verified as being by the original poster of the question you've got that partially right. I have stepped back and just kind of looked at the situation. It is more like the gf or x gf or fwb whatever you want to refer it to is more of an afterthought than myself(I'm not trying to sound cocky or self-righteous) but I have questioned her about it, and according toh er I am far more a priority to her than most other things in her life, I just have not asked her if she would quit her other activities with the same sex on the note that it would make me seem to....possessive when I myself am Bi as well, but do not practice it when going out with another of the opposite sex.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 January 2009):
 Sorry, I just want to be sure I've got this straight. Your girlfriend has an ex girlfriend who she hangs around with, kisses, cuddles and engages in sexual activity with? She spends more time with this ex than with you?
I'm afraid to report that your girlfriend's ex is NOT an ex, she is a girlfriend right now. YOU seem to be the afterthought on the side. I have to suggest that you need to take a big step back and assess the situation once again. I'm afraid you're seeing things as you want them to be, not as they actually are. Your girlfriend has a girlfriend in every sense of the word. You might be a boyfriend, but you seem to be the part-time person.
Cheating is cheating, regardless of gender of the partner in infidelity!
Good luck!
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