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I have been trying to get pregnant for 7 months and nothing has happened! Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   hi i have been married for 7 months and im been trying to get pregnant. Im 21 years old and im just wondering is there something wrong with me? Should i be stressing out? I have tried everything but still no baby ...

A.   16 April 2010: It took me and my husband 10 months to get pregnant I would stop worrying about it. If you don't get pregnant by a year then go see the doctor.... (read in full...)

Nearly 15 and never had a period

Q.   Hi im nearly 15 and I haven't had my period what should I do?...

A.   11 April 2010: My sister never got her period till she was 19 don't worry about it every woman is different... (read in full...)

Hard after ejaculation - is this normal?

Q.   *OP's own title* Hiya I'm a 16 year-old girl, my boyfriend is 18 and we've been dating for a long while. Recently I started giving him handjobs... But after he cums he stays hard. Is this normal?...

A.   11 April 2010: Yup takes my husband a few minutes for it to go away... (read in full...)

I forget to take the pill once or twice a week. Is it possible I am pregnant?

Q.   I am on the pill but i sometimes forget to take it once or twice a week I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and now im panicing Is it possible to have pregnancy symptoms 2 weeks since? I feel like im going to be sick alot, Im always really...

A.   22 March 2010: My mom missed her pill one day 9 months later my sister was born lol Don't be silly wrap up his willy, or take your pills lol... (read in full...)

The "pull out" method!

Q.   My b/f and me were doing it doggie style and he always pulls out and relieves himself on the outside. Last night he pulled out but then he shot his stuff all over the outside of my privates. I asked him why he did that and he said he gets turned ...

A.   24 February 2010: My friend was doing the pull out method that was the biggest fail in history she's now 10 weeks prego lololol... (read in full...)

I cheated twice and now my wife is emotionally distant. How can I get back in her good graces?

Q.   I have been married 8 years. My wife emotionally is not close to me. I admit I have done some wrong. I have cheated on her twice and I deeply regret it. Ever sine then I have done everything I could possibly think of to get back into her good grace ...

A.   5 February 2010: Well if I was a guy, in your position, I would propose renewing our vows. Except for saying something really deep like your proposing to her for the first time again. Because my husband cheated on me three times then when we got married I trusted ... (read in full...)

Do condoms clog up the plumbing?

Q.   I flushed a condom down the toilet and im worried it will clog up the pipes, its only the one time ive done this and would hate to block the pipes and then have my parents discover it. I wrapped it in toilet paper first but im just worried that ive ...

A.   26 January 2010: My husband said that he's always flushed his condoms and it's never clogged up our pipes. =)... (read in full...)

Can I play tennis at 20 weeks pregnant?

Q.   Hi and thanks to all who responds to my post =) I was just wondering if i can play tennis while i'm 20 weeks pregnant. Thanks. And how active can I be while i'm pregnant. I would just like to know my limits bc this is my first pregnancy...

A.   22 January 2010: Thanks everyone for there input. =)... (read in full...)

Question on conceiving...

Q.   Do you concieve on the day of ovulation? Or before of after? Confused!...

A.   20 January 2010: I got pregnant right after my period if that helps at all LOL... (read in full...)

Could this be my first period, at 14?

Q.   Okay so my mom didint start her period till she was 16. so today I started bleeding like dark brown and it was In my underwear? I'm only 14 never had sex what's going on? PlZ help? ...

A.   16 January 2010: You probably started your period. Because a lot of girls start there period around the age of 10 but not *all* Like three days into my period I pass on a brown substance too. If your that worried about it you should tell your mom about it. Instead ... (read in full...)

Can guys fall in love with girls who have scars on their bodies?

Q.   Can you guys fall in love with a girl with scars on her body? burns, insect bites, injuries and other types of scars. Can you guys stay, love and be with a girl with those? Does it matter?...

A.   16 January 2010: I see guys with very large woman what makes you think they wouldn't want someone with scars on there bodies? lol ... (read in full...)

How can I stop myself wanting to play with barbie dolls?

Q.   hi. I need some help. I'm an 18 year old girl who stopped playing with barbie toys two days ago. I know it sounds a bit crazy. Anyways, sometimes I feel like I want to play with them again. I really miss playing with them but I know I have to grow ...

A.   15 January 2010: If I was you I would start playing the sims it's like playing with barbie dolls except for older teens ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend likes rough sex. How do I go about discussing this with her?

Q.   Ok, im Actually 16, i put the wrong age (duh) lol anyhoo. ive ben with my girlfriend since i was 9, it was actually more like friends who became closer overtime, anyhoo im 16 now, and shes 22, im not sure if id call this a problem or not, its more ...

A.   5 December 2009: Oh good lord O_O lol. All I can say to you is stop having sex on your bed and start having sex in other places with one of those O ring pillows so she can't hurt your pelvis anymore!! lmfao But seriously bro change your routine if your on top she's ... (read in full...)

Our mom s too clingy and our nan has just passed away, what should I do?

Q.   hi hope you ca help me its about my mom my moms mom our nan died nearlly two months ago and it was hard for everyone she was like our second mom too were a close family since then though its been really hard with my mom ,ive moved out living with ...

A.   27 September 2009: She's probably needing lots of company her mom just died.. You need your space to cope with it but your mom really needs you... (read in full...)

Parents suffocating me!

Q.   Okay, so I'm in my early twenties, and I've never been in a relationship because my family has conservative values, and they praise education over anything else. So I focused primarily on school for the past twenty years or so. I don't go out as ...

A.   26 September 2009: She is your mom she will probably never change. She is scared to lose her baby girl. The only option is for you to move out =)... (read in full...)

My friends smoke weed. How do I tell them I don't toke anymore?

Q.   Please i need help, im going to a gig soon with some mates ill be 16 then and basically, my mates are taking weed with them and I dont know what to do. I used to smoke it with me old mates and i really dont wanna get back into it. It messed me up ...

A.   26 September 2009: Well don't make a big deal out of it towards your friends. Don't make it seem like your a *wimp* You could always tell them that you went to the doctor recently and the doc said you have Asthma. So you can't smoke weed or cigs. ... (read in full...)

Do you gain weight after getting your tubes tied?

Q.   Me and my man have decided that after the second baby that we didnt want anymore children. So i would like to have my tubes tied. But alot of women have said that when u get your tubes tied you gain alot of weight is that true? ...

A.   24 September 2009: My mom didn't gain any weight after she got her tubes tied. You should be fine... (read in full...)

Any ideas? How can I last longer in bed?

Q.   Hey guys and dolls, just discovered this site as I'm getting fed up with my sex life. I'm going out with this gorgeous blonde girl for 3 years now and when it comes to sex its over like that a few mins 5 at the very very most, even with foreplay or ...

A.   24 September 2009: Well I would think masturbating like 2 hours before hand would still give you a boner and make it last a little longer in bed that helps my bf anyways.. And you might keep changing positions when your having sex. Do you only do one? ... (read in full...)

Any ideas? How can I last longer in bed?

Q.   Hey guys and dolls, just discovered this site as I'm getting fed up with my sex life. I'm going out with this gorgeous blonde girl for 3 years now and when it comes to sex its over like that a few mins 5 at the very very most, even with foreplay or ...

A.   23 September 2009: If she's on birth-control and that's the only thing yall are doing then I would suggest using a condom because it takes a little longer to go off for guy when they use one. Btw like the other poster said there's nothing wrong with you your just ... (read in full...)

How can I be more dominant in my relationship like she wants?

Q.   I asked what my girlfriend liked, and she said she wanted a dominating man. I am pretty dominant in my own life, I run it no one else. But I'm not sure how to be dominant in a relationship. I try to initiate the kisses, I lead in the conversat...

A.   22 September 2009: Maybe she just wants dominance in the bedroom bro... (read in full...)

Will he get bored with me when he turns 18?

Q.   Me and my boyfreind are getting on really well and have been together for 7 months. But hes a year older than me, and turning 18 soon. Im really worried he will get bored of me, want to go out all the time drinking, and possibly meet other girls at ...

A.   22 September 2009: Look if he gets *bored* with you move on love isn't boring... (read in full...)

He keeps cancelling our dates. What's up with him?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for about 2 months now. We were doing great for a while but now he seems to cancel every other date we have. Two weeks ago I told him that I felt that he isn't really interested in me and tried to end the situation, but ...

A.   21 September 2009: What are his excuses for canceling your guys dates?... (read in full...)

How do I tell all five lads, that they may or may not be the father to my baby?

Q.   What do I do? I know it sounds bad, so please don't judge me, or leave nasty comments! Well 8 and a half months ago I slept with 5 lads in a period of two weeks, and now im due a little boy any time soon, but all the lads know im pregnant an...

A.   21 September 2009: Well if you get to nervous about the whole thing you could always say *You might be the father of my baby* Scratch -Or four other guys- part of it. I would use that as a last resort. Btw can you tell us more about these guys? Is one o... (read in full...)

I'm having to lie to my parents, how do I get around this?

Q.   This Friday my boyfriend wants me to stay round his, he has the house to himself so his parents don't know. The problem is my parents won't let me sleep round his so I have to make up an excuse I've already said my friend is having a sleepover and ...

A.   21 September 2009: I agree with the other posters :/ You have only known this guy for 3 months. Don't let this be a life lesson that you have to experience the hard way. With your hormones raging at 14 making out could turn into sex.. If you want the whole school ... (read in full...)

Yikes!!! Am I pregnant? Please help.

Q.   Hi, I'm 16 but I'm really worried. I had sex with my ex boyfriend and we used a condom but I've missed my period, I'm 28 days late and I'm really scared because I've had this funny feeling in my stomach and sometimes I feel like I'm about to come ...

A.   21 September 2009: I had a experience like your's It was all in my head and I had symptoms like pregnancy but I wasn't pregnant. Good Luck & remember always use your mistakes as lessons in life =)... (read in full...)

Any suggestions on how to get a life?

Q.   Im 23 with no life. When I say no life, I mean no life. While everyone my age is out enjoying their selves, doing things that young people do. I'm home, watching reruns, hating my life. Any suggestions on how to change this?...

A.   20 September 2009: Start trying new things that you have never tried before. Find your passion in something and work with it. Even trying something that nerds do like drawing anime. The internet is a great place to meet people. If your patient i'm positive you won't ... (read in full...)

Have I lost my virginity or not?

Q.   Hi. I am a 19 year old female. I have been with a guy now for a little over 8 months and We both know that we will be together for life. We play around sexually like 3 or 4 times a week. I was a virgin when I met him. At first it started off just ...

A.   24 August 2009: It could actually be that he just tore your hymen. It happened to me, my boyfriend did the same thing and I freaked out and he stopped. I thought I had lost my virginity that night but I was wrong. When we actually did have sex I bled some.. About ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't last long enough

Q.   help my boyfriend cums too soon. we have tried everything to slowing down to less foreplay he cums in less than 4 mins no joke. any ideas on how to help me? thanks...

A.   21 August 2009: Well I would stick with the less foreplay. And also keep switching positions. But I mean you on top ofc that way he doesn't get winded. And if your on birth-control and only using condoms, I would switch to condoms instead because guys tend to go ... (read in full...)

I want to propose to her, Harry Potter style, but how?

Q.   Hi! My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now (five years), since she was 19 and I was 21. And I just want to know of a nice, decent place I can propose to her at. We're both Americans still living in America with the common goal of m...

A.   10 July 2009: But remember to make it something that she will never forget! Good Luck!... (read in full...)

I want to propose to her, Harry Potter style, but how?

Q.   Hi! My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now (five years), since she was 19 and I was 21. And I just want to know of a nice, decent place I can propose to her at. We're both Americans still living in America with the common goal of m...

A.   10 July 2009: O.O if ur gonna propose at the theatre you could like buy a snitch and put the ring inside it and put it in the popcorn! And offer her some *popcorn* lol... (read in full...)

I want to propose to her, Harry Potter style, but how?

Q.   Hi! My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now (five years), since she was 19 and I was 21. And I just want to know of a nice, decent place I can propose to her at. We're both Americans still living in America with the common goal of m...

A.   9 July 2009: You could always cut a hole in the Half-Blood Prince book and put the ring inside of it. Or you could buy a wizard hat like the sorting hat and put a replica of the gryfindor sword in there along with the ring in a ring box thing and give it to her. ... (read in full...)

Does a cheat and a liar ever change?

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend now for three years, in that time he has cheated once what i know of, and lied on many occasions. i have stayed around i suppose in the hope of him changing, and i really thought he had, until i found out he lied to m...

A.   8 July 2009: Well it depends on the man my boyfriend changed he cheated and lied to me. My moms ex boyfriend never changed and he will never change and im 100% sure of this. If you have been with him for three years i doubt he will change for you :S But then ... (read in full...)

Calling all horse people (and others)!

Q.   so i went bareback riding on the pavement on my friends horse who i lease....obviously dumb idea i realize now...she got spooked and galloped off and i fell and held the reighns and got dragged and she kept rearing so i let go....she stayed still..i ...

A.   1 July 2009: Dude I fell on a rock head first when i was camping when i got up my head was ringing like crazy and i couldnt hear in it and I felt like i was drunk with a stomach ache the doctor said i was fine LOL You should be safe but if the pain continues i ... (read in full...)

Is there something you can eat to make your sperm taste sweet?

Q.   I hope this isn't a dumb question -,- lol But I was reading a question on here and I was wondering if you could eat something to make your sperm sweet??? okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rare...

A.   1 July 2009: lol thanks for getting back to me guys. ... (read in full...)

Is there something you can eat to make your sperm taste sweet?

Q.   I hope this isn't a dumb question -,- lol But I was reading a question on here and I was wondering if you could eat something to make your sperm sweet??? okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rare...

A.   30 June 2009: Oh btw the one paragraph was the question I read on here.... (read in full...)

How to give a good lap dance?

Q.   I want to give my boyfriend a lap dance, I'm just not sure how to. I don't want to screw it up or anything. Any help?...

A.   30 June 2009: idk really either you could try watching videos of girls giving lap dances to guys. Hope this helps lol ... (read in full...)

Are we two freaks or do other couples act this way?

Q.   My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We do have kids. My wife has always been more on the conservative side. I have always hoped that she would try to open up more sexually with me. Try new things etc. but was afraid to ask. One night...

A.   29 June 2009: I don't see anything wrong with it. I mean alot of people have troubles with there sex lives and sometimes it ends up in divorce. It's nice to know how you guys trust each other so much :)... (read in full...)

My jealousy is getting in the way of relationships! How do I deal with it?

Q.   I have a jealousy problem and I shouldn't be jealous because I have no reason to be... Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with it? I mean its starting to get out of control and I realized that tonight lol Because I made an ass out of myself ...

A.   29 June 2009: Well when i go out with my bf's to his friends house (lets say Rob) when I walk through the door Robs mom or sister normally stop me to ask me if were married yet how Ive been were am i living the normal chit chat. While i'm being interogated (lol) ... (read in full...)

Penis size: Small, big, or average?

Q.   im 13 and im worried if my penis is average for my age or under average it 3-4 inches flop and on eceration its 5-6 inches is this average or below average or over average...

A.   28 June 2009: I would say your about average. I wouldnt worry about it because i know some guys that are very very small lol. My boyfriend is average and i just like it fine :P lol... (read in full...)

How can I leave him after 23 years? Hes making my life hell!

Q.   I am in a realtionship for 23 years, we have a 15 year old daughter. We are not married, that is not the issue. The issue is, we get no respect, I am constantly getting yelled at like I am a verbal punching bag by both my daughter and her dad, ( ...

A.   14 June 2009: I it might seem hard to leave him. It is very hard. Me my mom and sister have been through the same situation but harder tho . My mom did have a job at the time she left her bf but she owed money to cash advances and was paying on her vehicles and ... (read in full...)

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