In my dreams, I cheat on my boyfriend...
Q. This may sound a bit silly but over the past 5-6 months I have regularly been dreaming that I'm cheating on my boyfriend and in the dreams I am fully aware of the fact that I have a boyfriend but I simply don't care. These dreams actually started ...
A. 15 November 2005: Some people think our dreams tell us all we need to know about ourselves, they also say that we need to interpret our dreams as they are not literal interptetaions of our thoughts...'They' say alot, dont they? Who knows with dreams. What is ... (read in full...)
He's busy, but it feels like my boyfriend doesn't make me a high priority in his life!
Q. I have been with my guy for over 9 months now. He is caring and gentle, but lately I feel like I am not a priority for him. He works a lot, and I understand that, but now we have sex once in a couple of weeks or so. Is it fair of me to blame him ...
A. 15 November 2005: Why is this lately? Has he always worked alot or is he working more hours lately? I think you are being reasonable wanting to spend more time together. tell him so, ask him how he feels and if it bothers him that he does see so much of you. Get his ... (read in full...)
What do I do when my friend says he loves me?
Q. My best mate has recently told me he loves me and I don't know how I feel about him because I love him to bits - but as a friend. Wwhat shall I do?...
A. 15 November 2005: Tell him so, what else can you do? You love him and dont want to give him false hope. You are not responsible for him falling in love with you and neither will you be responsible if he is hurt because your feelings for him are platonic. This is ... (read in full...)
We're from two different States. Should I up sticks, or should he?
Q. My boyfriend and I are talking about getting married, but he lives in Shreveport, LA and I am from Alabama. He wants to move back to Texas where he was born, and I don't want to pull my roots from the 'bama soil. He says he's willing to compromise ...
A. 10 November 2005: This guy loves you truly and wants to make you happy. Are you worried you will feel guilty if he comes to stay with you and does go to Texas? It is scary moving away, perhaps you should try it, set a time scale, rent for a while, if you really hate ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm doing everything a wife would do for him, so why is he so slow to show any commitment to me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 1 month. We have had 4 break ups. 2 were because he was going to try to make it work with his ex wife. 1 was because I was tired of him being to close for comfort with his ex wife. The other time was no ...
A. 10 November 2005: The cold harsh truth is, finish it. 2 years is long enough, if he doesn't love you now, he probably will never do. You are making yourself feel used by doing so much and allowing him to use you. I think he probably still loves his ex and cannot ... (read in full...)
It seems like my friends would rather be with each other than all of us together!
Q. I am female, and have 2 close female friends. These friendships started off separately, with both girls not really knowing each other. These friendships have now merged into one group of 3 friends. Lately i have been feeling as though the ot...
A. 10 November 2005: People change all the time and friendships we have are always developing. Just because these 2 have become good friends too, does not mean you are not inculded. You do not have the ' sole rights' to their friendship and if you think you do then you ... (read in full...)
Help me read between the lines of what a woman is saying...
Q. Dear Cupid, Please give me some insight into a woman’s thought process. What does it really mean when a woman tells a guy “They are really busy” or “They have a lot on their mind” while they are dating. What should a guy do if this is what they are...
A. 10 November 2005: She is not interested in you! If she was, she wouldn't be 'too busy' and 'YOU would be on her mind' Keep looking ..this girl is not for you.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
He cheated with someone else's partner. Will he cheat on me?
Q. I just found out that before we met, my boyfriend was having a sexual relationship with a woman who has a live-in boyfriend of 18 years. He obviously didn't care that he was having sex with someone else's girlfriend. And worse than that, he ...
A. 2 November 2005: Urm..tricky. My first feeling is, he is cheating on you..sorry. I think maybe he has been seeing her, she wont leave her partner, so he cant have her so he has got someone else - you. But they still cant leave each other alone. I also think if it is ... (read in full...)
We fight and make up... almost every day!
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship with this guy for around one year now. We liked each other from the beginning. We share a lot in common and we talk about our lives and problems always with each other. We have this beautiful relationship, but in the past ...
A. 2 November 2005: I think this happens to alot of couples. I am sure you are not arguing about what you really need to be talking about either. Have some time and think to yourself 'what is upsetting you' ask him to do the same.
Tomorrow when you wake up, say to your... (read in full...)
Anyone got any really wild sexual suggestions for me and my boyfriend?
Q. Hello, I know this might not be the best place to ask a question like this but I'm needing some help! I have been in a relationship for a number of years, and we have always had great bedroom chemistry. After a few years I guess you grow out of ...
A. 31 October 2005: My BF says the best thing I could do, would be turn up nake don his door step, wearing coat and sexy boots only carrying a pizza. Men - food and sex ;0)... (read in full...)
Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!
Q. I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...
A. 31 October 2005: You have loads of replies that I scanned through. My thoughts make me think if my own BF. He wakes (or more to the point doesnt wake) with a 'morning glory'. He will touch me or whatever. When we wake in the morning, I can tell him what he did in ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 already and still have never had a boyfriend...
Q. Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. This is ...
A. 31 October 2005: You made me smile describing yourself as 'killer personailty'. You know there is nothing wrong with you. And who says you need to have a load of BF's under your belt by 14. I sure would of got better grades if I never dated till I was 18 and ... (read in full...)
When someone asks you to a concert, does it mean he fancies you?
Q. I have been friends with a guy at work for about a year. He recently asked me to a concert with him on my own. My workmates reckon we fancy each other but he denies it and I do too because I don't want to be rejected. What should I do? I am shy and ...
A. 31 October 2005: Yeh, I think he fancies you, just take it slow, dont worry about things not happening, you will be able to feel if he fancies you. Does he touch you when you 2 are talking, does he give you good eye contact, or perhaps none sometime and looks away ... (read in full...)
I don't miss my ex. I don't even much like him... but I miss the contact!
Q. I have a very weird problem. My ex and I were strictly in no contact for several months and then he transferred to my school. I see him at least once if not twice a day (some days I've seen him 3-4). Things go back and forth from being painfully ...
A. 31 October 2005: Not so weird a question really. You miss your friend and you are nostagligic for what you had. It seems he maybe hurting more than you, so be strong for him and leave him be, as much as poss, since you are in same school. ... (read in full...)
Does the neighbour girl mean what she said about having no boyfriend? Should I have a go?
Q. Hello, Ok this does sound stupid but it really makes me mad right. I am 16 male live in England. My next door neighbour is 30yr old women has a middle sister of I think 27 and a younger sister of 24. Now!!! I really fancy the younger one 24...
A. 31 October 2005: I'm in the Uk too..hiya. I think you should wait till 18, alot can happen in between. Enjoy your crush they are great, but a difference of 8 years is not so much if you are say..31 and 39 but alot different in the ages you are talking about. She is ... (read in full...)
We only have sex when he wants it, never when I do!
Q. Dear Cupid, please help, I have been in a relationship for 2 years. He says that I am paranoid all the time, but our relationship has changed on his part, he doesn't want to have sex with me, only when he wants it. He's not interested in me anymo...
A. 31 October 2005: I think you have answered you own question, he is not interested anymore, he probably loves you, 2 years is a long time, but not 'in love' with you. Let him go and stop hurting yourself... (read in full...)
Can't understand why I'm accused of coming on too strongly with girls...
Q. Cupid, I've never really had a problem meeting girls and gaining their interest. My problem is not getting to into them, after meeting them. I want to talk with them so I can learn about them. This goes both with the girls I've met in person a...
A. 31 October 2005: The previous answer is a good one. Try leaving it a few hours or even a day or 2, before replying to texts/emails whatever. Dont make it look like you are there waiting with nothing else to do except talk to them/her, even if you are..appear busy. ... (read in full...)
My fiance's ex says she's pregnant. Is this just a stunt to get him back?
Q. My boyfriend and I have known each other for ten years and have dated for about a month and a half now. We plan on marrying in a year. We have a very open and honest relationship and recently he told me that his ex fiancee informed him that she is ...
A. 31 October 2005: Firstly, your bf a bit premature asking if you want to adopt another women child. I would be mad as hell, if someone thought they could just offer my child to someone else. Second you are doubtful she is even pregnant. You say you have only been ... (read in full...)
I like the guy I'm seeing... but no butterflies. Is the fact that I'm relaxed with him a good sign?
Q. I've just started seeing this guy and I really like him but I have a slight issue. I don't get that nervous feeling or the butterflies in my stomach. Don't get me wrong I get hot and bothered and really excited when he calls or texts but when I s...
A. 28 October 2005: I have been with my partner for over 2 years and also noticed that I never got butterflies. I also thought this was a bad sign. However now, i am very much in love with him. Perhaps not much help to you, but thought I let you know, you are not the ... (read in full...)
He's acting like we're over, but I can't get a straight answer out of him...
Q. Hi there. I am in a weird situation. My b/f of about 2 years just stopped speaking to me and all of his friends. Nobody can get through on his cell phone, because he keeps ignoring the calls. I sent him a text message asking to meet, and he said ...
A. 28 October 2005: I can only offer a little advice. They say 'women talk, men go to their caves' Perhaps give him as much time as you can tolerate and then make your choice. Seems like you hurting waiting for his choice... (read in full...)
The attention he's getting from other girls gives him a real ego problem..!
Q. I have known this guy for 5 years now. We have been off and on through school. I'm in college now, and he is still a senior but we still like each other. Not too long ago, before he told me he liked me again, he had sex with his ex girlfriend of ...
A. 26 October 2005: He wont quit. This is have you cake and eat it. Drop him, find someone else, he seems too good a manipulater to be true. Sorry..but move on... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is extra-large and we're wondering... what's the average penis size?
Q. What is the average penis size? My boyfriend has a very large package and we were wondering what was average? This is so awkward but also when he goes all the way in I have a sharp pain but it also feels good. Why is this and is there any harm in ...
A. 25 October 2005: He is probably hitting your cervix, so try postion with shallower penetration, not doggy style. Or just ask him not to put it in so far, he should beable to do this.
Try this shallow position, you lay on back legs slightly open, while he enters you,... (read in full...)
What should I do if my guy wants to have sex with me?
Q. I'm still a virgin, but the guy I'm currently in a relationship with isn't. I questioned him about his sexuality and he admitted to me that he had sex once or twice a month when he was in a long relationship, our relationship has just begun and I'm ...
A. 25 October 2005: You will always remeber your first time. Is this the boy you want to make this memory with? and is now the right time? My first time (and second) was very painful, i bled. I guess not everyone has the same experience. My bf and I were in love, he ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have answers to my questions about my penis?
Q. Hi I wanna ask 3 questions about Sex. I hope I'll get best replies and answers of them. 1.My first question is about my penis size. Well I'm 22 and I dont know, my penis dont grow. It's the same as like when I was 14 years old. As flaccid it's les...
A. 25 October 2005: Everything sounds pretty normal to me. For me anyway penis size has never been an issue. My ex was quite large and rubbish in bed, my bf now is an avergae size and fantastic in bed.
As a women I have only my experiences of my partners (not many... (read in full...)
My friend is an adult, but I think her sleeping with her half-brother is self-destructive!
Q. Hi. I recently found out a very close friend of mine has been sleeping with her half brother. She is 18 and he is 31. They did not grow up together and only met two years ago. I am the only one that knows after she told me drunk one night – since ...
A. 25 October 2005: Wow, your friend has put you in a tough position and what she is doing is passing all her worries onto you. I think someone termed the phrase 'emotional vampire'. this is not your problem, you are not related. How will your intervention make you ... (read in full...)
Normally she's hyper, so why is my girlfriend so secretive all of a sudden?
Q. I need HELP! My girlfriend is the love of my life. But she has no intentions of telling me what her feelings and thoughts are, she obviously distracted by something or someone. She gets very distant and quiet all of a sudden.(Shes nornally hyper as ...
A. 25 October 2005: Are you sure you are not my BF? he complains of the same things. He also makes the assumption that I am distracted by 'someone else' - not true. It my case I am just a girl of highs and lows, passion and mayhem. I am devoted to my BF and love him ... (read in full...)
It's time to break up, but I want to do it gently...
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months but things haven't been going well lately. I want to split up with my girlfriend but I don't want to hurt her. How can I let her down easily?...
A. 25 October 2005: this is a matter of personal choice. People cope in different ways. For me, i want to know straight, not be strung along. "this isn't working for me and I think we should end our relationship". Pretty clear and too the point. And lets face it, it ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend secretly hooking up with his exes?
Q. I am stuck in a rut!! My boyfriend is really getting to me. I got a call two weeks ago from his ex to say she was out for dinner with him and talking about getting back together. On the night in question he did not answer his calls for 3 hours, he ...
A. 25 October 2005: Sometimes if you feel something is wrong you are right to feel that way. Sometimes they are innocent. How will you know unless he confesses or you believe him. That is the harsh reality. I am sure there are many more details you could of added to ... (read in full...)
He tells me he was "missing" me and that's why he texted that other girl...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. This year we started university and while I stayed at home, he went away. We see each other most weekends. I went up this weekend however and I know it's wrong but I couldn't resist looking in his ...
A. 25 October 2005: Cpmpletely agree with previous answer. Forget about him.... (read in full...)
I know he just wants me for sex, but when I see him I turn to jelly...
Q. I have been seeing this lad on and off for about 2 months and I have really fallen for him, but he brags about how many girls he has been sleeping with lately. I try to hide the fact I'm bothered but really I am. Obviously all he wants me for is s...
A. 25 October 2005: Poor You, but I think you know what you should do. that is why you have posted on here. You will get hurt and the hurt will be greater the longer you continue this one sided relationship. Find someone who wants all of you, not just what you have to ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to be one big circle of friends with my boyfriends ex and her husband!
Q. My current boyfrind of 1.5 years is still Very close with his ex. They lived together for 5 years, and the following year after she broke it off, they tried to work things out. They ended up not being able to continue the relationship (her choice) ...
A. 25 October 2005: Wow, tricky one. Have you told your partner how you feel. You say you play along so maybe he doesn't know you are worried. Think that should be your first point of call. It is unsual for ex's to remain close and I would also wonder why. I think your ... (read in full...)
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