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writes: I have been seeing this lad on and off for about 2 months and I have really fallen for him, but he brags about how many girls he has been sleeping with lately. I try to hide the fact I'm bothered but really I am. Obviously all he wants me for is sex and I try hard to forget about him but whenever I see him it's like I go to jelly and can't take my eyes off him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): I am in exactly the same situation myself, fancied one of my mates for ages but hes married so when his wife told him shes leaving him i jumped in and said i'd like to snog him, so we shagged twice - i been mad about him for ages an wld love a relationship, but he holds my hand and in a very patronising way looks at me and says he doesnt want a relationship but wants to be friends (and have sex), i am going to play hard to get for long as i can an then dump him, i have no doubt that is the only way he is ever going to want me - people always want what they cant have
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): I think you need to let this guy go and get over him!!! He's not worth it.
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reader, anastasia +, writes (19 June 2006):
He is not worth your attention. Delete his number from you phone and move on. There will most definatley be someone better out there for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): maybe don't see him alone. tell your friends what's going on and have them watch your back?
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reader, Sugar_sweet +, writes (25 October 2005):
Hey Kirsty,
Sounds like a similar situation i was in a few weeks ago with this guy.
I know it must be really difficult for you because you seem to have really fallen for him, Stateing the fact that he brags about who hes slept and done this and that with is just wrong and the chances are if he done it to those girls he'd do the same to you.
If all hes after is sex from you then he isnt worth knowing never mind relationship material, I'm sure you can do a lot, lot better then him and get with someone who truely deserves and respects you for who you are,even though its hard to forget him off your mind trying avoid seeing him when you can wil help as seeing him doesnt usally help as it can bring back feelings you have or once had for him. wish you all the luck and hope all works out for you in the end. x
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reader, Topps +, writes (25 October 2005):
Poor You, but I think you know what you should do. that is why you have posted on here. You will get hurt and the hurt will be greater the longer you continue this one sided relationship. Find someone who wants all of you, not just what you have to offer in the bed. This relationship will only ruin your self esteem, while his is growing by the day.
You deserve to be treated better..
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (24 October 2005):
Well, if it's true that he has slept with all these different woman, then he most probably has HIV or STDs. If he just wants you for sex then...what a waste of good looks.
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reader, not again +, writes (24 October 2005):
don't see him so you can't look at him and turn to jelly! You know you are being used so you can do one of two things: prove to everyone that you think so little of yourself that you are happy to get walked over, or... get out! please choose the second option! xx
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