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I'm 17 and haven't got enough courage to talk to boys. Any ideas?

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Question - (14 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2007)
A female , *atalie...x writes:

I'm 17 and I still havent ever had a boyfriend. I havent got enough courage to talk to boys...please can I have some tips from the guys...tell me how you would like to be asked out, or whats a good hint that I like you? Thanks xxx

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A male reader, moomoomoo United States +, writes (14 February 2007):

moomoomoo agony auntI'm 17 and I still havent ever had a girlfriend. I havent got enough courage to talk to girls...please can I have some tips from the girls...tell me how you would like to be asked out, or whats a good hint that I like you? Thanks xxx

Compare that to your question. There are shy guys, just like there are shy girls, but they may not show it. Consider that possibility...

IF all of a sudden you reveal to them that you like them , they will be like WTF? unless ur considered hot or they would have already gone out with you. You should flirt/talk to him about random stuff and have a good time and get him to be a bit closer to you, but not as totally friends. If you flirt well enough he will start liking you and might make the first move.. go from there

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A female reader, Karina United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2007):

dont worry about not having had a boyfriend yet, whats the rush? shyness is a feminine quaility. Confidence will grow with age and experience. Remember dont rush into anything until you are ready and be yourself not someone else if your naturally shy be shy if your naturally confident be confident and you cant go wrong.

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A female reader, Angel-Face United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2007):

Angel-Face agony auntgirl im only 12 and i talk to lads all the time even the lads who i fancy butt that anit the point al ya gotta do is practise the night before or just say do you msn or some thing like that then u get chatting ye or you can just say Hey as you walk by

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2007):

Well im not a guy, but i thought i would answer anyway. The first thing is that you have to tell yourself your a gorgeous girl. Build up some condfidence by telling yourself this, so much that you feel it. Try not to worry to much about talking to them, there just male and there is hardly any big secret to getting along with them. Just be yourself, and you will realise that was all you had to do in the first place.

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