How can I find out about getting a brazilian wax in my local area?
Q. i really want a brazilian wax, but i have no idea how or where to get one. how can i find out about where i can get one in my local area, and will i be allowed because im only 15 years old. thanks...
A. 21 March 2008: you can get one at any beauty salon that does waxing, but y would you want that at 15 yrs old?... (read in full...)
I have to either starve or binge, how can I get out of this endless cycle?
Q. heyx i was just wondering if i am normal, and if im not, what can I do to change? Basically, a year ago i was over 10 stone. Then i lost all the weight, and got to 8 stone. I felt happy, and good about myself. But then my cousin stayed over and I sa...
A. 21 March 2008: i have been exactly wear you are, an to an extent i will always be very wary of my weight and food. the best advice i can give to you is to go to the doctors they will refer you to a dietican who will try and help you organise your day, which i ... (read in full...)
Does he fancy my friend, who's just been dumped? He said he meant to comfort her by this allusion at my expense.
Q. I've been seeing my new boyfriend for a month and up until now, things were perfect, until last night. We went out for a few drinks, then bumped into a friend of mine who has just been dumped, and my b/f was like, "Oh, whoever dumped you must be mad ...
A. 2 January 2008: i dont think he actually meant that last line he proberly was saying it to make her feel better, but he proberly just went a bit over the top. i dont think you should feel like it was at your expense, neither should you feel as though he thought ... (read in full...)
My first sexual contact 7 months ago was painful and I am still in immense pain during sex. What can I do?
Q. i am 18 and have been in a relationship for the past 12 months. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around 7 months ago which was really painful. I still however still cannot have sex without bein in immense pain. This is now becoming an issue in ...
A. 12 December 2007: im pretty sure this could be either that you are stressing about it so much that you cant relax, and that anticipating the pain is making you tigten even more. try some lubricant maybe this will help you. but if you think its deeper then this i ... (read in full...)
Didn't use protection 3 days before my period was due. 5 days late now. How late is late enough to worry?
Q. Hey...I'm now 5 days late. I did have unprotected sex with my bf 3 days before my period was due....which was sunday...but it still hasn't come on now :S could I pregnant? How late is late enough to worry? Thanks for reading, any advice would be ...
A. 30 November 2007: 1 day is late enough to worry. although i think a pregnancy test would be negative if the "baby" was only concieved on sunday it will proberly take about 5 weeks to show up.... (read in full...)
I really feel his ex is trying to come between us, with actions she has undertaken, manipulation, gossip. Do you think I am overreacting?
Q. I just wanted people's views on the suituation I am in. I have been with my boyfriend 9 months. He was with a girl for 4 years before me, they had been split up for about 5 months prior to us getting together. In that time, my boyfriend said...
A. 30 November 2007: not at all, in fact i think you seem very calm about the whole situation! especially saying you know he wouldn't cheat on you. You ovbiousley have a very strong relationship which is completley pissing the ex off, but carry on wht you are doing ... (read in full...)
I feel abnormal....will growth hormone help??
Q. Im so flat chested and I cant afford surgery. I was wondering though, could female hormone pills give me bigger boobs?It might sound weird but I know that men who want to be women take these to grow boobs so would be any harm in me taking them? Or ...
A. 18 November 2007: i wouldnt take estrogen if i was you it can stop your own body producing it and your body will begin to need it. BUT there is a pill, (i cant remember what its called but im quite sure it starts with an f) but it definetley increases boob size! mt ... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me how to stop feeling the pain of breaking up?
Q. Hi Everyone I have now accepted that Myself and ex fiance will not get back together. However I am tortured with thoughts of my fiance meeting or being intimate with someone else. I know I should try to block these thoughts out, but I'm struggli...
A. 16 November 2007: time is the only thing that can heal a broken heart. i think that you should completley cut yourself off from your ex fiance, how can you get over someone who you always see?
i hope you do get over this and find happiness... (read in full...)
Afraid my friend is anorexic
Q. I'm really worried about a friend of mine, she is becoming obsessed with what she eats. She has started writing a 'food diary' with what she eats every day, I looked at it and it has things like 'half a bowl of soup', 'half a mars bar' etc. I'm ...
A. 12 November 2007: if it is an eating disorder, she is doing it for attentionn but not the kind you think she is crying out for help. if she has a troubled home life which is out of her control, food which she can control her amount she consumes becomes a vent. keep ... (read in full...)
How can I make these stretch marks disappear?
Q. I am 16 and i am a virgin but for the past year i have had stretch marks on my inner and outer thigh how can i make these go and why are they there....
A. 5 November 2007: i would try not to even worry about them they are proberly where you had a growth spurt recently, and im sure they look much worse to you then anyone else who will see them! over time they will go white and be hardly visible especially on your ... (read in full...)
I kissed a girl when I was drunk, should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. on the w/e for the first time in about a year i went out with mates n got really drunk n well a girl had been flirting with me b4 i got drunk but told her i had a gf so i thought she wouldn't try anything anyway after a lot of drinks a lot of us ...
A. 5 November 2007: ok, you sound as though you regret it and love your girl friend, it was only a drunken kiss DONT tell her what is the point in hurting her if you do regret it and want to stay with her! it will just cause trust issues and do you really want her ... (read in full...)
How to delay your period? Starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true?
Q. Hi, im on the pill (21 day pack) and am going on holiday soon. I heard you can stop your period for that month by starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true? and after that 2nd pack do you then leave it off for a week and get your ...
A. 5 November 2007: yeah it is right just carry on taking your new pack straight after you finish your old one. the only downside is that you next period might be worse then usual.... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and my brother is 17, what should I do?
Q. i m 16 years old. my 17 years old brother wants to suck my boobs and wants me to give him a blow job. Please tel me what i should do....
A. 4 November 2007: tell your mum tell anyone who will believe you and try and stay away from him as much as you can! go to the police if you have to!... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and so scared.
Q. hey i had unprotected sex d other night.. i was drunk bt took d pill the next day.. bt stupidly enough i had unprotected sex the followin night with a different guy.. one i liked.. i hvnt taken the pill yet and its two days after.. are u ab...
A. 4 November 2007: im not to sure about this, but all i konw is if you have took the morning after pill you will bleed within 2 weeks of taking it otherwise it hasnt worked!... (read in full...)
Had sex without condom on the 7th day of pause (from the pills), are these signs that I'm pregnant?
Q. Ok pleas help me.. I'm on the pill but on my last day of my seven day break about a week and half ago, i had sex without a condom with my boyfriend. Now for about 4 days ive had slight stomach cramps and slight dizziness in the morning and weei...
A. 4 November 2007: i think your imagining these things because your worried the pill covers you the whole time if you take it correctly, even during the 7 day break i very much doubt your pregnant... (read in full...)
I'm uneducated in sex. Do women crave sex?
Q. im 21 and have my first girlfriend 6 months ago and havent had sex in like 2 months and even before that it was seldom. Everytime we try sehe gets pissed off and doesn't even talk to me and its cause I am unable toget hard and rarely if I can it ...
A. 4 November 2007: listen, you are never gonna be your best with her moaning and not being paitient she is doing absoloutley nothing for your confidence, i would finish with her if i was you sex is a big part of relationships and to make you feel like that must be ... (read in full...)
Does losing your virginity make you bleed??
Q. I am 17 and i am close to losing my virginity. I just have one question though. The first time someone has sex (females) do they bleed? and does it hurt?...
A. 3 November 2007: i wouldnt use the word hurt but it is quite uncomfortable, and some people bleed some dont! i found that it was more sore for a couple of days after the act then during... (read in full...)
Am I just being selfish and wanting more than I should?
Q. My husband and I dated for a year, was engaged for a year, have been married for half a year, and have a 9 month old son. We're 20 years old. I feel like I've made a mistake getting married. I love my son but I don't know anymore about my ...
A. 3 November 2007: i dont think your being selfish, it isnt unreasonable for your to want your son to grown up in stress free area!
have you tried talking to him about it, and think about how you word things dont give him the opportunity to shout at you and put you ... (read in full...)
I he acting or serious?
Q. I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend we are engaged and have a son, we are very happy together. The thing is he has a twin brother and they are very close. His brother has always had an alcohol problem we even had him live with us for a ...
A. 3 November 2007: twins always get treated the same so he proberly is very jealous of his brother, but i wouldnt take it as a come on to you he wants the whole package he wants to be his brother, i think you should talk to your fiance about this. once he quits ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant this way?
Q. I would like to become pregnant but my hubby won't cum inside, he says not now we are not ready but I am so I got him off with a blow job then let him cum in my hand then I went in the bathroom in put it in my vagina. Can I get pregnant like that? ...
A. 2 November 2007: yes you can get pregnant but how would you feel if he took absoloutley no reguard for your feelings and ignored you completley, you wanna hope you dont get pregnant... (read in full...)
How many partners have you had?
Q. This is a very general question, based on the numerous questions that I see posted about couples dealing with one partner's sexual past. How many sexual partners have YOU had? Do you regret the number, be it big or small? How many "one-night-stand...
A. 30 October 2007: im 19 and had 1 partner 0 one nighters... (read in full...)
What's your opinion on my friend's situation.
Q. she's been going out with this guy for a month, known him 5 months... they had sex the 4th time they seen each other... she saw her boyfriend 5 days ago and he still hasn't called her or texted her since then and she's called him twice and texted...
A. 29 October 2007: well sounds like all he is interested in is sex dont be fooled by the sweetness it is more then likely an act... (read in full...)
Can I cope with being a single parent in the future?
Q. I am about to leave a relationship that I have been in for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son. After years of trying I have realised that I am 100% not happy and really just want to move on. Of course I want to also ensure my son is happy too and ...
A. 27 October 2007: to be honest i think it would put the kind of man off that you want to be put off if you know what i mean! it defintetley wont stop you meeting the right person my mum had 3 sons one teen and 2 under 10's and it didnt put my dad off!... (read in full...)
Am I lying to myself, or am I still in love with him?
Q. I've been with my BF for almost 2 years. He is my first love and boyfriend, my first kiss, i lost my virginity to him, bascially he's my first everything. He's dated and had experience in the past which is fine. Anyway, from the moment i met him i ...
A. 27 October 2007: As your relationship is it isnt fair on either of you, why dont you suggest on him about going on a break say for a month and buy the end of it you will def know what you want and he will know where he stands. ... (read in full...)
Can I make my face look older? How?
Q. ok i am 14 years old and about 5"3 when i go out shopping e.t.c i always seem pretty tall and there are a lot of people smaller than me but i have a bit of a baby face it lets me down and makes be look younger any ideas to make my face look older ...
A. 27 October 2007: there is no possible way to make yourself look older, and why would you want to in 20 years time you will proberly be buying anti ageing products! afterall if you have a mature body you are proberly recieving male attention that is to mature for ... (read in full...)
Is this texting cheating?
Q. I recently found my boyfriends phone bill hidden and after looking through it i noticed that just weeks after our baby was born he was constantly texting a number whilst he was at work. The were 41 texts to this number and lasted for 6 days then ...
A. 27 October 2007: yes i would count that as a form of cheating, i understand what you mean about worse then physical cheating coz a lot of the time that isnt premeditated where this was.
its horrible for you to think that you were so happy together, that is parti... (read in full...)
I can't cum - am I weird?
Q. hi, my friends tell me all the time that they masturbate and that its really nice adn we also discuss there relationship with boys like which boys made them cum the fastest and who was the best and fingering and other things but i have never ha...
A. 27 October 2007: you are still really young and your friends could be lying to sound good which a lot of young people do! i wouldnt even be slightley bothered by this as you have many years ahead of you to experince an orgasm, also maybe its because you are not ... (read in full...)
His looking at porn has brought me out in spots! How do I get over this?
Q. 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of...
A. 27 October 2007: i think you should stop contact with your ex as it seems to be doing more harm then good for you and you dont owe him anything he betrayed you! half a stone really isnt that much, you will be able to shift it easily. as for your spots have you ... (read in full...)
How do I catch him out?
Q. My boyfriend and his friend went out clubbing one night last week. My boyfriends friend told his girlfriend that my boyfriend brought a girl back to the flat and they slept in living room all night. He doesn't know if something went on. The ...
A. 27 October 2007: i wouldnt care who i promised to keep my mouth shut they cant expect you to im surprised your havent confronted him and kicked his arse into touch already, because lets face it he didnt bring her home to watch telly and just sleep. sorry if i sound ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and never been kissed!
Q. Hey. I'm 15 and I've never been kissed. This probably sounds trivial, but I dislike talking about any kind of lovelife because of it. I've never been made to feel pretty by anybody except my two best friends and my family. I know that I'm not ug...
A. 27 October 2007: i didnt have my first kiss till i was 16 and im only 19 now, i felt like you about it, dont worry it will happen in time. i think that nowadays so many girls and boys are having sex at a younger age, that it makes others feel inadequate. but trust ... (read in full...)
My right breast is two sizes smaller than the left.
Q. Hey im 19 an my right brest is like two sizes smaller than my left... will they stay this way?? or is there anything i can do to help me with my comfit??? i just started seeing a guy it been 5 months an am shame to be naked infront of him... ...
A. 24 October 2007: in the UK if one of your breasts is 2 cup sizes bigger you can get surgery on the NHS which is free, im dont know about the austrailian health service but im sure you could get cosmetic surgery to reduce one or pump the other up. at 19 im quite ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but my mum would kill me!
Q. I want a baby but im only 15. I'm not sure if my bf wants one but i think he does but i no if i get pergent my mum would kill me so what should i do???...
A. 24 October 2007: you have got so many years ahead of you to have a baby enjoy your teenage years being a teen mum is extremley hard, finish your education and make a life for yourself. then think about babies, it would proberly break your mums heart, she wants the ... (read in full...)
Is my mind having a meltdown?
Q. Okay this is one of those things that just confuses me! If you are in a 'fun bud' relationship with a guy, who knows you care about him more than casual, are these things normal behaviour or is he showing that he cares when he can't actually s...
A. 22 October 2007: it doesnt sound like one but he could just be a very affectionate person. if you really wanna know how he feels be honest and ask him at least you will know where you stand.... (read in full...)
What do I do now? I'm lost!
Q. Any advice right now would be so greatly appreciated...My boyfriend of 4 years has just broken up with me. I am absolutely devastated, and I really didn't see it coming. We got together at the start of uni, and graduated in the summer. He is now in ...
A. 21 October 2007: i found myself in a similar situatuion recently, and he is completley out of order to give you hope like that, if he doesn't want to be with you he cant expect you to hang around waiting for him to decide what he wants that is not fair on you. the ... (read in full...)
He refuses to get rid of the girls' phone numbers because he said if we break up he wants to be able to talk to them - and he puts his friends before our daughter and I.
Q. Hey I am eighteen years old and I have a one month old baby with my boyfriend. We had broken up but now are back together and he had got a bunch of girls phone number, he talks to them late and night and is constantly texting them. I told him i am ...
A. 15 October 2007: you are going through so much right now you have just had a baby and that takes all your confidence straight away, i had my son at 17 so i know how you are feeling and listen to me when i say this you need a boyfriend like that like you need a hole ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings OK with him impression of me.
Q. Hi all- Ok, I must admit first off to being a bit of a snoop. My boyfriend checked his myspace account on my computer earlier, and when I went to sign in later his home page was still up. I listened to the little devil on my shoulder and looked i...
A. 15 October 2007: i dont think he believes you are a jealous person but maybe this "old friend" has feelings for your boyfriend and he was aware of this and did not want to meet up with her because he loves you... (read in full...)
He wants to just separate, but I know it can't work, how do I help him let it go.
Q. I recently broke up with my fiance. It was over a stupid argument, but really it's about all of our arguments. I was looking for a way out and found one. All we do is fight, and even though I love him, I don't think it's good or healthy for either ...
A. 12 October 2007: i was in this situation myself recently but i was in you ex perspective, and if it really is over with him don't give him any false hope whatsoever, don't doubt your decision for a moment when you're in front of him. and remember although you might ... (read in full...)
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