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writes:I know a girl and we dated for a couple of months. She moved then for no appearent reason stopped talking to me. Then i seen her around and she acts like she isn't avoiding me. Whats up with that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): She was gone from hot to cold and now to almost warm. Who would know what is going on in her mind. She's all over the place. Sounds like too much trouble for me. Find a new girl who doesn't play : ''yes/no, yes/no/maybe, no yes no''
Instead, be on the lookout for a girl who doesn't try to use manipulation to get her own way, A girl you can trust completely, communicates openly, and who loves you completelt.
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reader, romany  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Leaving like that was horrible, its not a nice thing to do, very cowardly wasnt it, but I think she figures that its done and dusted, and just says hi, as she probably liked you as a person, just not as someone who she wanted to date anymore.
Dont fret on it, You obviously have differences as it sounds like you wouldn't have been so rude, if you'd decided to stop dating. So it may have been a blessing that it never continued.
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reader, Outspoken1016 +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Sorry to be the one to tell you this dear but she avoiding you because she doesn’t want to speak to you. Don’t take it personal or feel there is something wrong with you. Some people just do not flow together and she is just not that in to you! Get out there and find another!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): there isnt enough detail to really be able to have a guess however i would guess it would be something on her part. she is probably embarrassed that she handled the end of your dating so badly and just felt too embarrased to talk to you. it wont be your fault, unless there is something your admitting!!
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (19 November 2010):
 She has moved on! I feel she could have talked to you, and let you know her plans. You did say for "No appearent reason" she left.Think about it a little longer and maybe you'll come up with THE reason! IJS. Sometimes we just have to roll with it! and keep it moving too.
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