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41-50,
*howstopper
writes:its me!! earlier i've told yall about the guy i love is getting married. Now he's not the babymomma got mad because he don't spend enough time with her. So she leaves and go back to her town for days and take the son with her.(she has her ass on her back) My sex partner really didn't want to get married anyway. Now i feel better knowing that he's not getting married but my feelings are not the same. I do still love him but i see that he might don't be the one for me. I pray that GOD change him 2 b the 1 4 me. Allowing him to love me and treat me good and for him to b my husband. Do you think god would change his way to be the MAN for me or should i NOT pray about stuff like that?????? reminding you that the babymomma always in and out of my sex partner life anyways. I'm sure she will return is this just a waste of time together over 5 years without a commitment. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): It sounds like to me you are in love with this guy.Think it over and try to figure out if it will ever work.If you think you might have a chance and want to take a shot at it talk it over with him,and if still only wants to be sex parteners and you're okay with that then I'm sorry but you should of never bothered caring about him getting married.If he loves you to and wants to be with you then you both must make that happen because God Wont Do It For You!!
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reader, Deema  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Well lucky her - getting to marry a cheating rat like that - what a catch!!!!!!! And a s for you, sorry to sound harsh - but he's not just your sex partner, you're in love with him, so stop kidding yourself. Us girls love to pretend we are like men and don't get emotionally involved with men we have sex with - its BOLLOCKS, we do get emotionally involved, we're meant to, its nature, but then if he has a fiance then you already know in HIS head you are just there for sex. Is that what you want? I doubt it. So why not let the rat have this poor woman and her child he is threatening to marry. Go find yourself someone decent who is available. Its not wrong to pray for anything - but God won't give you stuff thats bad for you anyway - unless you need to learn a very big lesson.
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 You dont feel the same because he isnt attatched to anyone else any more. Put your self in this other girls shoes.
Its comming up to you weding day and you think everything is great you love each other so so much, lol mean while you guy is out sleeping with his 'sex partner'!!!!
Could you honestly accept this????
You need to leave this guy alone go out and get a guy that isnt already attached, someone that loves and likes you for who you are and not because of what you can do with your body or what he can do it it.
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