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writes: Hi all i hope you can help me with your advicei was meant to be meeting up with a girl the other week when we went out in rite ( i was out with my mates she was out with hers)she textd me and said were she was so later on we went to this club when i was walkin pass the the bar i walked passd her but i didnt see her if ya know wot i mean lolshe she txtd me and said "u have just walked passed me"so later on i went back the bar i seen her i wanted to go over and talk but i couldnt if you know wot i mean i bottled it BIG time so later on when i was going home she phoned me and said why didnt i meet up with her and that she had a bit of a go at me and she said that cos i didnt talk 2 her it made her feel like "ergh, u seen me and u thought i was ugly so that why i didnt talk to her" thats what she thought she also said that that had NEVER happened to her beforei do like her like,HELP
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (17 April 2008):
Apologies and let her know you do like her. Tell her you were nervous at the time. Tell her, her looks didnt put you off, they made you nervous (thus implying she looks good). Make sure she knows (without saying it directly) that you are interested in her. Try not to be too apologetic all the way through, only at the beginning, then half way through switch to romantic (im not talking about the date but the speech for forgiveness).
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): that was cold!!! bless her she must have felt sooo insecure
meet up with her again and make it up to her!!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 The best way to apologize is NOT to do it in a small way. Apologize, once twince and three times, sincerely, until she forgives you. You can talk your way out of this, but you are going to have to grovel a bit. It sounds like she is worth it...
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (17 April 2008):
 You gotta think of why you bottled out. That way you can then sort it out. Mybe sort out a time for a coffee or something.
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