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30-35,
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writes: even if i flirt with guys, they dont seem to ask me out. and all my friends can. i dont seem to have anything wrong with me so whats the problem? please give me some good flirting advice!!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 Lots of eye contact and smiles. try to hold eye contact with the one you like for six or seven seconds then smile and look away. When you take something from them touch their hand as you do it. Playfully tap them in the arm.
Always point your body in their direction, laugh at what they say even if its not funny, and always point your body in their direction.
Hope this helps x
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reader, cd206 +, writes (22 February 2007):
 Flirting is individual to every person. Nobody does it quite the same. You're so young that it's common at your age that some people in the group get all the guys while other people aren't so noticed. The important thing is not to let it get you down. Right now you're probably feeling so bad about it that it's making you really want a boyfriend. Guys can smell the "I'm desperate to have a boyfriend" vibes a mile off and won't come near you if they think that's how you feel. My advice would be to forget about guys for a while. Concetrate on your school work and having fun and you'll suddenly be surrounded by interested guys without even knowing what changed.
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 yea i guess being their friend is a good way, but you also dont want to go into the friend territory, you know what i mean? be their friend, but you cant really be their friend.. i think every time your conversations are going well you should try ot push a little bit more but dont make it so obvious.. a lot of the time today , girls make hte move first, like you could invite them to something casually,.. etc... hope that helped
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 just be yourself in front of guys, its not worth lying or behaving differently from what you really are. also, it dosent mean flirting will get you your partner straight away, it takes time.. so be patient :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): maybe you need to ask them out. You may give off a vibe that you are not approachable. Show them different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): Praise him for the qualities that men like to have recognized- strength, manliness (ie. hat they are a little dangerous and a good protector), and studliness.
And dont over do it. Its better to give a good compliment and withdrawn and than to be clingy and jibbering on. That becomes devalued.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): Hey, i'm a male, so i would know what they like lol
here's one way to do it, don't try to make it obvious that you like them, flirting isn't always rubbing up against them and saying how fantastic they are, guys like to have fun, so be yourself and be there friend, thats how my girlfriend got me
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