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36-40,
anonymous
writes: My girlfriend of four months is still friends with her ex. Not only does she still talk to him, she is still friends with his family.His aunt cuts her hair for free. She visits his family's restaurant where he works and gets food for free. A couple of months ago she asked him to help her move. Should I confront?
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reader, Basschick +, writes (15 November 2009):
The question you have to ask is, did she break up with him, or did he break up with her? On the surface their friendship seems harmless. So maybe it really is. On the other hand, if he broke up with her she may still be very much in love with him, hence the reason she still manages to keep him in her life while appearing to just be "friends". Look for other signs to see if she's hoping for a reconciliation or if she seems totally committed to you and your relationship. You'll know.
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reader, trigger18 +, writes (14 November 2009):
there is nothing to worry about. many girls have exes as just friends and get along with them quite well.
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