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female
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writes:He's already come out and practically said "I love you" to me and it's only been a week. We've only been on one date and talked between classes a couple times. I'm a little freaked out by the whole situation, but it's rare that anyone takes notice of me. I'm so confused. Help please. Reply to this Question
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reader, sweetlilpeachx69 +, writes (23 September 2007):
you can be in love in a week my bf and i met we talked 1 week then the first time we made love i told him i loved him. he said do you know how many times i wanted to tell you that ! the thing is we have been together goin on 10 mths and i live with him . we have been together thru thick and thin ifeel like its already till death do us part . but so far we have never made that commitment yet !!
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (22 September 2007):
 i don't think anyone can honestly say they love you until they understand you and know you and only then should it be said.
he may feel insecure but by declaring this he has defo limited his chances because he has scared you.
you need to talk to him, pronto! speak to him and explain you feel uncomfortable with this and you'd prefer to take things alot slower and see where it goes.
he might just be afraid of loosing you, and you need to tell him to be himself or he will push you away before anything has started!
good luck
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (22 September 2007):
He sounds like a lot of people on here claiming they're in love with a person they just met an hour ago. This could mean he is needy, overbearing, or downright annoying. These situations usually fall aprt even quicker than they started. The only real way to know is to ride this for a little while, but what other impressions do you have of him? How do you feel about him? Yes I know you do not love him yet, but did the date go well and do you seem to connect?
Tell us more about him and what your feelings are and perhaps it will help you figure out if you want to ride this train any longer and help us give you some more insight.
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