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I want to find my soulmate.

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Question - (24 July 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2010)
A male Aruba age 30-35, *an234 writes:

Ok so I'm a 21 year old, tall, decent looking guy. And I want to find my soulmate (girl). Recently I've been having sex with girls I really don't feel anything for. The sex is ok but I feel like i'm missing something here. This might sound weird coming from a guy I know. But thing is i'm just fed up. I want to experience something different. Girls always seem to think I'm a player male slut. Which is not completely true.

So I made a vow that I'm not gonna sleep with any girls until I find that one girl.

Now my question is do you believe in soulmates, faith/destiny? and if you already have yours what is it like and how did you find him/her? How do you recognize your soulmate?

Thanks in advance

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010):

For as have I for so long now! But no more. I wish you the best if luck, and the wishes of a happy life with the one you find

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A male reader, Starmonster888 United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2010):

Starmonster888 agony aunt Sorry, I meant NOT qualified...i've been missing letters and words frequently recently.

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A female reader, rainbowmaker United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2010):

rainbowmaker agony aunti believe in fate. I think everything happens for a reason. Sometimes though when you are looking so hard for something you never find it. It's always the times when you have just given up and something really special comes along. It happened to me. I believe i found my soulmate, sadly we just broke up. Now i have to believe that some day i'll find someone else, no one will ever compare to him though. So my advice to you is if you find her, never let go!

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A female reader, LLindy87 United States +, writes (24 July 2010):

LLindy87 agony auntpersonally, I don't think there is just one person out there for you. There are probably a lot of miss rights, because people are compatible with many different people.

However, look for girls you could see having a long lasting relationship with.

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A male reader, Starmonster888 United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2010):

Starmonster888 agony auntI don't believe in soulmates. Then again, i'm a cynical skeptic by profession, so i'm really qualified for this. Here's an article by someone who is:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/soulmates.html

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (24 July 2010):

janniepeg agony auntRather than finding the right person, be the right person. I believe in soulmates just because it's better to have something to believe in. To say they don't exist is to sound negative. Not everybody lives to have a soulmate, the ones that are like life and death to you. I am with my boyfriend. We think like, I happen to be in your life, you happen to be in my life. That life and death feeling comes very rarely. Right now what we do is eat drink and be merry. We don't tell each other every day I love you I don't know what to do without you. I found my boyfriend online. It started out casual. I wasn't expecting anything. We found that we like each other enough to go on.

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