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writes:I've just started seeing this guy and I really like him but I have a slight issue. I don't get that nervous feeling or the butterflies in my stomach.Don't get me wrong I get hot and bothered and really excited when he calls or texts but when I see him or spend time with him I'm very relaxed and not nervous.I've been out with a number of guys and I've always had the butterfly thing regardless of if I really fancied them or not.I can't remember if this is also the case with my only long term ex ( we were together for 4 and half years! ) although I really fancied him and there was so much chemistry with him I was very relaxed right from the beginning.I need to know whether it is a bad thing that I don't get the butterflies. Am I reading too much into it?
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reader, Topps +, writes (28 October 2005):
I have been with my partner for over 2 years and also noticed that I never got butterflies. I also thought this was a bad sign. However now, i am very much in love with him. Perhaps not much help to you, but thought I let you know, you are not the only one to ponder 'the buttterfly thingy'
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2005): Only you can know your own mind. It sounds like you had a good relationship before without the " butterflies ", so I can't see why it would worry not to be anxious when you are around this new guy. Spend less time worrying about how you react, and more time on getting to know him, and letting him get to know you. Good Luck.
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