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Am I doing something wrong?? What should I do next time??

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Question - (28 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, *lmightykid32 writes:

my girl and I wanted to try something new and that was giving her a orgasm by massaging her clit. I got her in the mood and I started to massage her clit, after a few minutes she started to shake and breath hard but she said she didnt get there. She told me that she was holding on to long and never got there.

I don't know if im doing something wrong. what should I do next time?

Thank you for your help.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2008):

BigSis agony auntMale anon, I loved your answer. "It will destroy them" What a way you have with words...LOL! Arra boy.

Almightykid, practice makes perfect, keep at it, and I think it may help if you used some lube.

Happy orgasm'ing guys!

BigSis

xXx

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2008):

peaches83 agony auntYou not doing anything wrong it just sometimes happenes,some times it can go on the speed that you do it. For exmple starting slow and the closer she get the faster you pick up your speed. Try using a vibrater or something along those lines.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008):

Well I have the same problem with my wife and I truly hate it makes me feel like I'm investing too much time with litte to no payoff.

Well one day I decided to use on of those vibrating eggs and it worked!

My method was to insert the egg into the vagina while I sucked on her clit.

After about fifteen minutes she had a huge orgasm she was never that happier before and she went wild!

So my theory is oral sex has it's merits but it isn't guaranteed to get your women to orgasm but if you combine it with a small vibrator it will destroy them! :)

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