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I am tearing my hair out trying to understand him!

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Question - (27 April 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2009)
A female Australia age , *uibble357 writes:

Help please I'm in a relationship with a guy but he is so hard to read when it comes to his feelings that i am always tearing my hair out trying to understand him. He always txts me in the morning but today he was late so i sent him a txt that said did you forget me. he sent back,I slept in, how could i forget you?

is this a question i'm suppose to answer because of the ? mark or is it a statement.

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A female reader, quibble357 Australia +, writes (30 April 2009):

quibble357 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you all so much for taking the time to answer my question you all have been very helpful thanks

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A female reader, purplecloud03 Australia +, writes (27 April 2009):

purplecloud03 agony auntyou need to relax. so he missed one text and it was just cos he slept in. even if he didnt text you one day it doesnt mean a thing at all. you sound a lil bit insecure if missing one text makes u freak. if u cant read him just say what do u mean? talk to him, you should be able to talk to him and he should heopfully understand and explain things to u. communication should be easy if things are to work out well

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (27 April 2009):

Griffo agony auntYour not obsessing. You are simply starting to over-analyse the situation. don't worry about him, just take it easy.

What ever you do, try not to take anything non face to face to seriously its almost always incorrect in the feelings you will recieve or manifest in your mind. This includes email, txt, chat, myspace, facebook and even sometimes phone talk. The best form of communication is when you are with him so take that communication as the most important and the one for real.

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A female reader, molly4 Australia +, writes (27 April 2009):

molly4 agony auntI think you are obsessing a bit! Hes just trying to keep it light, you may be freaking him out that you are worrying too much about not receiving a text. I think it was a rhetorical question, you dont have to answer. Just dont smother him or make him feel trapped, just relax.

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A female reader, sunny123 United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2009):

It is a rhetorical question. He was trying to reassure you that it was only sleep that prevented him from contacting you...I'd say if he normally texts you every morning that is a strong sign that you are on his mind as soon as he wakes up, always a good sign : )

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A female reader, jellybeans United States +, writes (27 April 2009):

well, this seemed like a rhetorical question and you don't have to answer it. But you can keep sending his texts if you want to. =)

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