Boyfried said he found a skinny celebrity 'hot' and now I feel insecure. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. OK i need help here. When it comes to looks I'll admit it im not happy with how i look (well im not happy about one thing and thats my weight, Im a UK size 22) Anyways I was with my bf the other day and I dont remember how the convo came about...
A. 12 November 2010: A man can find different types of women beautiful- some not for physical reasons but personality, or mannerisms, or confidence etc.... (read in full...)
Inappropriate ex behaviour?
Q. My boyfriend's ex comes to all his important events - birthdays, thanksgiving, Christmas, when his band plays. She is a good family friend but he cheated on her and that's what ended their relationship. I don't understand why someone who has b...
A. 12 November 2010: I don't think you're wrong to feel that way, but if she's a family friend.. then ex or not, she's a friend of the family.
She probably has healed a LONG time ago about the cheating thing.... (read in full...)
Fiance and I at loggerheads over money!
Q. Please can you help with the 2 following Questions. Background I am 46f, my new fiance is a 50yr male. We live 60 miles apart but see each other every weekend ( we take turn in travelling. He also visits me every Wed. We have been dating 18mo...
A. 12 November 2010: What does age and gender have to do with anything? Q1, he needs to pay 50% of everything upon moving in. Rent, bills, groceries, etc. That is fair. It doesn't matter whose house it is, who makes more money than who - unless the person owning th... (read in full...)
Too fat to be loved!
Q. I met my boyfriend(ex) over a year ago... we got along very well spent almost every day together talked for hours and hours and never seemed to care about anyone but ourselves. about 7 months into he he suddenly started to pull away and i felt ...
A. 12 November 2010: I think he was just using a stupid excuse to break up with you.. that he doesn't really think you're "too fat", but can't bring himself to tell you outright why he wants to break up with you.... (read in full...)
I have a boil down south!
Q. I have a boil "down there" and I am scared that my "guy friend" will think im disgusting. Its nothing bad its not like i have a STD or something its just a boil but it terrifies me that he will tell me to get out. Should i be worried? What should i ...
A. 11 November 2010: How do you know it's not an STD?
You definitely need to see your gyno. And don't show your guy anything in the meantime. ... (read in full...)
He expects me to be Miss Perfect but I want to be me!
Q. OK, so me and my boyfriend got together like 3 weeks after him and his former fiance broke up cuz I guess she was cheating on him. He insists that he loves me, but lately he has been a bit.... Rude, I guess you can say. He told me I needed to lose ...
A. 11 November 2010: It sounds like he might be trying to project how his former fiancee looked, on you- which isn't cool.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm being petty.
Q. So I got my eyes tested today -turns out I need glasses. I'd asked my boyfriend whether he might come with me to pick some, as I wanted someone to bounce different ideas off - I've never had glasses before and picking them seems daunting...
A. 11 November 2010: I agree. This is a really petty, minor issue.
I do, however, think that he definitely should have gone with you - if only as support.... (read in full...)
We were born on the same day and year, tell me we're not meant to be together!
Q. Ok here it is exactly 4 months after me and my girlfriend started going she calls me one morning and say i can't do this anymore....we had a great time together....we were born on the same day and same year. she made me feel like we were a dynasty. ...
A. 10 November 2010: If she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, there is nothing you can do but move on..
You will find someone new, don't worry!... (read in full...)
My gf did something that affects my health, should I continue in this relationship?
Q. Hi everyone I have a serious problem with relationship... quick background: i started dated my gf in oct 2009.. everything was perfect she told me how much she likes me and wants to spend more time and she called me every day etc etc.. i fall...
A. 10 November 2010: If you had chlamydia or ghonneria, trust me, you'd know. It wouldn't just be a sudden surprise. They're painful STDs.
Now, good news! They're both completely treatable.
If I were you, I'd worry more about something like herpes, which can be compl... (read in full...)
How to enforce a legal matter filed in USA in the Netherlands? Child Support
Q. How can I enforce a legal matter filled in USA in the Netherlands? Child Support Matter? My boyfriend and I (EX Boyfriend NOW) were having a relationship for more than 10 months. I am from Miami and he is currently here in a J1 Visa, what it me...
A. 10 November 2010: I'm not a lawyer-
But you won't be able to go through the U.S. court system, and on the flip side I doubt the Netherlands will be able to enforce the child support on his end because you are an American citizen...
Now!
The first step, I would sa... (read in full...)
Wanted: New breasts!
Q. I have ugly breasts. They're small for my body (I have huge hips) and they have big areolas. I also don't like their shape much, it's a very common shape but it's not round and nice. If they were rounder and had small areolas I wouldn't mind the ...
A. 10 November 2010: If they bother you, get the surgery.
However you need to work on self-confidence first, otherwise you will never be happy with you however you look.
And also consider the adverse affects of fake breasts.. infections, bursting implants, loss of ... (read in full...)
I go out of my way for him, but what does he do for me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have lived together almost the entire time. Although I am almost 30 years old, I had never been in a serious relationship before. He is the first guy I have ever loved. We have had ...
A. 10 November 2010: Men don't read minds. No, he doesn't know you'd appreciate it if he made you dinner, or that you feel you sacrifice so much. He really doesn't.
Men take things at face value, we women read into everything and project our desires upon guys and expe... (read in full...)
How can I get over the feelings I have for my uncle?
Q. I was eight years old when I first met my Uncle. My heart pounded and I loved him immediatly. I heard rumors that he was only my father's half brother and hope glimmered that he was adopted etc. I felt dirty a lot of times but, he was so amazing, ...
A. 9 November 2010: Do you think that perhaps he's just saying "Love *" and "Love you" because he is your relative after all..? and not because he has feelings for you?... (read in full...)
He is struggling to keep an erection and now we havent had sex for 2 months, my confidence is at an all time low!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, sex was fine at first however he started having trouble keeping an erection during sex after 3 months. However, foreplay is not a problem. I confronted him about the erection problem...
A. 9 November 2010: He could be depressed. Depression affects not only his ability to keep an erection, but his desire to have sex, and his desire to be physically intimate at all (kissing etc.).
I would talk to him about it; tell him you won't keep letting it go.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend made me throw up from his comments
Q. After a comment my boyfriend made about my weight I started to throw up food after eating it I know I shouldn't I know it can cause a lot of health issues but if I don't do it ill sit their biting my nails feeling really anxious until I do it. I ...
A. 9 November 2010: You need to get rid of this guy.
Someone who "loves" you should NEVER ever say anything so hurtful; he should love you for who you are.... (read in full...)
He used me, hurt me, left me but I still care, how do I get over him?
Q. Dear cupid I know this is long, please please please read it through. I am basically from India and got separated from my husband since he treated me so badly. i got into a relationship with a guy in office, we were friends for sometime and the...
A. 9 November 2010: He used you. And he is a user. This seems to be his MO (particular way of life). I don't think you can change anything about that, and I think he's being honest when he says he gets bored.
He clearly has issues with emotional commitment, as he told... (read in full...)
I pushed my ex into a relationship with me, again.
Q. I just pressured my ex (two years, lived together for one year) back into a relationship with me. We broke up two months ago because I got into a stupid fight with his friend. I immediately realized we were broken up for the wrong reason, so I wan...
A. 9 November 2010: I didn't really get a clear question..
But just having read that I'll say-
You recognize you are being manipulative, in fact; no one has projected this upon you, you offered it up yourself. And you're right. Going "psycho" on someone to force th... (read in full...)
I just don't know what to do or how to feel............
Q. I will attempt to make this as short as possible, but I'd really appreciate advice on this.. I will go into detail so those who do reply can have a better grasp on the situation and the people involved. I apologise in advance in regards to the ...
A. 9 November 2010: You need to take her email at face value.
Stop reading into the "i love you" and "i miss you toos" and recognize that it is what it is.
Like I said, she thinks the relationship is unhealthy and is taking a step back from the situation.
No, it wo... (read in full...)
My husband keeps lying to me about watching porn! How can I get him to stop?
Q. My husband and i have been married for almost 2 years now, but together for almost 6. We also have a duagter. We have always had great sex life, full of adventure. I was up to anything really. Within the past few months though, he has really ...
A. 9 November 2010: Listen, I'm in the SAME place as you.. and I've racked my brain trying to come up with ways to spice things up.
One thing that I found works (it sounds a bit silly though but hear me out) - buy a few different kinds of wigs; nothing fancy.. they... (read in full...)
My lover is threatening to tell my wife everything and have me beaten up if I don't leave my wife for her!
Q. I have been having an on off affair for 3 years, and I just don't know what to do, I have a good wife I have been with since I was 17 and 3 beautiful daughters, the woman I am having an affair is loving and the sex is just fantastic.... but ...
A. 9 November 2010: You need to tell your wife.
You telling her is infinitely better than your mistress telling her.
Then you need to contact the police if she threatens you.
Once you tell your wife, you won't have any reason to feel obligated to be with her.
You ar... (read in full...)
I just don't know what to do or how to feel............
Q. I will attempt to make this as short as possible, but I'd really appreciate advice on this.. I will go into detail so those who do reply can have a better grasp on the situation and the people involved. I apologise in advance in regards to the ...
A. 9 November 2010: I only read the first few sentences, but I can give you your answer (I did the same to my boyfriend).
In all honesty, we ask for space to see what it would be like to not be in a relationship with you. If we're with you all the time and in a rela... (read in full...)
Why do women complain about porn?
Q. Okay...So i just have a question in general. Why do women complain about they're Love watching porn or anything else for that matter to porn? It's like such a big deal, oh no. But theres so many women out there who do it themselves. I...
A. 9 November 2010: I have ZERO problem with porn.
My boyfriend watches it whenever he feels like it.
I watch it whenever I feel like it.
Sometimes we watch it together.
For me there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. ... (read in full...)
Acne and Pubic Hair Problems! Solutions?
Q. hi everyone i am 17 and i have red spots all over my face, neck and a few on the top of my back. I have used clearasil but that hasn't worked at all. i have used oxy which hasn't worked and i am currently using a supermarkets own which defina...
A. 9 November 2010: Try Pro-Activ, which is still over the counter - for your acne problem.
If it's still bad see a dermatologist for prescription acne cream.
The itch goes away eventually. Everyone gets itchy when they shave their head for the first time, or dow... (read in full...)
Shower gel or no shower gel?
Q. Is their a Shower Gel or Cream that you can Clean your Vagina with so when he goes down on you..your more irresistible and Tasty??...
A. 9 November 2010: No shower gel or cream please! Don't put that down there.
If he does want you to have a "taste" down there, then there are plenty of edible treats available in your local adult store.... (read in full...)
Vaginal infections are ruining my life, is anyone else going through the same thing?
Q. I'm going to ramble on bit here to fill you in on my history of infections, I'd be ever so greatful of some feedback if anyone has any.. I'm 22 years old, and it all started when I was 19. I got a urine infection and got antibiotics from...
A. 9 November 2010: I'm far from a doctor but I'm going to say that you are having a severe adverse reaction to the antibiotics.
Please find a different gyno. Find 2 different gynos for 2 different opinions.
It's definitely not BV- and I don't think it's an STD beca... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never comes near my penis!
Q. Hi everyone. I've posted a few questions on here before. I'm still struggling with my relationship. To give you a bit of background, I'm a 23-year-old gay guy who has been in a relationship with a 53-year-old guy (huge age gap, I know!) for ...
A. 9 November 2010: He sounds like a very dominant, masculine top (and possibly DL, I couldn't really tell based on your text).
If ^ they consider you the submissive bottom and might have issues with doing "submissive" type roles where they feel they are now vuln... (read in full...)
I get myself into some pretty crazy situations.
Q. Basically , I'm having sex with a cop. I thought it was going to be a one time thing when we met butt it wasn't, and now I'm head over heals for the guy.... I'm 1, 18 in a month and a half. he thinks I'm 19. I plan to tell him when I do turn 18 ...
A. 9 November 2010: You already asked this question.
And for everyone who isn't aware - the cop is 26.
You need to check your state laws for age of consent - it's a pretty serious deal, if you are considered a minor he's just committed statutory rape.... (read in full...)
My FWB slept with my friend, how should I handle this?
Q. So I'm writing about a fwb relationship that I need advice on what to do with. there's this girl I have been talking to for a few months. I liked her strongly at first and couldn't get my mind off her. She expressed interest for me as well, but gave ...
A. 9 November 2010: She is single.
&
You are not her boyfriend.
End of story.... (read in full...)
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