I feel badly should I forgive my ex?
Q. I was with my bf for 2 years and all was great until after a year we started fighting about everything. He got a huge temper outa nowhere and I was very patient and kind with him through it. He has thrown my personal belongings against walls to ...
A. 24 July 2010: simple answer here, no you cant trust him. This man sounds like a total nightmare! Believe me i know one or two men exactly like him and he's never going to change! You shouldnt feel like you have to put up with him because his mum died. ok, losing ... (read in full...)
I want to find my soulmate.
Q. Ok so I'm a 21 year old, tall, decent looking guy. And I want to find my soulmate (girl). Recently I've been having sex with girls I really don't feel anything for. The sex is ok but I feel like i'm missing something here. This might sound weird ...
A. 24 July 2010: i believe in fate. I think everything happens for a reason. Sometimes though when you are looking so hard for something you never find it. It's always the times when you have just given up and something really special comes along. It happened to me. ... (read in full...)
Should I give a cheating husband a second chance?
Q. Hi everyone, I feel like I really need advice. I have been married for 3 years and my husband cheated on me a few months ago with a girl I can't stand. He says that they just made out and then he ended it, but he was really drunk so I'm thinking ...
A. 10 May 2010: the thing is, you do still love him so maybe its worth giving him a second chance? Oh, honestly, your question has really been playing on my mind! I know that if it was me then he wouldnt see me for dust. I just dont think he has any respect for ... (read in full...)
She says I'm too good for her
Q. This girl I wuz seeing says that she isn't ready for a serious relationship right now. We've 6een texting ever since then and recently she told me that she's sorry for all she put me through goin out and that any girl would be luccy to be with me. ...
A. 10 May 2010: I dont think your stupid for wanting to be with her. But it sounds a wee bit like she's just not sure what she wants. how about giving her some space? Be there for her as a friend for now but let her just try and figure out in her own mind what she ... (read in full...)
We broke up, he spent the night, then acted cold in the AM. Is he using me?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend like a month and a half ago, i want to know if he is using me or not! he is living with friends right now and he is required to have a visitor pass, last night he calls me and asks me if he can come over for the night ...
A. 10 May 2010: Sorry sweetheart but this guy just needed somewhere to stay. He also tried his luck at getting a bit of room service. I'm proud that you didn't give in!
Forget about him and move on. And in future dont let people use your place as a free hotel!... (read in full...)
My friend's fiancee has given bj's to probably 30 or more guys and he can't deal with it!
Q. My 'work friend' is engaged getting married next year. He has a problem with his fiancee's past. She is still a virgin and wants to wait until they're married. He is fine with that, however, due to what she calls 'sexual pressure' by guys she has ...
A. 10 May 2010: I think that you should just remind your friend that what his fiance was getting up to is in her past. Why is he so worried about did when they weren't even together?
I suppose it's never really a good idea to let partners in on just how many peo... (read in full...)
Should I give a cheating husband a second chance?
Q. Hi everyone, I feel like I really need advice. I have been married for 3 years and my husband cheated on me a few months ago with a girl I can't stand. He says that they just made out and then he ended it, but he was really drunk so I'm thinking ...
A. 10 May 2010: I'm sorry your husband is a pig and has made you feel the way you do! I guess the question is, do you still love him? i think that if he really loved you then he never would have cheated in the first place.
A part of me wants to say, give your mar... (read in full...)
Ex moving back to the states, does she want to get back together?
Q. Me and my Ex gf has broken up for almost 3 months now. We been together for about 4 month. The reason for the break up is because we live 2000miles away from each other and we never really meet each other. The only communication we had was on the ...
A. 10 May 2010: Hmm sounds to me like your ex may what to start up where you left off. Is that a bad thing? Would you want to give your relationship another go?
On the other hand she may just be looking for a friend. Decide what you want out of this then simply a... (read in full...)
Should I say something about his browsing online dating sites?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for around 7 months. I have known from the start that he previously had social dating accounts - but has never met or hooked up with people or paid for subscriptions.. He likes to look at profiles, at what is out ...
A. 10 May 2010: YES, YES, YES! Say something! I dont agree with his behaviour one bit! he has you so why is he checking singles sites?? Thats just wrong!
The thing is though you obviously dont have alot of trust for your man seeing as you have been spying o... (read in full...)
How can I get over my fear of my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. I suffer from severe anxiety and depression and I can't stop thinking my bf is going to cheat on me. He's 27, I'm 26 and I know in my heart he wouldn't. He's very against cheating, but I can't get rid of the sick feeling in my stomach when he goes ...
A. 10 May 2010: Oh boy do i know how you feel! When i was cheated on by previous boyfriends i just got it stuck in my head that every guy was gonna be the same. My fiance and i have had so many rows over cheating you wouldnt believe! I was convinced that he fancied ... (read in full...)
I want to leave but I'm scared he could take my child away from me
Q. I am stuck. I have been married for 8 yrs. and 2 yrs ago i was cheated on but chose to stay. Biggest mistake because every since then i have not been happy. i put on a happy face and try to be happy, but I am not. He will not go to church with me on ...
A. 10 May 2010: Oh darling i really feel for you, what a horrible situation. I dont have any children but i cant see why on earth your child would be taken away from you just because you dont have a job! It's not a crime. Your not a bad mother. I too stayed with an ... (read in full...)
Torn between two wonderful men
Q. I need some major help. I'm torn between two wonderful men. The first one I'll call him Fred and the other I'll call Matt. Fred and I have been together for 11yrs. I love him so much. We've been through so much. But a couple of years ago my f...
A. 8 May 2010: I hate it when i have a partner that doesnt support me emotionally. It's horrible, you end up feeling like your giving everthing and getting nothing in return. Everyone has there faults but it sounds like "fred" started taking you for granted.
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Am I being a gullible fool?
Q. hey all i really need advice. this is quite long so forgive me and hopefully you may help me. last year i split with my long term boyfriend-we were dating for 7 years and during that time he was emotionally and on 2 occasions physically abusive....
A. 8 May 2010: First of all, i really feel for you. i was in an abusive relationship for 6 years. Congratulations for finally finding the courage and strength to leave that part of your life behind.
Second, your not a fool but i do think there is somethin... (read in full...)
I have almost never liked my mother, do you think she is in the wrong or should I get over it?
Q. I'm 15 going on 16 and I have almost never liked my mother, and today one of my close friends funeral was today and we had been talking about it all week and she told that I could go, but when I woke up this morning I asked her if I could still go ...
A. 8 May 2010: I think its really a big shame that you didnt get to go to your friends funeral. I'm sorry for that.
Your mum may have had a very good reason for why she had to go out but the fact that she said you could go then changed her mind i think is a bit... (read in full...)
I feel left out when my girlfriend is with my best friend...
Q. i love my girl a lot but I'm not sure whether she loves me or not cause whenever she is with my best friend they seem to have a lot of fun and I'm left out .......please help is it lack of trust from my side or what ?????????...
A. 8 May 2010: Speak to your girlfriend. Tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable when you are all together and she seems to be having more fun with your mate. I dont think its lack of trust i just think that It doesnt make you feel so great when she leaves you ... (read in full...)
I dreamed we had a threesome, am I a bad person?
Q. i had a strange dream last night =s. it was me, my boyfriend, and this boy in our class. i fancy this boy, and my boyfriend knows and doesnt worry anything will happen and nothing will. but last night i had a dream we all had a 3 sum.. why did i ...
A. 8 May 2010: Your not a bad person. You fancy both boys so that probably explains the sexual dream. Dont worry about it, we cant control our dreams, thats the beauty of them! Dont panic! :)... (read in full...)
I like him but he likes her and I want him to like me
Q. Hey guys! right, i have a problem, obviously. There's this guy i like, and i have done for a few months, ever since we met at this party, well ive been seeing a lot of him because i hang out with his mates and everything, and it's not just me, som...
A. 8 May 2010: Find out how your friend feels about him. Does she fancy him? Does she know you fancy him? If she knows you like him and isn't interested in him herself then simply ask her if she would discourage him from all the flirting he's doing with her. ... (read in full...)
I told him I had a problem with porn, now I watch it myself
Q. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll get to the point. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I love him very much. Each passing day I want and need and taste for him. I have had many abusive relationships. I told him that I ...
A. 8 May 2010: I dont really know what to say about the porn thing other than i dont understand why you have a problem with him watching it when you watch it yourself. That doesnt make sense?? And anyway, why should you feel bad about it after? What are you doing ... (read in full...)
I'm underage but so horny!
Q. Hi Im 13 and im not sure if im a virgin but i really want to have sex with a boy or girl i dont mind. but the thought has been goin through my head for ages and i cant stop these sexually feelings im having. i usually use my toothbrush to help me ...
A. 7 May 2010: Ok first of all sweetheart.....stop using your toothbrush!!!! second of all, i'm not quite sure i understand how your not sure if your a virgin??? Because of the toothbrush??? Its really quite normal for someone of your age, male or female to be ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting or is it normal for guys to just text you back when ever they feel like it?
Q. Am i over reacting? or is this just generally how men/guys/lads are? i jsut dont understand i have a friend who appears to have feelings for me and i do him, i wont go into deatil but hes very shy and so am i, we havent had the best past and it...
A. 7 May 2010: one of my ex boyfriends used to do this to me all the time and it drove me nuts! It was like when i text him he would reply when he felt like it, sometimes not at all, yet when he text me i would always text back straight away. Sounds like the ... (read in full...)
I broke up with her and now feel I might have made a big mistake!
Q. Hello everyone - i guess we are all here with our own problems and dilemmas. I wish that everyone will overcome their hard feelings but we all know that it is impossible for all to do so. Anyhow we are here to help each other - and writing is a ...
A. 7 May 2010: Well...being a wee bit younger i hope you dont feel like your getting advice from someone who "hasn't got a clue" but...just wanted to tell you what i thought of your letter. I think it's really quite normal especially for a man to have issues w... (read in full...)
Should I just leave my boyfriend and be alone and stop the emotional affair I'm having?
Q. Okay here it goes. I have been in a relationship for about 2 years now. We live together and sometimes I think we moved 2 fast. I meet this other guy through some friends and we have been talking a lot. I have been having an emotional affair. I ...
A. 7 May 2010: hey sweetheart. This is a tough one! You have that really annoying thing going on where you want to be with him, then you dont! Ive had this so many times in the past. When he's not with you, you think you need to be on your own but when your ... (read in full...)
How can I make a good impression on his grandparents?
Q. i have met my boyfriends parents and apparently they like me. i have been going out with him for six months and now he wants me to meet his grandparents, i need to make a good impression on them too. how can i do this? ...
A. 7 May 2010: Hey sweetie. Be yourself! Simple as that! He likes you, his parents like you! I'm pretty damn sure his granparents will too! Do you know i think meeting the parents is one of the scariest things a person can do! I'm always so nervous but its like ... (read in full...)
Nausea, headache, and backpain. Could I be pregnant?
Q. hey there guyz this might sound like a dumb question but my fiance (or however you spell the male version lol) is gettin worried.But for the past few weeks i have been feeling constantly sick especially on a morning i haven't been physically sick ...
A. 7 May 2010: Hey, well sounds to me like its quite possible you could be! The best advice that you are going to get from anyone on here is go to the doctor!! Put yourself and your fiance out of your misery and find out! My fingers are crossed for you! Let us ... (read in full...)
My fiance wants me to send him dirty pictures.
Q. I'm engaged, and I've never been in such a serious relationship. He wants me to be creative and send him dirty pictures. What should i send him?...
A. 7 May 2010: I'm not sure its such a good idea to send him mobile pictures! I know you are engaged which obviously means you trust your man but sometimes as i'm sure you know things dont always work out. What happens if you break up and then suddenly he has all ... (read in full...)
I'm not enjoying sex but I really want to!
Q. I am new to having sex but am in a relationship and we've been sleeping together often. I can't orgasm and it bothers me. I've never orgasmed with a partner, only by my own hand. My sex drive is high. I want him all the time and we can have sex ...
A. 7 May 2010: I can totally relate to what you are saying! I have been sexually active since i was 15 (i'm now 24) It has only been in the past year and a half that i have actually experienced an orgasm during sex. How crazy is that! Thats like 8 years of ... (read in full...)
Haven't heard from him, should I break it off?
Q. My boyfriend and I havent been together that long and up until a few weeks ago, he seemed head over heels for me. All of a sudden he said that he’s so busy with his job and school right now, he's not sure if he can handle it all. He failed classes ...
A. 5 May 2010: Actually darling what i think would be the best thing for you to do is well, nothing! This guy is clearly messing you about wether he means to or not. Surely he cant expect to pick you up and drop you whenever he feels like it! And surely your not ... (read in full...)
I'm 21, he's 37, is this something I should try?
Q. im twenty one and attracted to a thirty seven year old man. we have known eachother for seven months and the atrraction has grown stronger since then. at first i wasnt really in to him mainly because of the age but now we seem to talk about ...
A. 5 May 2010: When i was 15 i started going out with a guy that was 25! I know! What an age gap! That relationship ended up lasting 6 years! 6 years that unfortunately i will never get back! Then i was also in a similiar situation to you where i too was 21 and ... (read in full...)
Should I Say Yes, or stay best mates?
Q. I really like one of my best guy mates and he just asked me out. I really want to say yes but we have been best mates for ages and i really dont want to ruin our friendship. Should I say yes or should we just stay best mates?...
A. 5 May 2010: Go with whatever feels right. Dont you think it would be really great to be with someone you fancy that is also your best mate that you could share everything with? I Know i do! I know that people often worry about spoiling a friendship by taking ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend changed her style, and says to accept it, am I wrong?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a while now but recently I don't find her attractive anymore. When I met her she use to dress up nice and I was a very lucky girl to be with her, but things have changed because she started to d...
A. 5 May 2010: To be honest i dont really think either of you are WRONG. It seems that she may have lost a bit of respect for not just you but herself. If she was a really girly girl before then i suggest that you ask her why she has suddenly changed. You have to ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that he doesn't want me as much as the porn stars!
Q. hi there, ok so im 17 and my boyfriends 21, we have been together for about 8 months now and since pretty much day 1 we have sex everytime we see each other. we have a great relationship so dont worry about askin me anythin about that and we are v...
A. 5 May 2010: Hi sweetie. The thing is, its quite normal for young men to watch porn and even maybe to fantasise about something else while he's with you. Probably not something any of us really wants to hear, but its true! Where i see the real problem here ... (read in full...)
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