I want a threesome my wife doesnt, but she's already been in one!
Q. Here's the problem: I want to have a threesome. My wife does not, though she has had them in her past (before me). She also has a far more extensive sexual past than I have. I'd love to add more partners in the future, but I am willing to forgo ...
A. 8 April 2011: I have always had a desire for a threesome but I will admit that her having had them in the past, and denying me, strengthens my desire. She enjoyed them. They are not bad memories for her. The reason she won't do them with me is she doesn't want... (read in full...)
My wife told me about her sexual past 9 months ago and I still can't get over it!
Q. Im trying so hard to forget my wifes sexual past she told me 9 months ago. It all started when we first met, I asked and she lied and told me 1 guy. Too find out 11 years later 4 more guys were added to the list. The way I found out was my fault...
A. 7 April 2011: You will never forget it. But your feelings are legitimate. Women (and some men) will try to make you feel you are immature, unenlightened, or simply hypocritical. You're not. You're reaction is valid. Your emotions are your own. And the fact that ... (read in full...)
After my girlfriend told me about her sexual past, I am disgusted! Should I have sex with her and leave her, or lose my virginity to another?
Q. Hi, I have been dating this girl that is crazy in love with me. However, she started talking about her past. She told me that she didn't want anything between us and that she needed to tell me everything, because she trusts me and so on and so forth...
A. 7 April 2011: Dude, skip the payback and dump her. You'll never forget this feeling and she is lying to you. As for the people trying to make you feel bad: Your feelings are legitimate. Women (and some men) will try to make you feel you are immature, unenl... (read in full...)
I found out my girlfriend has a very wild sexual past, and she did webcam shows for others. Will a threesome make me feel better about her past?
Q. Ok where to begin?! I was in a relationship of 8 years and that ended 1 year ago. For the past 5 months, I've been dating and living with a woman who 24 years old. She has 2 children and I love her and them! The problem is she did soooo many sex...
A. 7 April 2011: You will never forget it. But your feelings are legitimate. Women (and some men) will try to make you feel you are immature, unenlightened, or simply hypocritical. You're not. You're reaction is valid. Your emotions are your own. And the fact that ... (read in full...)
Men: Would your potential future wife's sexual history bother you?
Q. I know that when a guy looks for a girl to marry the less sexual experiences the more that guy finds that girl to be attractive. If you were a virgin man would your future wife prior sexual history be a turn off? If your wife swallowed another man ...
A. 7 April 2011: Your feelings are legitimate. Women (and some men) will try to make you feel you are immature, unenlightened, or simply hypocritical. You're not. You're reaction is valid. Your emotions are your own. And the fact that what you feel is felt by a ... (read in full...)
I lied to my fiance about my sexual past because I didn't want him to think I was a slut
Q. I have not been totally honest with my fiance... i did not want him to think i was a slut so i lied to him about how many people i have slept with and the kinds of things i have done. i had very low self esteem and emotionally abusive parents so i ...
A. 7 April 2011: The past is super important and your man needs to know who he is engaged to. You do not simply cut off the past. It informs who you are. It sounds like you are emotionally troubled. He should know that.
I'm glad it's working out for you. DON'T LI... (read in full...)
My wife to be revealed her sexual past. I feel sick to my stomach
Q. I am 31, she is 29. She is drop dead gorgeous. We fell in love a year and a half ago when she was one of my day nurses when I had spent some time in the hospital recovering from a tumor in my knee (non cancerous) During our time dating, I would ...
A. 7 April 2011: You will never forget it. But your feelings are legitimate. Women (and some men) will try to make you feel you are immature, unenlightened, or simply hypocritical. You're not. You're reaction is valid. Your emotions are your own. And the fact that ... (read in full...)
GF just told me she was promiscuous in college. Can't get it out of my head.
Q. I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for over a year now. We live together and split everything and love each other so. Out for drinks the other night we got on the subject of past sexual history. We didn't divulge our numbers but ...
A. 7 April 2011: You will never forget it. But your feelings are legitimate. Women (and some men) will try to make you feel you are immature, unenlightened, or simply hypocritical. You're not. Your reaction is valid. Your emotions are your own. And the fact that ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me with his ex! Did he truly end things with her? What should I do?
Q. I have been married 5 yrs. Lately, when my husband and I argued, he would always calls his ex. He said it was nothing and they are just friends. Then he started calling her secretly. One week later, he went on a date with her and they had sex ...
A. 7 April 2011: RUN! He's a cheater. If you want a monogamous man, he's not for you. Seriously.... (read in full...)
I want to marry her, but her friend is exaggerating horrible secrets from my past.
Q. Basically, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and I'm planning to propose to her soon as we are very much in love, but I have some very horrific and soul destroying secrets that I never ever want anyone to know, but a close ...
A. 7 April 2011: What are your secrets? Post them here. Nobody will know. Two things: 1) That other dude is sabotaging you. He's a douchebag. 2) Don't live in fear. Tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may.... (read in full...)
Found womanly things under his sink, I stormed out and now he won't talk to me.
Q. Why is this guy ignoring me!??? Ok, I have this guy friend who I have been just seeing for 5 years. A couple of days ago, I found a lot of womenly things underneath his bathroom sink. I questioned him about it and asked if he had a girl living w...
A. 7 April 2011: He's been using you for 5 years. He's not calling because you're expendable. Let him go.... (read in full...)
I love my first cousin what should I do?
Q. I love my first cousin with all my heart and i want to tell him but wat if he does not feel that way about me what if he rejects me and we lose the cousin bond we have now.I live in conneticut so its legal could you plz help me tell me if i should ...
A. 7 April 2011: Give it up. He's your cousin and you are young. Find someone else. ... (read in full...)
How do I decide between my boyfriend who I want to marry and my best guy friend?
Q. I am having a really big problem… so my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He’s a great guy, very sweet, and would never do anything to hurt me. He wants to marry me one day and have a family. We’re 17. So, two months ago my ...
A. 7 April 2011: You kissed another guy. Do your current boyfriend a favor and break it off and go with the other guy. You're a cheater, don't try to mask it with feelings of consideration for him. Do NOT marry him.... (read in full...)
Moving in with my boyfriend and his 2 friends, but I dated one of the friends a few years ago! Will it be awkward?
Q. Right about our one year anniversary, my boyfriend, his two closest guy friends and I are all moving into a house together. Yes... I'll be living with three guys but I'll be in my boyfriend's/our room. Unfortunately, I dated one of his friends for a ...
A. 7 April 2011: Don't move in. Spare yourself the hassle.... (read in full...)
She lied and flirted with other guys so I cant trust her anymore, but she wants another chance. What should I do?
Q. hi everyone. please help! i met a girl last year, march 29 2010, shes very pretty, cute. a month later, we started dating. and i proposed her and she accepted me. when we go out together, she kind of stare other guys, she doesn look, rather sta...
A. 7 April 2011: RUN! Get away from her as fast as you can. She is a liar and CANNOT be trusted. In addition, she views you as a chump. You sound like a great guy. Don't waste yourself on her.... (read in full...)
I want a threesome my wife doesnt, but she's already been in one!
Q. Here's the problem: I want to have a threesome. My wife does not, though she has had them in her past (before me). She also has a far more extensive sexual past than I have. I'd love to add more partners in the future, but I am willing to forgo ...
A. 7 April 2011: Wow - thanks for the very thoughtful advice. I really needed to hear some alternative points of view. To respond to a couple of the advisers: 1) I wouldn't entertain a MMF threesome because I did not do them in the past. My conception of ma... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I have completely opposing views on porn. Is this a possible deal breaker?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend, who's 25, for about four months and all had been going great; he's kind, caring, generous and always puts me first. However, I noticed on his internet browser history a couple of week...
A. 6 April 2011: I'm a man. Among the men that I've spoken to about it in one way or another, none have said they don't look at porn. I don't even understand this question. ... (read in full...)
Am I slutty?
Q. I want to know if I'm a drunk slut i'm 19 and In my sophomore year of college last year I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 4 months but since we broke up... ive had 2 one night stands (full intercourse) given two blow jobs, and let one othe...
A. 6 April 2011: In a word: yes. Think of it this way. If you will have to lie in the future about what you've done, then you're a slut. Same goes for men.... (read in full...)
Sexual encounter btw an 18 yr and 25 yr? legal yes but is it ok?
Q. Thoughts on a recent high school graduate having sex with a 25 yo? Or a college sophomore dating a 26 yo? I know its legal but is it appropriate?...
A. 6 April 2011: Perfectly appropriate among consenting legal adults.... (read in full...)
He says girls leave him because hes too nice. Is that my cue to walk away?
Q. Hi everyone I am a african american female and I just started talking to a white/Caucasian male he's really nice and sweet but he tells me that girls leave him cause they say he's too nice should that be my cue to walk away now? We've only been ...
A. 6 April 2011: Yikes. He told you he loves you already? You have two options: run like hell. Or, if you like him, stay. He might actually love you already.... (read in full...)
Can a man truly love two women at once
Q. Question- can a man truly love 2 women at the same time? A little history- I am married so is he. We work for the same company but live in different states. We have fallen in love which is crazy I know. We have never been physical but have hun...
A. 6 April 2011: Maybe because he has kids. Don't tell yourself that unhappy parents make unhappy kids, it's bullshit. Grow up! Life is about sacrifice. ... (read in full...)
I cant stop crying over what I did
Q. Im have just turned 15, 5 days after my abortion. I did not want to get rid of my baby, but i did what everyone was telling me was best. The baby daddy already had a baby on the way so he told me that i was allowed to keep it, but it would be ...
A. 6 April 2011: I'm a full grown man, sweetheart, and I'm telling you, you did the right thing. You must be heartbroken, but you have saved your own life. Use this opportunity to be smart. GET BIRTH CONTROL. Don't get pregnant again (until you are at least 30). And ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid his large penis is going to hurt
Q. me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 6 months and we are very close. we have discussed sex and contraception and all that and we both feel ready and comfortable enough with each other to have sex. but he hasa very large penis ad i'm ...
A. 6 April 2011: Are you a virgin? If you are, wait. Not for any wacky religious reason but to be sure this is what you want. Sex is a huge step, especially for women. If he's worthy, he'll wait too. If you do go ahead. Use lubricated condoms and get lubricant. I... (read in full...)
Is that me just being overly jealous?? Or is my wife the one in the wrong by constantly talking about her ex boyfriends' even though it makes me mad??
Q. My wife constantly talks about her ex's, not in great detail about stuff they did but she constantly brings them up at times and it's pretty annoying... She thinks that I'm overreacting and that I'm a "baby" because she thinks its harmless when she ...
A. 6 April 2011: Ack! If you have not kids, divorce her. Let her have her exs, but not you. Seriously, she doesn't respect you. Man the f*ck up!... (read in full...)
How do I repay him for all he's done for me?
Q. hey, right now i am sick. i have the flu and i've never been this sick before in my life. my bf is being soo sweet, like he's here everyday checking on me, and bringing me my school assignments. he makes me feel like a princess even when i ...
A. 6 April 2011: Be a good girl. Don't be a slut. You are still young enough to redeem yourself. At your age, you can put the past behind you. Be strong and remember the happiness you feel now.... (read in full...)
I don't think he's interested in me. Should I call off the date?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a little under two months. The first couple dates we went on we made out and it was super hot. He suggested we wait a couple weeks to have sex... i told him we should wait 3 months. He reluctantly agreed. Since ...
A. 6 April 2011: You're my hero! A woman who actually makes a man wait!!! I can only hope this is behavior you have modeled through your life! In any case, bk123, is right. Don't rush. He's still hanging around, so you are golden. If they passion was there, it will ... (read in full...)
Torn between my boyfriend of 4 years and another guy
Q. I am torn between my boyfriend of 4 years and another guy. i used to be really happy with my boyfriend but he doesn't really talk to me and he rarely texts me. When we started dating he always wanted to see me and talk to me but not so much anym...
A. 6 April 2011: You've basically already cheated on your boyfriend and you're very young. Not a great start. Break up with him and try to be faithful to the next man or simply play the field. Either way, the guy your with now is not "the one."... (read in full...)
Is this guy a player or am I just suspicious?
Q. I really need some help on this one, guys opinions too please. Im not 100% sure but I think I have guy who is a bit of a player or a flirt. He is older than me by 7 years. Met him over a social network site (you know the one). We live in the same ...
A. 6 April 2011: Sounds like he's keeping you on the hook. Men will string women along for as long a possible to assure a steady supply of sex. There is a possibility that if you try to pull it back, he'll make more of a commitment. Then again, he might not. But ... (read in full...)
Been cheating on wife with 3 girlfriends and 40 hookers
Q. Hi, I have been married 10 years to my wife who I love but she is very difficult to live with. I don't know if I am a nympho or what, but when she is not around I can masturbate up to 4 times a day. Also, when i have been away for work on many occ...
A. 6 April 2011: This is a suck situation but I think increasingly common. In some ways it's just too easy to get laid. As I man, I can relate to the frustration of being monogamous while looking in at the grand orgy taking place everywhere. My advice? Leave her. ... (read in full...)
Bizarrely Friends With Benefits
Q. Hello, fellow DearCupid users! Okay, my situation is a little complicated...I met this guy online, and crazy as it sounds we really hit it off straight out the gate - our first conversation over IM went on for 7 straight hours - so we arranged t...
A. 6 April 2011: As a man who has literally done the same thing...He's using you. No relationship is possible. Let him go now. ... (read in full...)
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