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writes: I have known this guy for 5 years now. We have been off and on through school. I'm in college now, and he is still a senior but we still like each other. Not too long ago, before he told me he liked me again, he had sex with his ex girlfriend of the past. I was so upset and didn't talk to him and told him I didn't want to be friends anymore. He got scared and was so scared of losing our relationship as friends. He wrote me this long e-mail and it made me give in and of course things were the same between me and him again. All these girls like him and his ego has gotten big and everytime this happens he acts like he doesn't need to talk to me but at the same time he doesn't want to lose me. I'm so tired of it and I just want him to quit acting like he doesn't need me and make him regret the way he is acting. I need help please because I know he is a better person than this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): He is getting a kick out of the attention he is getting from you.Realize that this is not going to change..but you can by..by letting this go and finding someone is is worthy of u.Toxic situations like these breaks down a persons self esteem gradually.Don't let this happen to you.Break free cause ur beautiful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2005): this guy sounds so egotistical and selfish. if he is keeping you as a friend, perhaps it is because he can find out how girls think (he'll like to think so anyway) and use this to get more girls to like him.
maybe he used to be a better person than this, but i'm afraid he will need a sharp wake up call to change his ways.
you need to be the better person by standing up for yourself and ditching hin for good.
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reader, Topps +, writes (26 October 2005):
He wont quit. This is have you cake and eat it. Drop him, find someone else, he seems too good a manipulater to be true. Sorry..but move on
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