Is the age difference a big deal?
Q. So I'm 17 going on 18 and this girl and I really like each other. But the problem is her parents won't let her date till she's 16 which will be in September. So we have been like talking and hanging out and everything but her parents still don't ...
A. 7 April 2012: It's a big deal until she turns 18. When I was 14, I dated an 18-year-old and his dad forced us apart a month later. I was devastated. You might as well give up and think about finding her a few years from now - it's not worth the heart ache or ... (read in full...)
Ladies: shaved or natural 'downstairs' on a guy?
Q. Ladies thoughts opinions needed: When you are about to have sex/or oral with a guy for the first time and see his thing, is hair down there a turn off? is shaved more a turn on? or trimmed? also what about hairy thighs? shaved? leave alone? I am...
A. 5 April 2012: No shaving! My boyfriend likes to shave that area and I hate it. It looks weird and doesn't feel right. I feel like since I'm the one always concerned over shaving, it makes him seem like a woman. ... (read in full...)
Why are people so mean to those who are disabled and to those with special needs?
Q. This isn't a relationship question but me and my 16 years old sister donated A LOT of money to this special needs/disable day care that stay over night etc. Today we was taking the kids to Dairy Queen and people was talking ish about them saying ...
A. 4 April 2012: Well first of all, it's really sweet of you and everyone else to donate money, time and love to special needs. People are so cruel. My step sister has severe autism and when I would take her for walks or play with her outside, kids from my school ... (read in full...)
He leaves me to sleep alone, our sex life has died...all because he is up all night chatting to other women!
Q. Please help! I have been living with my boyfriend for 1.8 years. The time has gone really quickly because as they say, time flies when you are having fun! Sometime into our relationship, I realised one night he was missing from bed. He has a ...
A. 4 April 2012: My advice: HE NEEDS A LAPTOP. That way he can lay in bed with you and still play the amazing Sims, but you'll be able to watch him and make sure he isn't chatting it up with other women. I have a laptop and when my boyfriend sleeps over, he gets ... (read in full...)
Would you spent a lot on a birthday gift for your partner if you received nothing for yours?
Q. Im curious to find out others opinions on this. Would you spent a considerable amount of money (over $400) on a birthday present for your boyfriend, if he did not get you anything for your birthday? (birthdays are few months apart). I know it isn't...
A. 31 March 2012: It depends why he didn't buy YOU a present! For Christmas, my boyfriend bought me an older Xbox 360 and my money was extremely tight. I still got him a present but it was about 1/3 the price he paid. Your boyfriend could have at least made you ... (read in full...)
Wife's friend is dating her ex, and I overheard them talking about his penis. I'm not happy!
Q. Should I be pissed off or not. My wife's friend is really hitting on a guy who used to date my wife. I overheard them talking, and my wife said that this guy was a really nice guy. Will take her out to nice places, and buy her stuff. Then she said ...
A. 28 March 2012: I don't think you should be mad. It sounds like she's just encouraging her friend to get with this guy. If she still had any feelings for him, she wouldn't be telling her friend good things. The "cute dick" part was a little over the top, but ... (read in full...)
Was she flirting or just wanted to feel my muscles?
Q. Hi. I just turned 20, last week. Just call me Victor. I have to say, however, there's this very friendly female friend of mine. However, she is a little too friendly. Just call her Candace. I think she may be around in her early 50's. Ahem. Anyw...
A. 28 March 2012: I think she was trying to get it in with a hotter and younger guy. If it were me, I'd be a little creeped out if some older woman at my university's cafeteria decided to randomly grab my arm and smile at me. Sounds like she was flirting, though.... (read in full...)
Is it true that women never forget their first sexual partners?
Q. I'm a 30 y/o male, got married when I was 28 I have a 19 month old boy. I love my wife and child. But my question is the following: "when my wife and I had intimacy for the first time she made it very clear and reinstated that she wasn't a vir...
A. 25 March 2012: My first time wasn't enjoyable, really. I don't think you're missing out - the only difference is some blood, an uncomfortable girl, and a little bit of extra tightness. I'm sure your wife wouldn't be happy knowing you'd rather have sex with a ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?
Q. Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...
A. 25 March 2012: He sounds like a normal guy for the most part. Some people watch strange porn and get a laugh out of it, it doesn't necessarily mean he was turned on. You can't possibly call the police on him for finding it on his laptop when hundreds of other ... (read in full...)
Is there a good way to remove pubic hair?
Q. quick question, is there a best way to remove pubic hair? if i shave it i get wired spots there ...
A. 25 March 2012: I definitely wouldn't wax if you're a dude. Have you ever tried women's bikini razors? They're not really just for women. They're a lot less sharp than a razor and much easier to use in the crotch area. Or if you're using a guy's razor, try using a ... (read in full...)
Wife and I haven't had sex in a year, she says go somewhere else
Q. My wife and I have not had sex in almost a year now and I do not know what's wrong. I try to talk to her about it but can't get any straight answers. She says she still loves me but that I should go find someone else who will not only love me but ...
A. 24 February 2012: I don't think it's menopause, as everyone else seems to think. It sounds like she's "fed up" with you. She may still love you, but she may not see you as attractive anymore. Unfortunately, you can't do much to help this. Break up or try to improve ... (read in full...)
How am I going to escape this year's Valentines craze without hurting anyone's feelings?
Q. Valentines day. Last year's valentines day found my locker flooded with letters , from both girls and boys. A rain of chocolate from throngs of random girls who squealed as I accepted their chocolate and (as always) just 1 box of chocolate from a ...
A. 7 February 2012: Just tell them thank you, you don't really need to return the favor. In my opinion, you're a lucky chick to get THAT many letters and boxes of chocolate. On Valentines Day, I get absolutely nothing and I'm only 17. I would be flattered to even get ... (read in full...)
Could I be bi-sexual? I like looking at pictures of women
Q. i find clothed and naked girls attractive but think doing sexual things with them is wrong. I'm unsure if this makes me straight or bisexual, just asking what everyone else thinks?...
A. 7 February 2012: I think you're straight as a pencil! I have to admit that I also look at pictures of models/super pretty girls clothed and naked, and I'm completely straight. Not because I find them "sexy" or anything, but I find them gorgeous and attracti... (read in full...)
I'm sneaking out to date because my parents don't approve of a "non college boy'
Q. long story but i hope some people are willing to read it and help me. I appreciate it. I met a guy 2 1/2 months ago and we clicked. Everything about him is wonderful and i felt like it was meant to be...Yes i'm only 18 and he's 20 and it just ...
A. 7 February 2012: I'm 17 but my parents haven't denied me a boyfriend since I was a lot younger, so I can see how upset you'd be! This may not be good advice, but I think you should just go for it. You're 18, you should be allowed to see him whether or not he goes to ... (read in full...)
B/f left me on a dark street by myself and he knows how terrified I am of this kind of situation!
Q. Just a quick question! What would you do if your boyriend left you in the dark on the street by your self? Ill give you a bit more detail, i', having doubts if my boyfriend acctually does love me, he says he does so much and i acctually started to ...
A. 7 February 2012: Maybe you should elaborate to him how scared it makes you? It's nothing worth breaking up with him over. He just sounds like a normal guy. I wouldn't necessarily be mad at him, just a little upset. ... (read in full...)
I regret being so shallow about a guy's height
Q. I turned down an opportunity to be with a guy who was committed and a good person. The main reason I walked away because of his height. He is 5 ft. I am the same height and petite. All I can think about is the life we could have had together. Bu...
A. 5 February 2012: My boyfriend is 5'1" and I'm 5'. I care about him a lot, but I find his height unattractive. I can't wear high heels to prom or else I'll feel like an awkward monster next to him, and other guys always diss him for being so short. Don't feel bad ... (read in full...)
Matters down under!
Q. I was wondering how most women have their pubic hair, i guess? Just because idk if a guy will be freaked out if I have hair down there, or if it's normal too. If you don't have hair down there, how do you remove it? What do guys prefer? Is having ...
A. 24 January 2012: When I'm not around my boyfriend or plan on seeing him, I usually don't shave. If I'm with him, I definitely shave but if I let it go for a few days he couldn't care less. I love the feeling of being squeaky clean down there, but you're more prone ... (read in full...)
How do I handle this relationship? He's 22 and I'm 15. My parents do not know about him yet
Q. I've got a situation.. I'm a 15 year old girl that's in love with a 22 year old man. I met him when I had just turned 15 one month before and he had been 21 for about 7 months. We started talking and when we hung out for the first time it was like...
A. 23 January 2012: Trust me with everything and DON'T keep seeing this guy. It will cause trouble and so much heartbreak for you! When I was 15, I was head over heels for a 21yo. He was in a band (should've been an early warning sign for me, sigh) and was quite the ... (read in full...)
I've missed going out because she can't afford to.
Q. Am I being an inconsiderate friend to my flatmate, she doesn't get her loan. her parents do because it goes towards her rent. She lives on 40 a week and of course her parents wouldn't fund for event tickets or nights/days out. Well she's the only ...
A. 21 January 2012: You seem more selfish saying that than actually leaving her out. The poor girl has $40 a week and you're expecting her to go out and spend money for events, etc? Just go with other people. I'm sure she would be upset to see you were annoyed just ... (read in full...)
I gave the new guy false hope but I've just realised I'm not quite over my ex
Q. Basically, I’ve been with a guy for two and a half years but a few weeks back we broke up. Reason he gave was he couldn’t deal with having a relationship because he was too stressed…Actual reason, he had been cheating on me with another girl. I...
A. 21 January 2012: Whatever you do, don't dwell on your ex. Try to let go of him as hard as you can so that it's possible you CAN find another man! I had a "thing" with someone I REALLY fell for and I'm still not yet over him, despite a few years having passed. I've ... (read in full...)
I think I love my girlfriend's best friend!
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and everyday I hang out with her and her friends. I think that I'm starting to have feelings for her best friend. No matter what I do I can't stop thinking of her. I'm not sure what to do or if this is ...
A. 20 January 2012: Break up with your girlfriend or don't go near her friends! It would break your girlfriend's heart if she knew you had something for her BEST FRIEND, and the chances are her best friend will either hate you or love you, and ruin the friendship ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says the mark on his neck is a bruise. I say it's a love bite.
Q. Thanks in advance for your answers! Last night I noticed what looks like a lovebite on my boyfriends neck. When I mentioned it he said it must be a 'bruise'. Since when do love bites look like bruises? When I tried to bring it up again he got angry, ...
A. 20 January 2012: Urgh! A bruise on the neck? How is that possible? Also, if he got angry - what does that say? Drop him! I wouldn't put up with that. Love bites are unattractive either way. Find yourself a better man! Good luck! :)... (read in full...)
How close is too close?
Q. Hi Advice sought on how to handle a prospective 13 year old step daughter. She came to stay with us for the school holidays (nearly 5 weeks). It has been one of the most stressful times for me as she seems to have set up some kind of competit...
A. 20 January 2012: I'm 17 now, and when I was a few years (I mean 4-5ish) younger I would hug my Dad and stuff. However, when I was 13-14 I was nowhere near as close to my Dad as your step-daughter is. I could never imagine touching or being that close to him at this ... (read in full...)
She's a keeper but what she did hurt me, should I stay?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months. I'm pretty sure that's not a lot for some people. But for me this is my first long relationship. We have been best friends through it all. I really love her so much. So about a month back there ...
A. 20 January 2012: Not a keeper! Did you believe her when she said she was "forced" to do that if she did it willingly on a separate occasion? You seem like a good person, and you don't need to put up with her. You deserve someone that will be truthful to you. Maybe ... (read in full...)
Noisy sex
Q. Is making noise during sex important?...
A. 20 January 2012: Nope! Pleasure doesn't always equal noise. :) I can be quiet and I can be loud, but honestly... who cares as long as you're enjoying it!... (read in full...)
The ex and her text
Q. I feel like I go crazy every single time I see my boyfriends ex commenting on his facebook status I just wish she was not there or even in his friends. Every time I ask him to delete her, he says he is afraid it will cause drama. My thought is she ...
A. 20 January 2012: I make my boyfriend delete his ex's or girls he's talked to - they seem to do the SAME THING. I totally agree with you - they serve no purpose. I'm not friends with any of my exes and they're out of my life. His exes, however, aren't as willing to ... (read in full...)
How can I confront my boyfriend of lying about porn?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a great relationship for the past 2 years and haven't had any big fights... except about one topic: porn. I absolutely hate it. I see it as a form of cheating. He knows I would never allow him to look another ...
A. 4 December 2011: I don't like my boyfriend looking at porn either. I hope he doesn't, but how do I solve this problem? I don't snoop. He might keep doing it, but if you don't know about it, it can't hurt you. Snooping just makes things worse - you end up finding ... (read in full...)
I don't know if being friends with him is worth it anymore. Should I just give up?
Q. Hello! I'm sorry this is long. I am still in love with my best friend. We have been friends since 8th grade. I'm 19 and he is now 20. I have always had feelings for him and I eventually had to move away to another country. If I wouldn't have moved ...
A. 4 December 2011: My ex-boyfriend does the same thing to me every so often. We dated four years ago, and broke up because he went away to college. He's graduating college soon, and decides to IM me every few weeks with these heart-felt messages. They make me cry so ... (read in full...)
I accused him of cheating, then found out it was a misunderstanding
Q. A few months ago my this guy and I (who I am in a complicated relationship with) got really distant. I thought it was because he was cheating with this girl who lived in New York. Last week I texted asking if he goes out with this girl named ...
A. 4 December 2011: I have totally been in this situation, hahaha. My boyfriend's name is Steven - very common... It happens! It's just a silly misunderstanding, and if he loves you, he'll laugh about it and let it pass. If he finally does respond, and is angry about ... (read in full...)
The big question ... What do girls think when ....
Q. What do girls think when they see a decent-looking guy with a fat, ugly girlfriend? What do they assume about him? I'm pretty sure that if a guy is seen with a hot girl, people think he must be something special. So is it the opposite if he's...
A. 4 December 2011: When I see really attractive guys with really unattractive girls, I usually just smile because they're happy with their girlfriends. Some look very unhappy, however, and I think that may be because their unattractive girlfriends treat them like ... (read in full...)
My Gf got pissed that I dropped some rice in her bowl of soup, that I was angry at her and that I didn't call her, and now we shouldn't see each other till the end of the year! How trivial is that!!
Q. My gf and I are mad at each other. We’ve dated for about 16 months. I’m 27 and she’s 26. We’re each other's first gf/bf. We were eating at a buffet along with her sister. My gf returned to the table with a small bowl of soup and placed it on the...
A. 4 December 2011: I don't agree with any of the responses. She just sounds like a poor stressed out girl. She has finals coming up - that's serious business. I sometimes act like that around my boyfriend - God help me if he posted anything. I'd hate to see the ... (read in full...)
The girl I love doesn't want to date me because she says her parents wont approve of it, and wont even let me talk to them
Q. I. Love this girl sooo much and she says she loves. Me too. But like. She says she can't date me because her family wouldn't approve.so now I'm sitting here in tears I'm asking her to let me talk to her parents about it and she says she's 100% sure ...
A. 4 December 2011: Keep trying... I remember telling past boyfriends the similar things until they finally just reassured and pushed me far enough to ask about it. My parents ended up agreeing to anything I asked. She might just be scared and paranoid that they'll say ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy who told me from the start that he's not "dating material" but I've fallen for him anyways!
Q. About a month ago I started a fling with this man I really really really like. He made it extremely clear right from the start that he was unreliable and not a good person (his words). He also said he loves spending time with me, but he also made it ...
A. 3 March 2011: I'm in the same boat.
There's a guy a year older than me. I've liked him for about four years, and a week ago we started dating. We broke up because when he asked me out, he told me he wasn't a "good boyfriend" and "didn't want to disappoint me" ... (read in full...)
I wish my teacher knew I liked him
Q. Ok... so I'm 14 years old (I know, I'm "too young for love, shouldn't be thinking about this kind of stuff", but save it for someone else please!) and I have a hugehugehugehugehugehuge crush on my Civics teacher! I was just assigned to his class in ...
A. 10 March 2009: A mental little girl? Gee thanks. Your replies are rude and I hope that you just stop answering, please. Don't even reply to this.... (read in full...)
I wish my teacher knew I liked him
Q. Ok... so I'm 14 years old (I know, I'm "too young for love, shouldn't be thinking about this kind of stuff", but save it for someone else please!) and I have a hugehugehugehugehugehuge crush on my Civics teacher! I was just assigned to his class in ...
A. 9 March 2009: He wouldn't report me or anything! I know he wouldn't. He would keep it a secret for our sakes. I just don't know how he would act. My mom knows I am crushing on him.... (read in full...)
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