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writes:My partner of 5 years has left me, I am 8 weeks pregnant. I have a daughter who believes he is her father and he has left. He has backed out of getting married to me and buying a house with me. We have been engaged for 4 years.
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reader, sweetlilpeachx69  +, writes (2 October 2007):
take him for support after you have the baby .. does he even know about the baby how old is your daughter ? MY HEART REALLY GOES OUT TO YOU
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): It's more than likely that the other posters are 100% right.But there is one more possibility that I want to bring up. What were the circumstances of you becoming pregnant? A lot of women have a habit of getting pregnant as a relationship is coming apart and the guy is pulling away. If he was pulling away before this pregnancy then maybe his leaving needs to be seen in a different light. Four years is a long time to be "engaged" to anyone without just getting married. That alone should have been a tip-off that he's not ready for a long-term commitment.I'm not saying he's in the right or anything, just bringing up a possible set of circumstances that might help explain his decisions.
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (18 September 2007):
 That was terrible of your partner leaving you after 5 years! And leaving you 8 weeks pregnant!! My heart goes out for you. Just make sure that you get child support payments when the baby is born. My prayers are with you and your children!
God Bless!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): Yes, it is a despicable thing for him to have done to you.Just make sure you get the courts to grant you child support payments..........he is obliged to pay to help with the cost of raising a child he has fathered.
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reader, melodaea +, writes (17 September 2007):
 No offence, but it sounds like you're well rid of him. Any man that can do that is despicable... I know, as it happened to my mother whilst pregnant with me. Please, do not dwell on this... I know it must feel strange seeing as you were engaged for so long, but please, move on and find some happiness.
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