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... Send *eanthia a private message | | | *eanthia's profile:I'm not the most qualified person to help anyone I came here seeking help rather than preparing to dish it out, but between my friends I've always been that shoulder to cry on (I guess it's kind of ironic that my shoulders are a bit broad to begin with) I'll give help to anyone whose needs it and is willing to accept it. I was raised with strong moral backbone and I'll tell you my honest opinion if you ask for it. I know they say most kids think they're top of the world when they become a teenager well I know I'm not there yet, may never get there, I have a long way to go, that's kind of why I'm here I needed advice and this was the best place I could turn to.
As I did have a dad who taught me internet safety I'm not going to put my address or anything like that on here. Instead I will tell you I live in the country in Northeastern USA my house is on half an acre of land with a farm on one side and a forest on the other located within the vicinity of some mountains. I could go into more detail but I won't.
I LOVE writing, sketching (I drew my profile picture), swimming, reading, running- oh and I would die without my dog and my family. They mean the world to me.
I have an amazing boyfriend, who I love very much, we were a bit unsteady at the beginning but things are pretty much ok now
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I am ginger with glasses, how do I make myself more attractive?
Q. I am ginger with glasses and people give me a har time over it. How do I make mysel more attractive without dyeing my hair (I love my hair as it is) or getting contacts....
A. 26 May 2010: Three of my awesome friends are redheads, two are guys and one is a girl. The girl is covered in freckles, incredibly tiny, and she has the best personality in the world, she gets tons of boyfriends, she will always be my favorite ginger cousin. I ... (read in full...)
Any good advice on winning back my ex??
Q. how do i get my exback?...
A. 26 May 2010: We need more information than that. What did you do to first lose your ex? Start by explaining your situation. You have to give us some info before we can help you.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid a date might be too awkward, please help!!
Q. Okay so I have no idea what to do now. I got asked out by one of my previous boyfriends who i still had feelings for and i said yes. I've had two previous boyfriends but they only lasted not even a week. Just like my bf now our relationship only ...
A. 20 May 2010: Why don't you try a group date? I find that group dates always provide conversation so there's no awkward silence or try a fun date like bowling, biking, horseback riding, going to the movies, getting ice cream and just walking around,etc. whatever ... (read in full...)
Comments on a weight loss plan?
Q. hey, im 17 and really want to lose weight and quite quickly. i was thinking of going on a 500 cals a day diet and doing 12km a day on the treadmill. has anyone ever tried anything like this and if so did it work? thankyouxx...
A. 16 May 2010: Uh no. That will end in disaster!!!!!
You need calories for energy, just not empty ones.
HEALTHY WEIGHT PHILOSOPHY: "Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, dinner like a beggar", that and plenty of exercise and healthy foods. A) your bod... (read in full...)
How much effort does it take to text?
Q. I was supposed to go round this guy's house tonight. We talked earlier, and he said he had a friend round and would text me later, when he was free. Only he never did. It's now really late, and I've not heard anything from him, not even a "sorry" ...
A. 16 May 2010: Sigh... I am a weird girl, I have a suckish phone, yes it IS hard for me to text! In fact I find it downright annoying, most of the guys i know share my opinion.
It's one itty bitty text!!!! Things happen, to err is human! What a famous line but ... (read in full...)
Facebook Poke: Why hasn't he poked me back?
Q. Theres a guy in my school who watches me and I watch him. Havent talked to this guy in ages (partly because Im really shy) So I was on Facebook today and decided that I was going to poke him. I did, hoping he might just do the same but so far no ...
A. 16 May 2010: Your hopes may have been up a little high and you over analyzed. He might just not have been on Facebook, and I know for a fact that FaceBook pokes are located in a small box on the right side if you receive one when not being logged on. Or he ... (read in full...)
Should I do what he wants so I can get him back?
Q. Okay so I lost my virginity about a month ago to a guy who I liked very very much, but he didn't feel the same way. Basically he used me, So then I thought I was pregnant and some how my school found and was talking about it non stop. Well the guy ...
A. 16 May 2010: There are laws in America that would make your situation illegal. That doesn't mean your situation doesn't happen her though, unfortunately. Ok now that I've said that let me also say: Are you ready to be a mother before you graduate? You say that ... (read in full...)
B/f deserve a second chance?
Q. Dear Cupid... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half now, and recently we have been constantly fighting. We use to be so happy, and we NEVER fought about anything. My boyfriend isn't the type of guy to say all of this to ...
A. 16 May 2010: Ask yourself this: Why did the relationship fall to pieces in the first place?
"He treated me like a piece of meat" that sentence in itself can mean several things. A)never, never, never let a guy you think you're in love with use you! You may want... (read in full...)
I confessed I had sent fake pics to my online boyfriend, ..now he wants to see the real me but I am scared he wont like what he see's.
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship for 9 months. We're recently broken up, and I showed my boyfriend fake pictures, and only JUST showed him my actual self a few days ago. I was terrified to tell him, but he actually took it MUCH better than ...
A. 14 April 2010: If he can't accept you for who you are he is missing a wonderful. Person, hiding yourself was very foolish, but real love can be seen in the heart, not the face or the body. You're fine just the way you are. Maybe show him pics of you and your ... (read in full...)
I'm dating one brother but have feelings for the other
Q. Hi, I'm in a bit of a mess and need some help. I take responsibility for what's happened as it's my own stupid fault! About 8 months ago I got a part time job in a restaurant working just fri and sat evenings and the occasional sunday. I alread...
A. 11 April 2010: Yeah I'm 13 and your probably not going to listen too much to me, but like you I have liked two guys at the same time. One was a year and a half older but I'd known him for 3 years as an awesome friend, my best friend in fact, and the other guy I ... (read in full...)
How can I get confidence to accept me as I am?
Q. I met this boy on msn through one of my friends and I think he is absoloutely amazing. We've met up a couple of times and I swear I have fallen in love. It seems silly that someone could actually fall in love with someone i've only known for about 2 ...
A. 10 April 2010: I'm going to sound like a record broken beyond repair but I'll repeat what Yarou and Danii-N-Dale said. Looks don't always matter. If he likes you for who you are then that's great but if doesn't he's missing out on a wonderful person. Don't feel ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about kissing for the first time!
Q. what is the best and easiest way to gain confidence in kissing because i've never been kissed before and i've asked people who i know that have kissed but all they say is to just do it. THAT DOESNT EXPLAIN HOW TO DO IT!!! so i worry about litt...
A. 10 April 2010: My first kiss wasn't picture perfect either. Maybe it's because I'm from a weird very expressive family that I've grown up kissing my family on the cheek. I don't know if you have and I don't want to find out. But for me, that's how easy it was ... (read in full...)
Should I let him finger me?
Q. hi umm i need help this boy wants to finger mii weve recently dated nd recently brokeup...now he wants to finger mii but im reallly scared can u guys/girls help mii...
A. 10 April 2010: No one can help you but yourself in this situation because YOU have to draw the line. Where that line is drawn is up to you. Personally I suggest you draw it here. You didn't exactly say much but from what you did sounds to me like this guy is a ... (read in full...)
I defended myself against a high school bully and now my girlfriend has broken up with me
Q. [Moderator ote: Obviously the age posted above is incorrect] I am in the 10th grade. My girlfriend broke up with me and I don't understand why. My family moved and at the new highschool, this 11th grader started to hassle me. He wanted to ini...
A. 5 April 2010: Like the last anonymous reader I heard about the girl, and believe me I've seen people on the verge of doing the same thing. I don't take crap from people, but I don't start fights I finish em. I'm a girl but I can take and give a punch, pretty hard ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with obsessive, catty BFF's?
Q. [Op's own title] Ok, so I've been going out with this guy for about three weeks now, he's the nicest person I've ever met and I totally, totally adore him. But, my friends are acting kinda cold towards me lately,and are saying that I'm choosing him ...
A. 5 April 2010: Sweety they do sound a bit obsessive I'll give you that, I'm sure they're wonderful people but you do have to set a few boundaries here, personal space is a necessity for most people and it sounds like you could use some, the way I handle my friends ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lead my boyfriend on, but I am in love with someone else.
Q. Dear Cupid, I know I'm young but I have been through so much in my life that I just need someone to talk to me like a person and not like a silly and cute 5 year old little girl. I am having a horrible issues with 2 boys in my life. About a year...
A. 21 March 2010: :'( Summer love never exactly worked for me either, mine moved away, still haven't heard from him.
But, I'm sorry, "cute 5 year old little girl" the people on this site usually takes you seriously, that just cracked me up, I'm 13 I'm on here for ... (read in full...)
Will she end up loving me or do I need to find someone else?
Q. I don't want to tell the entire story, but for about four years, I've been in love with the girl "that got away" and it's really been hurting me...and what's even worse is that she probably has the best boyfriend in the world! He's better than me in ...
A. 21 March 2010: Dude, first on a side note before I answer your question: There ARE more girls in this world than there are guys. Odds are you will not end up alone you're 16-17 I know it seems like everybody is rushing to hook up but you really have a lot more ... (read in full...)
How to gain back a man's trust???
Q. How to gain back a man trust? He is virgo and I'm pisces. He likes to test me and I always fail those mind games. I always mess things up no matter how careful I am. Anyone have similar experiences and can teach me what to do?...
A. 21 March 2010: I think we need a little more information here, Virgo vs. Pisces, from what I know those are a pretty good match. What exactly did you do to lose his trust in the first place? I want to help you but I can only do that if you explain.
What kind of m... (read in full...)
Best friend moved, best friend came back, best friend turned into... a 13-year-old-prostitute!!!
Q. I used to have a best friend I told everything to, then one day she moved away. Lo and behold! A year later my best friend returns, everything should be perfect right? Wrong, unfortunately again, because when she came back she wasn't the friend I ...
A. 13 March 2010: Thank you to everyone who answered.
My friend and I don't talk anymore. She seems to have forgotten about me, but I'll be ok, I've got other friends. She's still acting like a slut, I tried talking to her but she just brushed it off. I really hope... (read in full...)
My best friend is obsessed with my crush
Q. So there's this guy I like. He told me he likes me to and that he wants to be with me. And I kind of want to be with him too. But my best friend likes him, a lot. So much it's almost obsessive. I've given up a guy for one of my best friends bef...
A. 8 March 2010: Sigh, I came onto this sight for the same problem. Out of the advice I got I can tell you that whatever you choose will not be easy. Ask yourself this, which is more important to you? Your friend? Your crush?
Here's the thing my friend wasn't acti... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend, and he has a girlfriend! What do I do?
Q. K so i me this guy met a year ago and i instantly liked him. We started hanging out more and more and i'm actually in love with him now. the problem is he's a complete flirt and he flirts with me and every other girl. people thought we were dating ...
A. 8 March 2010: Girl, I know where you're coming from I secretly loved my best friend for two years, I know how painful it can be. Be patient and a friend to him, but understand that you can't and shouldn't wait forever, I know it doesn't seem like it now but there ... (read in full...)
Troubled relationship...
Q. I liked this guy for 2 years. He is a year younger than me. We were in middle school and we had the same spanish teacher. He was the kind of guy that you love him but you don't think he would ever even think about liking you. So I kept it to ...
A. 8 March 2010: Sigh, fighting in couples is NEVER fun!!!! I think that's awful romantic but you kind of sunk your own ship by fighting just because that's what couples do! I don't know if it is possible for you to get him back. The best thing I think you can do is ... (read in full...)
I like this boy at school but how can I get to know him better?
Q. theres this boy at school i really like and he knows it and i can tell he wants to get to know the real me and i want to get to know him too. we dont get much chance to talk at school because we've always got friends around us and when we do talk ...
A. 8 March 2010: I agree with Blod, and while getting to know each other in person might be better I find putting things in writing is also easier. At school maybe try talking to him immediately before and after any of the classes you have with him, or before ... (read in full...)
On top of crying all over the Twilight series I am in love with my teacher
Q. I've been depressed for i while i think. I don't really see anything interesting or the point of life anymore. Things i used to enjoy i don't now and my friends who used to be like family to me i now look at like their just people who i talk to. I ...
A. 8 March 2010: Yeah, I've never really been good at talking to people either, though I've never exactly been good at keeping my mouth shut. It's just always easier for me to put things into writing, I don't why though. I'm glad things seem to be looking up for ... (read in full...)
On top of crying all over the Twilight series I am in love with my teacher
Q. I've been depressed for i while i think. I don't really see anything interesting or the point of life anymore. Things i used to enjoy i don't now and my friends who used to be like family to me i now look at like their just people who i talk to. I ...
A. 6 March 2010: Wow... Seems to me you're psychic (that's a joke, but if you really are please tell me cause I'm way, way superstitious)After reading that i was going to say try talking to a best friend who would fill those categories you're looking for. Because it ... (read in full...)
On top of crying all over the Twilight series I am in love with my teacher
Q. I've been depressed for i while i think. I don't really see anything interesting or the point of life anymore. Things i used to enjoy i don't now and my friends who used to be like family to me i now look at like their just people who i talk to. I ...
A. 5 March 2010: Love moves in strange ways, its a mystery to everyone, it is both amazing and entirely too disappointing, you seem to have your heart caught in a tough place. I know I'm asking a lot but what I'm not asking is for you to forget about him completely ... (read in full...)
On top of crying all over the Twilight series I am in love with my teacher
Q. I've been depressed for i while i think. I don't really see anything interesting or the point of life anymore. Things i used to enjoy i don't now and my friends who used to be like family to me i now look at like their just people who i talk to. I ...
A. 1 March 2010: Love is never easy and that is a HUGE understatement. I think what you need to do is SHUT THE BOOK!!! And *ding ding ding* pick up a new one! Both literally and metaphorically. Twilight is very addicting I'll admit that but if it's affecting you ... (read in full...)
Help me with ideas for a sign for my class graduation!
Q. ok i graduate in 2012 i class really want to make a hand sign that say 2012 any ideas ?? The thing is we have to use 1 or both hands . it cant be something that we have to sign out like sign language i just need a hand logo. but im open to anyth...
A. 1 March 2010: You could spell out 2012 in sign language, each person of your class doing one letter and all standing next to each other in a big picture... (read in full...)
Why is he saying such mean things about me to my friend?
Q. Hi, I'm a 16 yr old girl, I just broke-up with my bf about 2 weeks ago and to be honest i don't miss him at all as i wasn't feeling in love with him. Recently a guy I know (who likes my friend a lot) started telling her really bad things about me...
A. 24 January 2010: Don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds as if he likes you but can't convey it right so he's being immature. ... (read in full...)
A love triangle...
Q. i just got over a guy I liked for two years, and found i liked a new guy who likes me back, i went on a group date with him as friends and we were planing another when my best friend told me she liked him too. This was of course after I agreed to a ...
A. 24 January 2010: Thanks for the answers, I'm the one who posted the question "A love triangle" but I wasn't sure I could trust the site then so I didn't register. The date was both disaster and kind of okay. Of course a ton of my friends had to show up at the exact ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to wait for a guy?
Q. Hey there. Ok so when I told my best friend how strong my feelings were for him, he had told me that he liked me too but he doesnt want a girlfriend right now. Then i asked how long do i have to wait because i dont wanna wait forever and then he ...
A. 24 January 2010: No sister, you are not crazy, I just think you might be on borderline infatuation-vs-love. One way to know for sure is the fact that you brought yourself to a reality check. How strong are this guy's feelings for you? At least you had the guts to ... (read in full...)
I feel I cant match his last girlfriend for looks
Q. Okay, so I'm dating this guy and everything is great. Execpt I feel like theres alot of pressure on me. The last girl he went out with was gorgeous, she's really pretty and one of them most desired girls in school. I feel like I cant possibly li...
A. 24 January 2010: Sister,beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, I'm not just saying that, I liked a guy once for two years, when I got over him I realized he was as pasty faced and nerdy as sin, that's probably a hyperbole but what can I say? Some guys trigger ... (read in full...)
My best friend likes a jerk! Help?
Q. Hey everyone, I've been really annoyed with my friends judgement lately! My best friend, let's call her Whinnie, really likes this guy I can't stand! He is in no way attractive, practically looks albino, has a pizza face, dorky hair cut, thinks ...
A. 24 January 2010: Sister, I have been in that exact same situation. Except this guy was tan with dark hair, but just as creepy and gross. I think the best thing you can do at the moment would be to keep an eye on them. DO NOT let her go too far (my friend still ... (read in full...)
My best friend and I are fighting over a boy
Q. My best friend is saying stuff about me and I want to punch her in the face..Should I? This all started over a boy....
A. 24 January 2010: I don't have much room to talk because I wanted to do exactly the same thing. I'm in a similar situation, what I plan to do is confront her. But before you do that I think you should ask yourself this, who's more important to you your friendship or ... (read in full...)
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