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*cadezz
writes:I'm engaged, and I've never been in such a serious relationship. He wants me to be creative and send him dirty pictures. What should i send him?
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 hmmmmm if you completely trust him then do it, but just know that he could easily send it or show to to other people which could cause you embarressment. Get some sexy underwear and just take pictures of yourself, you don't have to pose like glamour models but you can be seductive, i would advise that you don't get your head in the shot just incase the picture does get sent around :)
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reader, rainbowmaker +, writes (7 May 2010):
 I'm not sure its such a good idea to send him mobile pictures! I know you are engaged which obviously means you trust your man but sometimes as i'm sure you know things dont always work out. What happens if you break up and then suddenly he has all these "creative" pictures of you to do with as he pleases!
Dont get me wrong, i too am engaged and i have also sent pictures to my fiance but there are NO naked pictures. I have sent him some in sexy underwear,if anyone else saw them i wouldnt actually be too bothered.
I trust my fiance 110% and if we ever broke up he would NEVER do anything to hurt me, he is a very decent guy. Do only what you feel comfortable with!
Why not suggest your own private little show. Dress up for him. Must there be any cameras involved?
Have fun and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): Why would he ask you to send dirty pictures? If he has an immense respect for you he will not ask...say, No. Don't jump through the loops. always know that a man will respect you more if you know how to say NO. Know what is right for you.
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reader, Belladonnaanodyne +, writes (7 May 2010):
Close your eyes...Imagine yourself at your sexiest, the way you look in your fantasies. That's what you should trya nd capture in the photos.
If you think you look sexy your fiance will think you look sexy because of your confidence. Low lighting will help cover anything you don't want seen. You don't have to be naked either, burlesque is all about the tease. I've seen men hooting and screaming for a woman who's almost entirely covered up.
Last thing I'll say though, don't do it if you don't feel comfortable. It's just another sexual act after all.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 Are you talking about dirty pictures via SMSs? I think that might be a bad idea. What if someone else gets hold of the pictures and shows them to other people?
That could be embarrassing for you. So think about it carefully before you do anything.
I would explain to him that you are concerned someone else could get hold of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): Get some sexy lingerie and just do some sexy poses. Doing them in bed or naked with a sheet wrapped around you could work as well.
I don't know! Be creative!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): No head shots. If you ever split up and things get nasty...as they can. You wont want pornographic pictures of yourself all over the internet or sent to your friends.
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reader, clairebear +, writes (7 May 2010):
 Hey Scadezz,
It sound to me that you are happy to go along with sending your fiance 'dirty' pictures, but seriously are you? I have just read about another cupid who found explicit pictures of his current partner with her ex. Ouch! But being devils advocate I feel that these things can come back and bite you on the bum, if things go wrong. If you and your partner are in a trusting loving relationship and you are happy to go along with it good luck to you! sorry I haven't got any ideas for you, maybe someone else can help you out!
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