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19 December 2009: It’s strange to believe that woman used to only wear long skirts and tops that revealed nothing especially when you go out on a Saturday night and see girls wearing little or no clothing. Women fought for rights that we should have been given for ...
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I don't enjoy sex at all
Q. me and my bf have been together for 3 years. We have a healthy sex life but the problem is i dont enjoy sex at all. i think it uncomftable and unpleasurable the only bit i like is the fact i get to hold my bf so close and were so cuddly afterwards. ...
A. 23 March 2011: no like he can make me orgasm with foreplay easily just not with intercourse. we talk about it all the time and we've so many different things, ways and position. Some i find more comftable than others but i just feel like its strange feeling and i ... (read in full...)
Bad burning pain in vaginal area after sex. What can it be?
Q. hey everyone, so heres my question. everytime me and my bf have sex i get really bad pains around the entrance of my vagina in a ring shape. It stings really bad and is like a burning pain. it gets so bad that we have to stop having sex becau...
A. 29 October 2010: I checked online about yeast infections and the main sign of it is itchiness and im never itching down there. Its only sore when I have sex! =(... (read in full...)
In a relationship but I don't feel we see each other enough...
Q. hey every1! me and my bf have been going out for more than 3 years and we're both 20(im a month older. He works at least 4 days a week so we only ever end up seeing each other once a week and we text for like 2 hours a day. I feel like this isnt g...
A. 13 July 2010: thanks chigirl your advice was great!!... (read in full...)
In a relationship but I don't feel we see each other enough...
Q. hey every1! me and my bf have been going out for more than 3 years and we're both 20(im a month older. He works at least 4 days a week so we only ever end up seeing each other once a week and we text for like 2 hours a day. I feel like this isnt g...
A. 13 July 2010: hey everyone
thanks for the advice, we dont meet up after he works generally because he gets alist of duties to do for his family and then he needs to fit in his friends so it just feels like im a burden and take up his vital time.Maybe its me e... (read in full...)
How do I get over my love for a married man?
Q. Well, don't really know how to start. Everyone I talked to, friends and family tell me to get over him, but no one really tells me how. Here is what happened: I am 20 and I was never in a relationship. I had my crushes and a few "boyfriends", ...
A. 13 June 2010: decide to not be selfish enough to take anotherwomans husband as you wouldnt like it done to you!
good luck and take care... (read in full...)
I accidentally offended my colleague, what should I do?
Q. I have a workplace problem. I am a 40-year old male, and I have a female colleague of about the same age. It is very clear that neither one of us cares much for the other. A week ago, I got into a very embarrassing situation. I stood up to ask ...
A. 12 May 2010: i dont think thats very fair caringguy! A woman should be able to have her breasts anyway she likes with a man looking at them, quite frankly i think a bit of decorum is needed amoungst men. If a man have his back side of show when hes bending over ... (read in full...)
I cant let go of her! How can I get her back or at least find out what went wrong?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm in great need of advice in contrast with an ex-girlfriend. Her birthday is right around the corner and even though I'm great with words I just don't know what I shall write in her card, there are reasons behind this. One of them ...
A. 11 May 2010: aww no problem at alll!! im glad i helped!! please let me know how you get on best of luck!... (read in full...)
I cant let go of her! How can I get her back or at least find out what went wrong?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm in great need of advice in contrast with an ex-girlfriend. Her birthday is right around the corner and even though I'm great with words I just don't know what I shall write in her card, there are reasons behind this. One of them ...
A. 26 April 2010: hey, If i were you I would get her a card that had a short simple message written on it but also include a letter in the card. In the letter I would put your feelings down but dont be overly romantic or too nice (only because it was said you bei... (read in full...)
Confused about my feelings for my best friend's husband!
Q. hi.i have best friend.she loves me a lot and so does her husband.i am haapily married but have feelings for my best friends husband and so does he feel the same.also my friend is aware of this and doesnt mind if there is an affair between us...at ...
A. 26 April 2010: if your not prepared to be faithful to your husband then maybe you should cosider ending your marriage. Adultry is still adulty whether one party permitts or not!
take care... (read in full...)
Not pregnant but haven't had a period since August
Q. Hey everyone, My question is a health one. Im 18 years of age and i started getting my periods when i was 11. I havent had a period since august and this is really strange because i used to be really regular like i was always saying how lucky i ...
A. 8 April 2010: Hey everyone, thanks for all the advice, went to the docs and got everything sorted ... (read in full...)
Appreciation of my girlfriend/relationship.... does it sound like a good idea??
Q. Hey people, So me and my girlfriend just got back together after a month and week of being split up and I have to say times are definitely great. We are back to ourselves and most importantly, back together. But I've started thinking and I am thi...
A. 29 March 2010: I think that is such an amazingly sweet idea!! its lovely! If i where you id order a notebook online as far as i know you cn design your own with so many blank pages in them. When you get the notebook you should write in it because thats really ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong to not lose the pounds?
Q. ok so recently me and my sis have joined the gym! were both the same dress(16) but Im a bit taller and weigh 20kg more than her! Whenever we go to the gym she also does everything at the bare minium and always ends up sitting down or just asking can ...
A. 24 March 2010: thank you so much for your answers!!! strongfp that is brilliant advice thank you i really appreciate it!!... (read in full...)
I feel it is not fair that my wife wont give me anal sex when my ex-partners enjoyed it so much!
Q. do girls like anal sex, Ive been after my wife for 7 years and she just won't give it too me. I feel like thats not fair, Ive had other relationships where my partner enjoyed it sooooooooo much. how do i get my wife to try something new, we've ...
A. 11 February 2010: Your the only one being unfair not ur wife, if your other ex's were so wonderful how come your still not with them. I suggest you stop nagging your wife to do something she doesnt want and do something nice for her... (read in full...)
I'm going on holiday with my b/f and wondering if I can wear a bikini
Q. hey, Im a size 16 and im going on my first sun holiday this summer!! Im going with my bf so i want to look really good but im so worried about bikinis. Can someone please tell me wear i can get ones that will flatter my body but still look r...
A. 7 February 2010: thanks... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight and not put it back on
Q. hey, Im sixe 16/18 with lots of flab everywhere and im really looking to drop down to a size 12 but i really want to do it HEALTHILY. Ive looked on loads of different websites but I cant find one that not about taking some pills or doing somethin...
A. 31 January 2010: Thanks everyone... I already feel lighter haha... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 30 January 2010: I really dont think all women are like that, im not sure if most women are even like that. I personally wouldnt be I mean im with my bf over 3 years and when we got together we didnt make love until our 1 year anniversary because i didnt want to ... (read in full...)
Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level
Q. I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or ...
A. 14 January 2010: I think you should go for it, its seems its what both of you want so why not! ... (read in full...)
Being friends with your best friend's girlfriend...
Q. Sorry this is so long: So my best friend dumped his old girlfriend for a new girl. In my circle of friends both of them were big parts of the group. The new girl is not very welcome in the group now and my best friend has pretty much burned bridges ...
A. 29 December 2009: Your in a bit of a sticky situaltion alright. If i were you i would try to talk it out, honestly its the best way to say how you feel about the situation. I would talk to the girl first and say look i really value our friendship but explain to her ... (read in full...)
Weight and body image
Q. It’s strange to believe that woman used to only wear long skirts and tops that revealed nothing especially when you go out on a Saturday night and see girls wearing little or no clothing. Women fought for rights that we should have been given for ...
A. 23 December 2009: I dont believe any is blaming women little koala we are just simply talking about our society and the role women now have and whether or not its changed positvely. kc100 i completely agree i dont think there are any answers i think we just ne... (read in full...)
I'm not a control freak ....... am I?
Q. ok its me again lol sorry about this!! its boy issues yet again!! homestly i havent got a clue when it comes to men! ok so heres my problem, i met my bf through friend who i were really close to and he was close to them to but i was mainly bette...
A. 21 December 2009: Thanks Gina I really appreciate it, although he doesnt seem to care that they are down right rude to him he just seems to accept it
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I am pregnant to my step brother and don't know where to turn
Q. I was looking for advice and found this site. Ill try and make this short. I had a bf for 8 months he was ok at first and we started having sex mostly because didnt want him to cheat after awhile it seemed like thats all he wanted me around for ...
A. 19 December 2009: Sorry to hear what your going through!!! Although it would be extremely hard and youd need to be really strong and brave i think your step brother is right that you need to tell your parents.
Its both yours and yours step brothers choice what to ... (read in full...)
Should I cheat or not?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have already lost interest in having sex with my wife whom I think to be frigid and I had been masturbating about my sister-in-law whom I think to be horny as I saw her on many occasions masturbating with her pillow. I have plans to...
A. 16 December 2009: I dont think cheating is the anwser just because a woman masterbates doesnt mean seh wants to have an affair with her brother in law. If your having problems ith your wife you need to talk to her about it not have sex with someone else. Cheating ... (read in full...)
Do guys always take action when they get a hard on?
Q. hey guys, ok my question is mainly for guys. I was just wondering if when u guys get hard do u always act on it! like the other day me and bf where sitting on the couch kissing and just chatting away when i could feel him get hadr but he never tr...
A. 16 December 2009: Im very sorry satindesire i think i took your advice the wrong way and was being pretty sensitive. Sorry again and it wont happen again. Thanks for all the advice... (read in full...)
Had dry sex and worried a lot.
Q. Doctors or any experienced persons please help. I have never ever touched a girl before in my life, i am 22 now and i was about to join my company within few months. I have a GF, i met her just before 8 months. now i am worried a lot, because 2 t...
A. 16 December 2009: There is a possibility but there alway is with sex!!! Its very very very unlikely that she is if you were both wearing underware and she had pj's on. The reason she isnt getting her period is probably because shes so worried and stress that she is ... (read in full...)
Do guys always take action when they get a hard on?
Q. hey guys, ok my question is mainly for guys. I was just wondering if when u guys get hard do u always act on it! like the other day me and bf where sitting on the couch kissing and just chatting away when i could feel him get hadr but he never tr...
A. 15 December 2009: satindesire im very pleased for u that the answer to this question was just 'logic' but maybe it isnt that way for everyone else so a less patronising answer would have been more useful and less insulting. The reason i asked the question was because ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is self concious when it comes to sex and it makes it difficult for me
Q. my girlfriend is self concious. as a result she wont let me use my fingers on her or let me please her with oral sex. at first i accepted this but now i makes things abit more difficult for me. she barely lets me feel her vagina and when she doe...
A. 10 December 2009: TBH(to be honest) your gf kinda sounds the exact same as me and you sound the exact same as my bf lol tbh i think its a problem most young couples go through! Shes probably feeling insecure or scared, sex is a huge deal its probably the biggest way ... (read in full...)
What to say to a girl when she's on her period for fear of upsetting her?
Q. I need help on talking to this girl, I don't know what to say to her because she's on her period and I'm afraid I'll say something and that she will take it the wrong way, or something I need tips, I'm a pretty opened up person too, I can make a lot ...
A. 26 November 2009: you should give her a teddy with a hot water bottle in it and tell her that u understand that shes in pain and u hope she get better asap but u are there for hr if she needs anything at all!!!... (read in full...)
What type of skin colour do girls prefer?
Q. hi. my skin colour is quite fair comparing to the people of my country. recently i read two women's interview in newspaper and they both said they will prefere less fair skin coloured guys. my cousin also says like that. here in , south asian ...
A. 26 November 2009: hey, i really dont think girls like a set skin colour, i think girls generally take everythin else into account like ur personalyit and r u a gentleman. I myself have had a by who wha black but now im daing a white guy and for me colour never came ... (read in full...)
Lost in Love: cheating on boyfriend with married man!
Q. I love two wonderful men that love but one is married and he always says that he wants to be with me, but it is so hard to forget him. i find myself always going back to the spot with him on the other hand i live with a wonderful person. he loves ...
A. 15 October 2009: I personnally think what your doing is awful. Not only are you lying to your bf your also ruining the wifes relationship. I think you should come clean with your bf, if you dont love him then you shouldnt waste his time by cheating on him its just ... (read in full...)
Are any women actually trustworthy?
Q. I'm losing faith in humanity in general and myself in particular here. A little more than five weeks ago, my fiancée dumped me. I'm 25, she's 21, and we had been together for over 3 years, engaged for over one year. We were making good progress pl...
A. 1 October 2009: ok i get why your feeling low if you didnt feel this way it wouldnt be healthy but at least your trying to deal with it. Of course their are lovely girls out their that wont hurt you, you just have to find the right girl. Your really young you have ... (read in full...)
Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 1 October 2009: thanks for all your posts seriously they have been great!! ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was drugged and raped and I blame myself.
Q. I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18, We have been dating since high school. I go to college in a town that is 4 hours away from our home town. Last April during our last week of school I invited (begged) her to come down and attend the last class bash ...
A. 1 October 2009: ok something similar happened to me and my bf also felt the same as you!! after i came to terms with it he never did and he didnt tell me for a long time but i also knew it was like he had consent guilt in his eyes. But it wasnt his fault and ITS ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my girlfriend from hating me once she has lost her virginity to me? And is kissing her breasts a good thing or just stupid?
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] 1. Whenever i make love to 'a lady, i like giving her a kiss on her breast. Now i wanted to know or ask, is it a good thing that i am doing or is it just stupid? ...
A. 1 October 2009: 1. i personnally like it when my bf kisses me there but id be gentle because it s a sensitive area!! but youll know if the girl likes it or not when you do it because shell look like shes enjoying it or wont! I really dont think its stupid at ... (read in full...)
I wonder if he was a pedophile, or was it my fault...
Q. I was 17 when it happened, I was lonely and a male teacher in his late 40s (who gave out many hugs to me and other students) started touching me a little too much. I felt a little uncomfortable at first, as his hands lingered on my waist each tim...
A. 23 June 2009: i was in a similar situation but younger, this was not ur fault at all!! you were a child and he was the adult!!! he shouldnt have crossed those boundries he shouldnt even hugged students!!! please dont blame yourself for being young, your not ... (read in full...)
I just can't get over he watches porn!
Q. ok so me and bf have been going strong for nearly a year and a half but the other day he told me he watches porn and now i cant get the thought out of my head!! does it me he doesnt love me? or does he not find me attractive?? i guess because i dont ...
A. 14 June 2009: thank you all very much for your respanses they really have helped alot!!! i was very unaware about the whole thing and you have all helped a lot thank you
take care!... (read in full...)
What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin?
Q. What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin. thats my situation. im not ugly or fat....
A. 14 August 2008: we think its a really great thing!!! a women will be more likely to trust u because she knows for not just after one thing and that you realise that sex is much more than just sex! =D... (read in full...)
Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 29 July 2008: thanks so much for all your answer they're all really good and i really appreciate it. Thank You........big girls are beautiful hehehe ... (read in full...)
What approach/scenario would make you women feel comfortable that you would say yes.
Q. Hi. I'm male, 22, who is very shy around women (cliche I know, but true;) never had a relationship, and still a virgin. To be honest, the inexperience and virginity has never really bothered me, until I recently met a girl who I have real, deep ...
A. 20 July 2008: hey, i'd keep it casual lots of eye contact and smile sweetly and just be like hey are you free this weekend fancy getting something to eat? or theres a new movie out??
goodluck =)... (read in full...)
Leading up to sex for the first time - I would like some ideas on how to make it special
Q. me and my bf have been dating for 10months we've been doing some stuff and now its leading to sex were both virgins and went our first time to be really really special any ideas on how to make it really romantic and special? and less painful for me ...
A. 18 July 2008: hey thanks so much you guys really helped fingers crossed it works out lol... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and I'm starting to feel I'm missing out on sex and relationships
Q. A bunch of my friends are all having sex. I'm the only one from my original group of friends that can't get laid. I don't think i'm ever going to find a girl. What age do people usually have the most sex at? I'm 19 and starting to feel like I'm ...
A. 16 July 2008: honestly your not missing out on anything you shouldnt have sex until you find the person who just makes you melt inside the person who you truely love otherwise you will just be having sex instead of making love and girls arent like some guys they ... (read in full...)
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