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writes:OK, so me and my boyfriend got together like 3 weeks after him and his former fiance broke up cuz I guess she was cheating on him. He insists that he loves me, but lately he has been a bit.... Rude, I guess you can say. He told me I needed to lose 30lbs. Now I'm not big, I weigh a lot but I'm not fat or anything. In fact I'm 160 lbs nd I can fit in XS shirts nd rlly small pants. But because I weigh 30 lbs more then him he thinks I'm fat, and I'm also taller then him so I guess I should weigh a little bit more then him. And when he TOLD me I needed to lose weight just happened to be on homecoming night. Now he wants me to keep my hair long, straighten it, and he expects me to be like perfect. But then he doesn't do much for me. He won't even stay up past 8 PM for me (Two hour distance [long distance relationship]) Now, I'm not sure if he really loves me, or if he's trying to make me into some other girl.... We only talk like a half hour a day because our days are so hectact nd it's just really worrying me, cuz he doesn't seem to love me for me...
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reader, sugarcandy +, writes (11 November 2010):
It sounds like he might be trying to project how his former fiancee looked, on you- which isn't cool.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 November 2010):
 I'm confused at how he controls you this much seeing as he's long distance. Tell him off, he's criticizing your weight, and how you should wear your hair..if he loved you then he wouldn't do any of the above. Give him an ultimatum, either he accepts you the way you are of it's over.
I'm put my whole bank account on his former fiance dumped him because he of his controlling nature.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (11 November 2010):
 DO NOT stay in this relationship, he's a control freak and it's just going to get worse. please don't lose weight for this guy, you're taller too, does he want you to shrink so you can be just like him or what he wants you to be?
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