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Does this sound too desparate?

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Question - (15 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2008)
A female Aruba age 30-35, *ilyflower.n writes:

does this note to my crush sound desparate? You see I wrote him a note saying I like him. Now I'm writing a another note asking whether he likes me back

Crush,

Hopefully you're not annoyed I'm writing you another note.It just seems easier to communicate this way. The only question is Do you like me back? let me put it this way YOU ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY!! I'm driving my friends crazy as well?

does it sound too desparate?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008):

It is a little desperate, but i know what your going through, it was the same way for me too. i figured out if you want it to go farther than friends, you have to talk to him. if you say its easier to communicate by notes, then if he thinks about dating you, he will say forget about it cuz you will never talk and just be writing notes. do you get what im trying to say? good luck though!!

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A female reader, c3c3znumba1 United States +, writes (15 June 2008):

yes it does turn it down a noch and flirt instead of writing a note. everything is better in person

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A female reader, purplecloud03 Australia +, writes (15 June 2008):

purplecloud03 agony auntnot desperate but why do u call him crush? why not call him by his name...and if u liked him so much why wont u confront him, it doesnt say much for u when u say its easier to communicate this way. makes u seem really really frigid/shy

instead of that why not just say

hey 'name'

i only have 1 question, do u like me back?

i just need to know coz ur driving me crazy

its just a little bit simpler then ur note and isnt gonna b like...stalker girl much...

how do u expect him to respond? thru a note or in person or what?

its gonna be alot easier if u talk coz then u get an answer straight away and it wont drive u crazy waiting for him. and it will save u humiliation if he decides to show his mates this letter of his admirer

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008):

hmm... well i dont think u should put the part about u being crazy about him in capitals... make it sond like ur casual ad not obsessive or anything and that hes lucky for u to have a crush on him. good luck! xoxo

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008):

Too desperate. Just my first impression xD

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