Height rating
Q. how do you people rate a person of height 6 5"? i am 6 4" and i feel good to be this tall but girls are too short to stand up with a boy of this height. what do girls say here?And Do rate my height....
A. 4 May 2009: my boyfriend is 6'3" and im 5ft. and i love the fact he is so tall, he can carry me around and cos im so small can get his arms around me nearly twice when hugging. lying and sitting i hardly notice a difference. just trying to say, height doesnt ... (read in full...)
I am having a worsening pain in my vagina, what could it be and what should I do?
Q. ive been havin pain an sting like feeling in my vag area i kinda of always had on an off pain every now an then but it wasnt til today an yesterday i think its geting worse not only that but its swollen and it still hasnt went down since yesterday ...
A. 4 May 2009: it could be a number of things, honestly u need to get it checked out. nearly anything wrong down there is going to need some antibiotics, or some creams. it could be thrush, a UTI, if ur sexually active that increases the number of things it could ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is obsessed with the "World of Warcraft", it is afecting our relationship, any advice that can help me deal with this?
Q. I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 6 months now. He's sweet, intelligent, funny, and all around, a terrific guy. But like everyone else, he has his problems. Recently, he is becoming more and more involved in World of Warcraft. Whi...
A. 4 May 2009: my ex boyfriend was obsessed with wow. did the exact same thing urs does by putting things off cos he has to do something on WoW first. i would never get to see him unless i invited myself over n then when i was over he would just be playing wow. so ... (read in full...)
I need ideas for a unique birthday present for my boyfriend
Q. I have been with my boyfriend 3 months, and his birthday is coming up in a few weeks. I want to do something special for him, but I'm on quite a strict budget at the moment, so I'm not going to be spending hundreds. Does anyone have any idea...
A. 30 April 2009: if u want it to be really personal and something he wont forget, give him a little strip tease or lap dance and do whatever he likes for the night. im sure he will love it. and u dont need special little outfits or anything, just any kind of music ... (read in full...)
My bf says he doesn't get jealous--almost ever.
Q. Heyo! My bf says he doesn't get jealous--almost ever. Is that possible? I know I get jealous pretty easily, so what he said is pretty much incomprehensible to me. Thanks! -GG...
A. 30 April 2009: yeh my bf is the same. if he trusts u then why is there any reason to be jealous. u are his gf, so what does he have to be jealous about. other guys should be jealous of him for having u. ... (read in full...)
What am I doing??
Q. Okay so long story short i cheated on my Boyfriend of 6 years for a year and a half with the same person no he was not the other guy just a "buddy" if you get me ... the truth about me and him only came out because i got pregnant with his baby now ...
A. 30 April 2009: if you can say u honestly dont love him the way u used to then end it instead of holding onto something that isnt there... (read in full...)
We fight all the time because she doesn't understand me, how can I avoid a break up?
Q. Hi I have been going out with my girl for 1 and a half years already. we have had a lot of problems in the past because of me. In the beginning i did not care about her and did not pay much attention to her. She used to go crazy about me. after sh...
A. 30 April 2009: if u are fighting all the time beacuse she doesnt understand you then write her a letter, explaining that u cant talk to her cos she gets upset and wont listen. if she cant control her emotions and listen to u to sort out the problems then your ... (read in full...)
She's really independent -- should I worry that she doesn't want to hang with me everyday?
Q. When dating a girl who is really independant and likes doing her own thing how do you go about dating her? She likes to hang with her friends and do things on her own. She is a freshman in college I'm a junior in college. Is this just what young ...
A. 27 April 2009: my boyfriend has this same personality. you just learn that when she is with her mates then thats fine, you dont want to steal her away from her friends or make her chose you over her friends and social life. if shes out with her friends take the ... (read in full...)
Cheating on fiance, feeling I don't want to get married anymore
Q. I've been dating my now fiance for three and a half years, we have been engaged for almost 9 months, and have a wedding date set for August 1, 2009. We currently live about 1 hour apart. I am a full time student and he works. I will be graduating ...
A. 27 April 2009: if u stay with him you must tell him. if you cheated on him to begin with then you shouldnt be getting married- that says you dont love him as much as you think if your able to hurt him like that. so id have to say own up now and call off the wed... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be clingy?
Q. Hi, Im 16 and my gf is 14. This past weekend, over a kinda lame misunderstanding, she almost broke up with me and after that was cleared up, the next day, out of impulse, she was messin with me about leavin me. After i cried and over reacted both ...
A. 27 April 2009: i was like that with my ex, and it pushed him away from me and so i had to cut back. it affected us greatly and after that i was always worried i was too much for him. and i agree its just showing you love them too much. but clingy is defined by ... (read in full...)
My partner fancies someone else and is constantly texting her!
Q. Hi, Right, my problem that I am struggling with at the moment is that my partner of 1 year who I love so much fancies another woman and yes I know this is normal for people to fancy others as long as nothing comes of it but my partner is constantly ...
A. 27 April 2009: I think you should express this worry to your partner. tell her to put herself in your situation and ask her how she would feel but in a non threatening way. ask to go and meet her, relieve the curiosity of your partner. and then you can tell if ... (read in full...)
I am tearing my hair out trying to understand him!
Q. Help please I'm in a relationship with a guy but he is so hard to read when it comes to his feelings that i am always tearing my hair out trying to understand him. He always txts me in the morning but today he was late so i sent him a txt that said ...
A. 27 April 2009: you need to relax. so he missed one text and it was just cos he slept in. even if he didnt text you one day it doesnt mean a thing at all. you sound a lil bit insecure if missing one text makes u freak. if u cant read him just say what do u mean? ... (read in full...)
Insecure over the casual sex she had before me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and have a great relationship, a month or two into our relationship, we were walking down the street and this guy grabbed her from behind in a friendly sort of way. When he left, she casually ...
A. 27 April 2009: i was in the same boat, i was out with my bf and he introduced me to a girl he knows n i was chatting away. when we got home he later told me that she was sumone he used to sleep with casually. i was at first a bit disgusted and took a bit to get my ... (read in full...)
Getting even to match up on sex partners
Q. Hi all, I know I might get bashed for this, but I still want to know how you all cope with the following scenario: Let's say you have met somebody whom you really love and loves you in return, but he/she has had more sex partners than you. Have...
A. 27 April 2009: id never ever do this, my partner has been with 17 other women, ive only been with him and my ex. It has never ever crossed my mind to try and even things up. its the past and he loves me for who i am. ... (read in full...)
Advice please to stop me feeling like crap!
Q. I was living with my partner for 2 years and going out for 4 years. We broke up 4 weeks ago. The first week he stayed living in the house and the 2nd week I asked him to leave because I was so upset. We haven't had any contact since he has left and ...
A. 27 April 2009: There's not much you can do. You need to find your friends again and just start socialising again. Forget about him for a bit. You don't need to tell yourself that you are gonna completely cut him out but just put him to the side for a bit and just ... (read in full...)
Can a 10th grade boy like a 7th grade girl?
Q. can a 10th grade boy like a 7th grade girl?he is very hot.i never see him with girls,i just saw him once or twice with 2 of his girl mates,they were just talking.whenever we meet on the hallways of my school he looks deeply in my eyes and stares ...
A. 25 April 2009: oh schoolyard crushes. us girls always look into the smallest details and make them huge to convince ourselves the boy likes us. From what u have been saying there is a chance that he likes you, with the brushing of the hands n stuff maybe he just ... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable talking dirty to my attractive friend
Q. Ahh please help. Im 16 and my friend is turning 17 in a few months, hes really attractive and says he thinks i am too. We talk alot and i really like him, but lately he was messing around online and talked dirty to me and then asked me too, jus...
A. 25 April 2009: why not ask him why he wants to hear it off you so much? ask him if he does it with other girls online, or if its only you. you dont like him from what ive read you are just friends. i had a friend who did the same n he was just full of ... (read in full...)
My b/f has a very high sex drive and I can't keep up. What should we do?
Q. hey everyone. my problem involves my boyfriends sex drive. im 19 and he is 22, been going out a few months. He has an extremely high sex drive, and we have just talked about it and he told me that he has lost all his past girlfriends because ...
A. 17 April 2009: ahh im not too sure, but he thinks that he isnt normal that he has to do it so much. so im assuming its alot? i think he is always horny. ... (read in full...)
Oh my, they like me, and I already have a boyfriend ... what do I do now?
Q. okay, so I have quite i big problem at the moment, but i think that i should explain something first i am a bisexual male, so, i recently found out that this guy i know has a crush on me and so does my bes friend who is a girl, but.... the big ...
A. 16 April 2009: you should be flattered that other people are interested in you. but you are in a relationship, so one would assume that ur in it for a reason.... (read in full...)
My b/f has a very high sex drive and I can't keep up. What should we do?
Q. hey everyone. my problem involves my boyfriends sex drive. im 19 and he is 22, been going out a few months. He has an extremely high sex drive, and we have just talked about it and he told me that he has lost all his past girlfriends because ...
A. 16 April 2009: thanks for the suggestions but he is complaining himself of always having to jack off, he is sick of having to do it so often. ... (read in full...)
15 years old and never had a boyfriend. Strange???
Q. I am 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. (trying to keep it simple) I am waiting for the right guy but I want to know what people think about it....
A. 15 December 2008: that isnt strange at all....i was forced into my first relationship at 14 and it lasted 2 weeks, i waited for the right guy like u n didnt have my real first bf till i was 17, we were together 2 yrs and it was fabulous. dw what other ppl think. ... (read in full...)
How do I figure it out? Should I give him another chance?
Q. I left my boyfriend 4 days ago because we had been having a rough time for the past few months as in it was a one sided relationship in that i was putting in all the effort. The week before I left him he told me he realised how much of a jerk he was ...
A. 12 December 2008: P.S we had been together for 2 years.. my first real love.... (read in full...)
Men and multiple orgasms?
Q. i have a question one of my friends claimed to have given head to some guy and got him to cum 3 times in the same session. she said she just swallows and keeps going. she told me it was longest about 50 mins. im wondering if that is possible beca...
A. 15 September 2008: thanks for that guys just to make it sound even more impressive on her behalf, this is the first time she has ever given head aswell....which is partly why i still fail to believe her... (read in full...)
He acts like we are a couple even though he has a girlfriend! Does he like me?
Q. Hello. Right, I'll start at the beginning. I'm 15, very nearly 16, a Christian, and go to church. There is a big youth group there, and the minister's children go to this. They are L, 23, R, 21, N, 17, and C, 13. My problem is with R. He'...
A. 15 September 2008: i think he likes u, on numerous times he has shown this and i think he needs to break up with his gf. the start where u wre saying that no1 likes her means absolutly nothing to a couple..and its very wrong to judge a relationship that ur not in. the ... (read in full...)
How does a player act when he finally falls in love?
Q. Does anyone out there know how a "player" acts when he finally falls in love? I think I'm being pursued by one who in the past has had women pursuing him. I really need to know the answer to this question because it will help me decide what I need ...
A. 14 September 2008: umm a player will be a player for a very long time. when they stop feeling the thrill of picking up and with the typical blonde big boobs fake tan big hair girls then u know he has settled. and besides those typical player females are just as bad as ... (read in full...)
I'm hot for my cousin's husband and I'm much prettier than her! Should I avoid him?
Q. I am 21 years old and I have a cousin living in the same city with me. My cousin's husband, who's 30, is a very sweet guy and I always feel he's too good for my cousin. I had a crush on him ever since I met him, and I think he has feelings for me ...
A. 14 September 2008: first of who cares if ur prettier then her, thats not a nice thing to say and makes u sound big headed. secondly shes family dont u care about that, breaking up part of the family is a horrible thing. Its none of ur buisness if they are having sex ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is helping his friend write a love song for his girlfriend - Am I making too big a deal of this?
Q. I'm in a really tough situation and i dont know what to do. i am in a relationship, and so is my best friend. our boyfriends are both bestfriends also and usually the four of us get along pretty great. my best friends birthday is coming up so...
A. 10 July 2008: i think you are making a big deal out of this. im sure that not EVERY SINGLE THING he has said to his gf has come from ur bf...if hes in a realtionship with her he does feel these things..maybe he just isnt that great at expressing it. Couldnt ur ... (read in full...)
How many years in college does it take to become a personal trainer?
Q. how many years in college does it take to become a personal trainer??? how is the money?? is it a fun job to have?...
A. 17 June 2008: u should find a college near u and do some research. then go to a gym or find a personal trainner and ask them these questions....not many ppl on here are gonna know those answres.... (read in full...)
I came home late for the first time and now he's mad at me!!
Q. My bf is so mad at me because I went out a few days ago and came home very late...like 6am! However, it was very innocent. My friend and I went to a club. Where we went the clubs don't close til 5am. And also this is my 1st time ever staying out ...
A. 17 June 2008: hes just upset coz he didnt know what u got up to...i mean if u said it was innocent then it was i believe u, u did nothing wrong, he is prob just worrying and thinking about what COULD have happened ie with another guy all night...and just ask him ... (read in full...)
Did we go all the way?!? I'm not sure even thought it really hurt...
Q. I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend the weekend just gone. It really hurt but i dont no if we went all the way because paople say after sex it hurts for a couple of days and you bleed. I havent had any of that so does that mean we...
A. 16 June 2008: if he penetrated u and sorta moved around a bit u had sex and went all the way. if u stopped him halfway u still did have sex and go all the way...in my opinion.
Every1 is different...u dont have to bleed for days, i know i didnt mine just hurt at t... (read in full...)
Can a guy and a girl really be just friends?
Q. Can a guy and a girl really be just friends? And by friends, I mean more then just talk and hang out in the same group. I mean have a proper friendship. Can they be best friends? So far in my life, at age of 19, I havent been able to have that. An...
A. 15 June 2008: yes, im 18 and my best friend would be a male. he has always been there for me when something goes wrong with my bf even if its at like 2 in the morning when im upset...he comes around when sad or if he is worried about me he will come over...and ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and worried about my first time -- suggestions?
Q. hey, all my frinds have tryed to explane how it feels the first time you have sex alot say it hurts but some say it doesnt feel like anything. but how do i know if it would hurt me or not? i mean im not saying im going to jump into bed with a g...
A. 15 June 2008: its probably going to hurt, most of the time it does for girls simply coz they are tight. u cant tell if its gonna hurt u or how much its gonna hurt. You may bleed afterwards and have some pain when u pee, its best to leave ur virginity to a guy u ... (read in full...)
Does this sound too desparate?
Q. does this note to my crush sound desparate? You see I wrote him a note saying I like him. Now I'm writing a another note asking whether he likes me back Crush, Hopefully you're not annoyed I'm writing you another note.It just seems easier to com...
A. 15 June 2008: not desperate but why do u call him crush? why not call him by his name...and if u liked him so much why wont u confront him, it doesnt say much for u when u say its easier to communicate this way. makes u seem really really frigid/shy
instead of t... (read in full...)
To shave or not to shave, that is the question...
Q. do boys like when your vigina is shaved or hairy?? my boyfriend tells me he likes it shaved...but i domt like shaving it......
A. 15 June 2008: my boyfriend was much the same and still is. he likes it shaved but it took him a while to tell me and ask me to coz he didnt want to hurt my feelings..i used to hate shaving but i got used to it..i dont like having hair there anymore. If u dont ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to give up on a long term relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months today. He is the first person I have ever had a long term relationship with and my first love. I used to think we would get married and live happily ever after. But I have been so unhappy on and off (maybe ...
A. 12 June 2008: basically im in the same situation...ive been with my bf for 21 months and things have been just like u stated..he used to annoy me about my clothes but i changed them and for me..it was a good change for myself. he still makes rude remarks about me ... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin after fingering?
Q. I have one question. If your boyfriend fingers you through your jeans, does that still make you a virgin?...
A. 8 June 2008: yes ur still a virgin. you can only lose ur virginity through sex. so sexual intercourse...oral sex....anal sex... even if he fingered you without jeans or panties you are still a virgin. however if he went down on you, you could say you lost you... (read in full...)
My first boyfriend. I need some advice on things to do.
Q. I asked for advice before, the question was: ''I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.'' Well, he's my first boyfriend, and I'm not his first. He knows tha...
A. 26 May 2008: well im not sure how long u guys have been going out but if he is on the bus with u, and theres a seat next to him...sit with him..if he is with his guys just look at him n if he keeps looking at u then go over but if he avoids your eye contact then ... (read in full...)
Are oral sex and anal sex classed as "real" sex?
Q. is oral sex and anal sex classed as sex? some of my friends think that a blowjob or anal is no different than kissing someone,but i dissagree i think that they are different types of sex but when i tell my friends they laugh at me and call me an ...
A. 26 May 2008: anal sex the same as kissing!!! i think not...far from it...from what i know, anal sex comes after normal sex. oral sex, although classified as sex, generally comes before vaginal sex....it's more of a casual thing then sex itself well for begin... (read in full...)
I am 14 and I have never had a proper kiss
Q. I am 14 years old, and have never been kissed. All of my friends, and most of the people in my school have all experienced a 'first kiss' and I am one of the only ones who hasn't. Sure, I've pecked someone on the lips, but I have not yet had a ...
A. 15 May 2008: hey theres nothing to worry about. i didnt get a proper kiss till i as 16 and a half and i was one of the pretty ones..i was just to damn shy and worried about what the 'experienced' ones would think when or if i kissed them seeing as i didnt know ... (read in full...)
Should choose to stay with the boring girlfriend I love, or go for the fun friend or the hot ultravixen?
Q. I am 23 years old and am currently in a bit of a pickle. I have a girlfriend who I love very much and we have been in a relationship for the past two years. A year ago, I slept with a close friend of hers. I am still seeing this friend and we have ...
A. 27 April 2008: well, from what uve said u dont really love your girlfriend, cheating on her or having an affair is the worst way u can hurt a girl ever. so clearly u dont care for her...why are you still with her if u have no fun..what does she do for u that keeps ... (read in full...)
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