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writes:hey, all my frinds have tryed to explane how it feels the first time you have sex alot say it hurts but some say it doesnt feel like anything. but how do i know if it would hurt me or not? i mean im not saying im going to jump into bed with a guy and hope for the best but is that really the only way to tell? im just so confused and afraid so i want to be ready for when i do have sex with a guy. can anyone help me with this? thanks for your time and help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): Well, when I lost my virginity, it wasn't exactly comfortable, but it wasn't painful. It really depends upon how relaxed you are.
As for your hymen, if you ride, do athletic sports, use tampons etc, it's probably already broken, and thus the only bleeding you may get will probably only be from your vagina being stretched a little more than it's used to.
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reader, c3c3znumba1  +, writes (15 June 2008):
i just lot my virginity today and it hurt worse than anything. if you dont want it to hurt as much try masturbating or an exersice that will break the hymen.
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reader, purplecloud03  +, writes (15 June 2008):
 its probably going to hurt, most of the time it does for girls simply coz they are tight. u cant tell if its gonna hurt u or how much its gonna hurt. You may bleed afterwards and have some pain when u pee, its best to leave ur virginity to a guy u trust and will listen to u when u tell him to stop if u do.
Pleasurable feelings dont develop until a little later different for each person but it takes a few times. it feels like a almost burning or sharp pain not on the inside but at the entrance. When u do have sex make sure u have alot of foreplay ie lots of kissing and feeling and let him finger u or go down on u so ur really wet this will decrease the chance of any injury like tearing or pain.
Goodluck...but wait until ur with a guy u trust and know well. And remember ur underage. so you should wait till your older
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (15 June 2008):
If you wear tampons it wont hurt that much except for the stretching that is required to fit him in. (it doesn't stay stretched in fact you will have to stretch each time.) The more turned on you are the more wet you will be and the less pain you will feel. However if you still have your hymen which can be broken with a tampon it will be a strong jolt of pain then a dull ache and then it should start to feel good if he takes it slow. I hope that answers your question!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): dont sdo it until it feels right, and then you probably wont have to worry about that stuff. alot of people say that there first time was not there best, but it WILL get better! i mean you gotta start somewhere but the most important thing to feel ready, becasue when you are ready and totally sure you want to, it will proabbly feel better. good luck
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