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writes:I really like one of my best guy mates and he just asked me out. I really want to say yes but we have been best mates for ages and i really dont want to ruin our friendship. Should I say yes or should we just stay best mates? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): thank you very much for the fab advice
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 May 2010):
Sometimes you have to take a chance. This is one of those times. You'll be kicking yourself in the future if you don't find out where this can lead and whether it will work or not. So go for it.
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reader, rainbowmaker +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Go with whatever feels right. Dont you think it would be really great to be with someone you fancy that is also your best mate that you could share everything with? I Know i do! I know that people often worry about spoiling a friendship by taking things too far but if you really are great mates then if things dont work out then you can just go back to being the best of pals again! Take a look at all your friends. Most of them are girls right? And the other boy friends you have you dont really fancy? The thing is usually when a boy and a girl are friends its because the secretly fancy each other. I think you have already answered your own question by taking the time to write about it! :) Good luck and enjoy it! Your a very lucky girl.
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